Anonymous
11/05/2017 07:26
Subject: What's the biggest secret you're keeping from your SO?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I had sex with 4 different women in the first year we were together (together over 5 years now-not married) including one who is our mutual friend. We are friends with the couple and I had sex with her 3 times with her DH's knowledge and permission. The other 3 were just once each including one who was only 25. Nothing since that first year but I'm sure it will happen again.
Is your as open to other sexual encounters as you are? Would you care?
Yeah, I'd care. That's not happening. I don't share but I did cheat.
Anonymous
11/05/2017 07:12
Subject: What's the biggest secret you're keeping from your SO?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I'm pregnant! I'm thrilled, but for some reason I just haven't come out with it. 9 weeks...
My DH would notice if I was 9 weeks pregnant.
How?
NP. I think any DH could tell 1) if he is attentive and 2) you've gone through this before, so he's seen it before, and would be familiar with how your body reacts to pregnancy. Your body changes. Your breasts get bigger and more tender. If you've had kids before and are thin, you might round out fairly quickly and show a (tiny) bit. If a DH is very in tune with his wive's body, I see how this could be. If you are nauseous when you are pregnant, that's another clue. Totally possible.
Anonymous
11/05/2017 02:40
Subject: What's the biggest secret you're keeping from your SO?
Anonymous wrote:I had sex with 4 different women in the first year we were together (together over 5 years now-not married) including one who is our mutual friend. We are friends with the couple and I had sex with her 3 times with her DH's knowledge and permission. The other 3 were just once each including one who was only 25. Nothing since that first year but I'm sure it will happen again.
Is your as open to other sexual encounters as you are? Would you care?
Anonymous
11/04/2017 19:18
Subject: What's the biggest secret you're keeping from your SO?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I'm pregnant! I'm thrilled, but for some reason I just haven't come out with it. 9 weeks...
My DH would notice if I was 9 weeks pregnant.
How?
Anonymous
11/04/2017 19:18
Subject: Re:What's the biggest secret you're keeping from your SO?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I hid cancer from my DH too. He was due to take the bar in February and I was diagnosed in Nov. He was working full time and JUST accepted the job within his company he needs his JD for. He was graduating in Dec so had finals thats next week and was going to take the bar 8 weeks after graduation. He was literally almost killing himself. He was working his office job for 9 hours, went to class 3 hours a night 3x a week and then would study until midnight or 1 am. Every night. I couldnt tell him. I did just up and quit my job though. It didnt look suspicious because he had just accepted his new position and the kids were little and staying at home was always talked about. I got through thanksgiving, graduation, christmas, and then had surgery and chemo in January. My best friend "took me away" on a girls trip one weekend for the surgery. The chemo was managable and only 3 times a week during the day. As soon as he walked out of that hotel where he took the bar I met him in the hotel lobby and told him. My hair was starting to fall out in clumps. I pray for you PP. I pray for you.
That's love. Very selfless and courageous. Wish you all the best.
Ditto. Don't see selfless very often, especially on DCUM.
Wishing you a long, healthy and happy life.
I don't believe the poster about hiding cancer, at all.
How did you hide the surgical scars? What access route didn't they use for chemo? Dont believe it at all.
I think if your spouse is supportive, then why not tell them? And how cluseless is your spouse? He didn't notice you weren't feeling well?
Anonymous
10/26/2017 19:33
Subject: Re:What's the biggest secret you're keeping from your SO?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I hid cancer from my DH too. He was due to take the bar in February and I was diagnosed in Nov. He was working full time and JUST accepted the job within his company he needs his JD for. He was graduating in Dec so had finals thats next week and was going to take the bar 8 weeks after graduation. He was literally almost killing himself. He was working his office job for 9 hours, went to class 3 hours a night 3x a week and then would study until midnight or 1 am. Every night. I couldnt tell him. I did just up and quit my job though. It didnt look suspicious because he had just accepted his new position and the kids were little and staying at home was always talked about. I got through thanksgiving, graduation, christmas, and then had surgery and chemo in January. My best friend "took me away" on a girls trip one weekend for the surgery. The chemo was managable and only 3 times a week during the day. As soon as he walked out of that hotel where he took the bar I met him in the hotel lobby and told him. My hair was starting to fall out in clumps. I pray for you PP. I pray for you.
That's love. Very selfless and courageous. Wish you all the best.
Ditto. Don't see selfless very often, especially on DCUM.
Wishing you a long, healthy and happy life.
I wish her a long and happy life, too. But that all sounds highly dysfunctional, and I’d hardly call it courageous.
My mother hid her cancer diagnosis from my dad. It was symptomatic of both their individual problems and their problems as a couple.
Anonymous
10/26/2017 19:23
Subject: What's the biggest secret you're keeping from your SO?
I had sex with 4 different women in the first year we were together (together over 5 years now-not married) including one who is our mutual friend. We are friends with the couple and I had sex with her 3 times with her DH's knowledge and permission. The other 3 were just once each including one who was only 25. Nothing since that first year but I'm sure it will happen again.
Anonymous
10/23/2017 13:41
Subject: Re:What's the biggest secret you're keeping from your SO?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I hid cancer from my DH too. He was due to take the bar in February and I was diagnosed in Nov. He was working full time and JUST accepted the job within his company he needs his JD for. He was graduating in Dec so had finals thats next week and was going to take the bar 8 weeks after graduation. He was literally almost killing himself. He was working his office job for 9 hours, went to class 3 hours a night 3x a week and then would study until midnight or 1 am. Every night. I couldnt tell him. I did just up and quit my job though. It didnt look suspicious because he had just accepted his new position and the kids were little and staying at home was always talked about. I got through thanksgiving, graduation, christmas, and then had surgery and chemo in January. My best friend "took me away" on a girls trip one weekend for the surgery. The chemo was managable and only 3 times a week during the day. As soon as he walked out of that hotel where he took the bar I met him in the hotel lobby and told him. My hair was starting to fall out in clumps. I pray for you PP. I pray for you.
That's love. Very selfless and courageous. Wish you all the best.
Ditto. Don't see selfless very often, especially on DCUM.
Wishing you a long, healthy and happy life.
Anonymous
10/19/2017 16:17
Subject: What's the biggest secret you're keeping from your SO?
Anonymous wrote:I used The Rules to get my now DH to marry me. It worked so well I almost thought this is too easy when he got down on one knee. It's in the back of my closet underlined and highlighted. Don't know how I'd/he'd respond if he found it.
So, are you really that happy to realize you married a guy with no other, or better, options? A man who was so desperate to get married, that he settled for a woman who was evidently not attractive enough for him to want to marry her on her own merits, but rather, through psychological deceit and trickery?
Congratulations, most people make their own Hell.
Anonymous
10/19/2017 14:43
Subject: What's the biggest secret you're keeping from your SO?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I used The Rules to get my now DH to marry me. It worked so well I almost thought this is too easy when he got down on one knee. It's in the back of my closet underlined and highlighted. Don't know how I'd/he'd respond if he found it.
Please excuse my ignorance but "The Rules"?
Book that tells women to play games to get what they want out of men.
ANd then complain when they don’t get it. Or when they do.
Men play games too...