Anonymous
Post 04/23/2026 18:36     Subject: Are We Crazy for Questioning a $250k US Degree and looking abroad?

Anonymous wrote:Hey everyone,
Following up on the conversations I see around here and other places about why more US students are looking at universities overseas. I've been going down the rabbit hole on this with my husband and my kids. My son is a Junior and daughter a Freshman. Thye have both brought up the possibility of maybe going abroad for college. My husband went to grad school in the UK and Italy so he is all for it. I’m not yet sold on it.

While it's tempting to focus on the positives, I think it's smarter to start with the real-world downsides. The biggest one for me is the career question. Let's be honest, if you go to Oxford, Cambridge, or LSE, your degree will open doors anywhere. But what if you go to a really solid, but less famous, university in the UK, Netherlands, Italy or Canada? How do grads from those schools do when they try to find a job back in the States? I worry that a hiring manager in, say, Chicago might just toss a resume because they don't recognize the school's name.

You're also thousands of miles away from US-based career fairs and the alumni network that helps people land their first job. A college consultant who specializes in EU/Canadian and UK schools actually told us that outside of Oxbridge and LSE/Imperial, we should focus only on the top 12 schools in the UK or the top 3 in each of the other EU countries. Her reasoning was that all US grad schools and the vast majority of top US companies know these specific schools, even if the general public doesn't. She said the real issue is with local or regional employers who won't recognize the name. But her point was, if your goal is to work for a local company back home, then why go abroad in the first place?

Beyond that, you're obviously giving up the traditional "American college experience." The whole campus life, dorm culture, college sports, and clubs are just a different world over there. And we can't ignore the personal side. It's a huge move. You have to deal with visa paperwork, international banking, and the very real possibility of getting homesick and not having your support system a quick flight away. It’s a serious trade-off that goes way beyond academics. This mom is a little concerned.

Now with the scary stuff out of the way, the pros are still massive. The most obvious is the cost, which is just staggering. We're talking about the potential to get a degree for a price that's less than a single year at some private US colleges. The math is pretty compelling: with many EU public universities having tuition at a fraction of US schools, the savings are life-changing. Specially if you are able to invest that savings on behalf of your kids for when they graduate. But beyond the practical stuff, I realize there's the huge benefit of actually living in a different culture for three or four years. I have to imagine that navigating a new country, becoming more independent, and seeing the world from a completely different perspective forces you to grow as an individual in a way that staying in the US just can't replicate. For kids with an interest in global business, History, Languages or international relations, this experience seems like a no-brainer. You'd be living and breathing cross-cultural communication and could potentially pick up another language, skills that can really set you apart.

But the last piece of the puzzle I was curious about was the return plan. It seems like coming back to the US for a graduate degree is a well-worn path. US Master's programs and even J.D. programs are very used to seeing applicants with international degrees. I wonder how many kids simply stay in Canada/EU/UK after graduation. Would love to hear from parents here who have had this experience before with their kids.

Sorry for the long post.


We questioned this. But left the decision to our kid. Today she decided to go to England and forgo a $100k top 30 private uni per year. We could have afforded the 4 yrs, but she asked and we agreed to save that difference for her grad school in the future.
Anonymous
Post 04/22/2026 14:10     Subject: Are We Crazy for Questioning a $250k US Degree and looking abroad?

Anonymous wrote:Hey everyone,
Following up on the conversations I see around here and other places about why more US students are looking at universities overseas. I've been going down the rabbit hole on this with my husband and my kids. My son is a Junior and daughter a Freshman. Thye have both brought up the possibility of maybe going abroad for college. My husband went to grad school in the UK and Italy so he is all for it. I’m not yet sold on it.

While it's tempting to focus on the positives, I think it's smarter to start with the real-world downsides. The biggest one for me is the career question. Let's be honest, if you go to Oxford, Cambridge, or LSE, your degree will open doors anywhere. But what if you go to a really solid, but less famous, university in the UK, Netherlands, Italy or Canada? How do grads from those schools do when they try to find a job back in the States? I worry that a hiring manager in, say, Chicago might just toss a resume because they don't recognize the school's name.

You're also thousands of miles away from US-based career fairs and the alumni network that helps people land their first job. A college consultant who specializes in EU/Canadian and UK schools actually told us that outside of Oxbridge and LSE/Imperial, we should focus only on the top 12 schools in the UK or the top 3 in each of the other EU countries. Her reasoning was that all US grad schools and the vast majority of top US companies know these specific schools, even if the general public doesn't. She said the real issue is with local or regional employers who won't recognize the name. But her point was, if your goal is to work for a local company back home, then why go abroad in the first place?

Beyond that, you're obviously giving up the traditional "American college experience." The whole campus life, dorm culture, college sports, and clubs are just a different world over there. And we can't ignore the personal side. It's a huge move. You have to deal with visa paperwork, international banking, and the very real possibility of getting homesick and not having your support system a quick flight away. It’s a serious trade-off that goes way beyond academics. This mom is a little concerned.

Now with the scary stuff out of the way, the pros are still massive. The most obvious is the cost, which is just staggering. We're talking about the potential to get a degree for a price that's less than a single year at some private US colleges. The math is pretty compelling: with many EU public universities having tuition at a fraction of US schools, the savings are life-changing. Specially if you are able to invest that savings on behalf of your kids for when they graduate. But beyond the practical stuff, I realize there's the huge benefit of actually living in a different culture for three or four years. I have to imagine that navigating a new country, becoming more independent, and seeing the world from a completely different perspective forces you to grow as an individual in a way that staying in the US just can't replicate. For kids with an interest in global business, History, Languages or international relations, this experience seems like a no-brainer. You'd be living and breathing cross-cultural communication and could potentially pick up another language, skills that can really set you apart.

But the last piece of the puzzle I was curious about was the return plan. It seems like coming back to the US for a graduate degree is a well-worn path. US Master's programs and even J.D. programs are very used to seeing applicants with international degrees. I wonder how many kids simply stay in Canada/EU/UK after graduation. Would love to hear from parents here who have had this experience before with their kids.

Sorry for the long post.


No you are not crazy. If you don’t live in a state with a great Public University option and if your kid didn’t qualify for significant Merit Aid, you are crazy to NOT look abroad. There are at least 30-40 options that would be a great for most kids that have the desire to look abroad.
Anonymous
Post 04/21/2026 18:51     Subject: Are We Crazy for Questioning a $250k US Degree and looking abroad?

Anonymous wrote:My kid went to the UK partly because he wants to be immersed in a different environment. He doesn’t know if he wants to come back to the us or not. He is lucky to have a EU passport too, although born in the US. So there are plenty of options in the EU if wants to stay. He might still come back to go to grad school in the US.

He also selected a Scottish university vs 2 different Top35 unis he was accepted to in the US. He was looking forward to be in a very multicultural environment. He is finishing his first year, has friends from all over the world and has travelled extensively in his first year. It has been a very enlightening experience for him. He loves the tutorial system and he says all of his non-American friends are super focused on school while at the same very social and ready to have a good time. He enjoys that mix as he always felt like an outsider in his HS in central US. He was a top5% student who partied a lot….He found a lot of kids like him there. Serious about the subject matter, but willing to party and not take themselves too serious in the 1st two years, when your grades in Scotland doesnt matter for their “GPA”.





Similar reasons here. EU passport, wanted to go abroad.
Anonymous
Post 04/20/2026 17:50     Subject: Are We Crazy for Questioning a $250k US Degree and looking abroad?

Anonymous wrote:My kid went to the UK partly because he wants to be immersed in a different environment. He doesn’t know if he wants to come back to the us or not. He is lucky to have a EU passport too, although born in the US. So there are plenty of options in the EU if wants to stay. He might still come back to go to grad school in the US.

He also selected a Scottish university vs 2 different Top35 unis he was accepted to in the US. He was looking forward to be in a very multicultural environment. He is finishing his first year, has friends from all over the world and has travelled extensively in his first year. It has been a very enlightening experience for him. He loves the tutorial system and he says all of his non-American friends are super focused on school while at the same very social and ready to have a good time. He enjoys that mix as he always felt like an outsider in his HS in central US. He was a top5% student who partied a lot….He found a lot of kids like him there. Serious about the subject matter, but willing to party and not take themselves too serious in the 1st two years, when your grades in Scotland doesnt matter for their “GPA”.



This is common theme with most kids wanting to go abroad. Same here. Great friends at our Canadian HS, but he wanted a more international cohort.
Anonymous
Post 04/19/2026 18:35     Subject: Are We Crazy for Questioning a $250k US Degree and looking abroad?

Anonymous wrote:My kid seriously considered a uni in Ottawa. Applied and was accepted. However, in the end decided not to go there. Some things we learned:

- cost is not necessarily lower for international students. For Ottawa it was in the low 40k USD. That’s after merit aid and not including flights home, etc. That put it on par with a few other offers from US while being less recognizable here
- there is typically no school spirit, college life is very different
- student support / hand holding is minimal
- internships may require a separate work like visa. Not all are open to international students

With all that said, it was a serious contender when selecting a college.


40K a year to be an international student at a Canadian university is way lower than spending 90K at an American private university. If you had financial aid or merit aid that made the American offers comparable great, but I have a family member who chose a Canadian university over a T20 that would have cost their parents 90K/year and they have no regrets.
Anonymous
Post 04/19/2026 18:31     Subject: Are We Crazy for Questioning a $250k US Degree and looking abroad?

I think a lot of kids dont realize this until they go nuts their first year at a Scottish uni.

the fact that all you need is a passing grade in the 1st two years gives international students a good way to get used to the grading and expectations before getting into the honours years.
Anonymous
Post 04/18/2026 15:01     Subject: Are We Crazy for Questioning a $250k US Degree and looking abroad?

Anonymous wrote:My kid went to the UK partly because he wants to be immersed in a different environment. He doesn’t know if he wants to come back to the us or not. He is lucky to have a EU passport too, although born in the US. So there are plenty of options in the EU if wants to stay. He might still come back to go to grad school in the US.

He also selected a Scottish university vs 2 different Top35 unis he was accepted to in the US. He was looking forward to be in a very multicultural environment. He is finishing his first year, has friends from all over the world and has travelled extensively in his first year. It has been a very enlightening experience for him. He loves the tutorial system and he says all of his non-American friends are super focused on school while at the same very social and ready to have a good time. He enjoys that mix as he always felt like an outsider in his HS in central US. He was a top5% student who partied a lot….He found a lot of kids like him there. Serious about the subject matter, but willing to party and not take themselves too serious in the 1st two years, when your grades in Scotland doesnt matter for their “GPA”.





Just to clarify this for other American parents….While The grades in the first two years do not count towards your uk GPA (whether you get a first, 2:1, 2:2, etc) it would count if you decide to transfer back to the US before you graduate….But overall yes, this is a great setup. It allows your kid to get a good understanding of the expectations from UK unis and it gives you some freedom in the first two years to get your act together before it really matters..It is a great thoughtful system.
Anonymous
Post 04/15/2026 22:09     Subject: Are We Crazy for Questioning a $250k US Degree and looking abroad?

Anonymous wrote:The grass is not always greener, although I understand the temptation to think it is.

Vet international unis carefully so that you and your DC truly know what to expect and to ensure a smoother journey if you do make the plunge.

It's generally easier to get in, then graduate.


Don’t think anyone in here is blind to let their kid go across the pond before doing the research. Also don’t think anyone in here has promoted the grass being greener. Most posters with kids overseas had a million different reasons for going abroad. Please give these people some credit.

The easier to get in part is really case by case, based on Course your DC is applying to and the uni applying to. Niece denied at Oxford for Econ and yet accepted at Princeton….my son was accepted at Oxford and denied at the two Ivy Leagues he applied to. So there is no rule that one is easier than the other. It is such an individual thing you cant generalize.

My kids had an amazing experience abroad. They knew what to expect and they both graduate without any issues. Like anything else in life, it is what you make of it.
Anonymous
Post 04/15/2026 22:00     Subject: Are We Crazy for Questioning a $250k US Degree and looking abroad?

The grass is not always greener, although I understand the temptation to think it is.

Vet international unis carefully so that you and your DC truly know what to expect and to ensure a smoother journey if you do make the plunge.

It's generally easier to get in, then graduate.
Anonymous
Post 04/15/2026 21:58     Subject: Are We Crazy for Questioning a $250k US Degree and looking abroad?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Hey everyone,
Following up on the conversations I see around here and other places about why more US students are looking at universities overseas. I've been going down the rabbit hole on this with my husband and my kids. My son is a Junior and daughter a Freshman. Thye have both brought up the possibility of maybe going abroad for college. My husband went to grad school in the UK and Italy so he is all for it. I’m not yet sold on it.

While it's tempting to focus on the positives, I think it's smarter to start with the real-world downsides. The biggest one for me is the career question. Let's be honest, if you go to Oxford, Cambridge, or LSE, your degree will open doors anywhere. But what if you go to a really solid, but less famous, university in the UK, Netherlands, Italy or Canada? How do grads from those schools do when they try to find a job back in the States? I worry that a hiring manager in, say, Chicago might just toss a resume because they don't recognize the school's name.

You're also thousands of miles away from US-based career fairs and the alumni network that helps people land their first job. A college consultant who specializes in EU/Canadian and UK schools actually told us that outside of Oxbridge and LSE/Imperial, we should focus only on the top 12 schools in the UK or the top 3 in each of the other EU countries. Her reasoning was that all US grad schools and the vast majority of top US companies know these specific schools, even if the general public doesn't. She said the real issue is with local or regional employers who won't recognize the name. But her point was, if your goal is to work for a local company back home, then why go abroad in the first place?

Beyond that, you're obviously giving up the traditional "American college experience." The whole campus life, dorm culture, college sports, and clubs are just a different world over there. And we can't ignore the personal side. It's a huge move. You have to deal with visa paperwork, international banking, and the very real possibility of getting homesick and not having your support system a quick flight away. It’s a serious trade-off that goes way beyond academics. This mom is a little concerned.

Now with the scary stuff out of the way, the pros are still massive. The most obvious is the cost, which is just staggering. We're talking about the potential to get a degree for a price that's less than a single year at some private US colleges. The math is pretty compelling: with many EU public universities having tuition at a fraction of US schools, the savings are life-changing. Specially if you are able to invest that savings on behalf of your kids for when they graduate. But beyond the practical stuff, I realize there's the huge benefit of actually living in a different culture for three or four years. I have to imagine that navigating a new country, becoming more independent, and seeing the world from a completely different perspective forces you to grow as an individual in a way that staying in the US just can't replicate. For kids with an interest in global business, History, Languages or international relations, this experience seems like a no-brainer. You'd be living and breathing cross-cultural communication and could potentially pick up another language, skills that can really set you apart.

But the last piece of the puzzle I was curious about was the return plan. It seems like coming back to the US for a graduate degree is a well-worn path. US Master's programs and even J.D. programs are very used to seeing applicants with international degrees. I wonder how many kids simply stay in Canada/EU/UK after graduation. Would love to hear from parents here who have had this experience before with their kids.

Sorry for the long post.


You are not crazy for questioning. But you might be to leave the US


What a bogus post…..might want to expand on that…
Anonymous
Post 04/15/2026 15:11     Subject: Are We Crazy for Questioning a $250k US Degree and looking abroad?

My kid seriously considered a uni in Ottawa. Applied and was accepted. However, in the end decided not to go there. Some things we learned:

- cost is not necessarily lower for international students. For Ottawa it was in the low 40k USD. That’s after merit aid and not including flights home, etc. That put it on par with a few other offers from US while being less recognizable here
- there is typically no school spirit, college life is very different
- student support / hand holding is minimal
- internships may require a separate work like visa. Not all are open to international students

With all that said, it was a serious contender when selecting a college.
Anonymous
Post 04/15/2026 14:22     Subject: Are We Crazy for Questioning a $250k US Degree and looking abroad?

Please explain your American bias here. Why would this be crazy?
Anonymous
Post 04/15/2026 08:42     Subject: Are We Crazy for Questioning a $250k US Degree and looking abroad?

Anonymous wrote:Hey everyone,
Following up on the conversations I see around here and other places about why more US students are looking at universities overseas. I've been going down the rabbit hole on this with my husband and my kids. My son is a Junior and daughter a Freshman. Thye have both brought up the possibility of maybe going abroad for college. My husband went to grad school in the UK and Italy so he is all for it. I’m not yet sold on it.

While it's tempting to focus on the positives, I think it's smarter to start with the real-world downsides. The biggest one for me is the career question. Let's be honest, if you go to Oxford, Cambridge, or LSE, your degree will open doors anywhere. But what if you go to a really solid, but less famous, university in the UK, Netherlands, Italy or Canada? How do grads from those schools do when they try to find a job back in the States? I worry that a hiring manager in, say, Chicago might just toss a resume because they don't recognize the school's name.

You're also thousands of miles away from US-based career fairs and the alumni network that helps people land their first job. A college consultant who specializes in EU/Canadian and UK schools actually told us that outside of Oxbridge and LSE/Imperial, we should focus only on the top 12 schools in the UK or the top 3 in each of the other EU countries. Her reasoning was that all US grad schools and the vast majority of top US companies know these specific schools, even if the general public doesn't. She said the real issue is with local or regional employers who won't recognize the name. But her point was, if your goal is to work for a local company back home, then why go abroad in the first place?

Beyond that, you're obviously giving up the traditional "American college experience." The whole campus life, dorm culture, college sports, and clubs are just a different world over there. And we can't ignore the personal side. It's a huge move. You have to deal with visa paperwork, international banking, and the very real possibility of getting homesick and not having your support system a quick flight away. It’s a serious trade-off that goes way beyond academics. This mom is a little concerned.

Now with the scary stuff out of the way, the pros are still massive. The most obvious is the cost, which is just staggering. We're talking about the potential to get a degree for a price that's less than a single year at some private US colleges. The math is pretty compelling: with many EU public universities having tuition at a fraction of US schools, the savings are life-changing. Specially if you are able to invest that savings on behalf of your kids for when they graduate. But beyond the practical stuff, I realize there's the huge benefit of actually living in a different culture for three or four years. I have to imagine that navigating a new country, becoming more independent, and seeing the world from a completely different perspective forces you to grow as an individual in a way that staying in the US just can't replicate. For kids with an interest in global business, History, Languages or international relations, this experience seems like a no-brainer. You'd be living and breathing cross-cultural communication and could potentially pick up another language, skills that can really set you apart.

But the last piece of the puzzle I was curious about was the return plan. It seems like coming back to the US for a graduate degree is a well-worn path. US Master's programs and even J.D. programs are very used to seeing applicants with international degrees. I wonder how many kids simply stay in Canada/EU/UK after graduation. Would love to hear from parents here who have had this experience before with their kids.

Sorry for the long post.


You are not crazy for questioning. But you might be to leave the US
Anonymous
Post 03/22/2026 15:09     Subject: Are We Crazy for Questioning a $250k US Degree and looking abroad?

No you are not crazy!! We did th4 same thing. It was not because of the money. But that was a pleasant upside.
Anonymous
Post 03/21/2026 14:29     Subject: Are We Crazy for Questioning a $250k US Degree and looking abroad?

My kid went to the UK partly because he wants to be immersed in a different environment. He doesn’t know if he wants to come back to the us or not. He is lucky to have a EU passport too, although born in the US. So there are plenty of options in the EU if wants to stay. He might still come back to go to grad school in the US.

He also selected a Scottish university vs 2 different Top35 unis he was accepted to in the US. He was looking forward to be in a very multicultural environment. He is finishing his first year, has friends from all over the world and has travelled extensively in his first year. It has been a very enlightening experience for him. He loves the tutorial system and he says all of his non-American friends are super focused on school while at the same very social and ready to have a good time. He enjoys that mix as he always felt like an outsider in his HS in central US. He was a top5% student who partied a lot….He found a lot of kids like him there. Serious about the subject matter, but willing to party and not take themselves too serious in the 1st two years, when your grades in Scotland doesnt matter for their “GPA”.