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Anonymous wrote:I know I will be argued with for this. But letting hair go completely grey is the most aging. Even heavy wrinkles aren’t as ageing.

I think it depends, and I also think this is one of those things that we've been societally conditioned to believe is a hallmark of aging (but only in women!), and aging is bad for women because, again, society tells us that it makes unattractive to men. And we are conditioned to believe our worth only exists in relation to the male gaze.

Thank you for coming to my ted talk.

+1. Also it’s an example of where we don’t realize what true aging looks like because women have been covering grey for so long.

I follow a lot of IG gray hair sites and I am struck by how early lots of people actually reach the tipping point to dye. I had no idea because everyone is dying.

Lots of people dye by the time they are around 30. I worked in an office with a lot of (fashionable, attractive) 30 something women and most of them probably dyed their hair. They were super fastidious about it though (going regularly to the salon) so they never had roots.

This is crazy. I am 56 and just started getting a grey hair here and there…and I pluck it. Dread when I have to start coloring!

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Anonymous wrote:I know I will be argued with for this. But letting hair go completely grey is the most aging. Even heavy wrinkles aren’t as ageing.

I think it depends, and I also think this is one of those things that we've been societally conditioned to believe is a hallmark of aging (but only in women!), and aging is bad for women because, again, society tells us that it makes unattractive to men. And we are conditioned to believe our worth only exists in relation to the male gaze.

Thank you for coming to my ted talk.

+1. Also it’s an example of where we don’t realize what true aging looks like because women have been covering grey for so long.

I follow a lot of IG gray hair sites and I am struck by how early lots of people actually reach the tipping point to dye. I had no idea because everyone is dying.

Lots of people dye by the time they are around 30. I worked in an office with a lot of (fashionable, attractive) 30 something women and most of them probably dyed their hair. They were super fastidious about it though (going regularly to the salon) so they never had roots.

This is crazy. I am 56 and just started getting a grey hair here and there…and I pluck it. Dread when I have to start coloring!

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Anonymous wrote:I know I will be argued with for this. But letting hair go completely grey is the most aging. Even heavy wrinkles aren’t as ageing.

I think it depends, and I also think this is one of those things that we've been societally conditioned to believe is a hallmark of aging (but only in women!), and aging is bad for women because, again, society tells us that it makes unattractive to men. And we are conditioned to believe our worth only exists in relation to the male gaze.

Thank you for coming to my ted talk.

+1. Also it’s an example of where we don’t realize what true aging looks like because women have been covering grey for so long.

I follow a lot of IG gray hair sites and I am struck by how early lots of people actually reach the tipping point to dye. I had no idea because everyone is dying.

Lots of people dye by the time they are around 30. I worked in an office with a lot of (fashionable, attractive) 30 something women and most of them probably dyed their hair. They were super fastidious about it though (going regularly to the salon) so they never had roots.

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Anonymous wrote:What are some common style choices that you think age women in their 40s?

1) Abdominal weight

2) Unattractive hair color/cut. You should have this figured out in your mid 20s, and update as you age.

3) Bright nailpolish. At 40, you need less attention brought to your hands.

4) The Botox/Filler look. Not attractive.

5) Only wearing athleisure. Wear real clothes.

So what were you googling that led you to this old thread

It's the woman in chinos from flyover country. Apparently nobody likes her or something.

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Anonymous wrote:What are some common style choices that you think age women in their 40s?

1) Abdominal weight

2) Unattractive hair color/cut. You should have this figured out in your mid 20s, and update as you age.

3) Bright nailpolish. At 40, you need less attention brought to your hands.

4) The Botox/Filler look. Not attractive.

5) Only wearing athleisure. Wear real clothes.

So what were you googling that led you to this old thread

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Anonymous wrote:What are some common style choices that you think age women in their 40s?

1) Abdominal weight

2) Unattractive hair color/cut. You should have this figured out in your mid 20s, and update as you age.

3) Bright nailpolish. At 40, you need less attention brought to your hands.

4) The Botox/Filler look. Not attractive.

5) Only wearing athleisure. Wear real clothes.

Anonymous wrote:What are some common style choices that you think age women in their 40s?

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Anonymous wrote:For those who want to see the nasty a** advertisement: https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/1452380886/bralisse-ultimate-breast-shapewear-to-wear-everyday?ref=adqmca&gclid=Cj0KCQjwoK2mBhDzARIsADGbjepPbqSSTDUth-M1PGOk-YEqh5nLWTeQs0UoJHSlntGz-jamBRJY8ykaAkzMEALw_wcB[/quote

Nothing nasty about that ad. It looks like an innovative idea for bras for large breasted women. I've been living with large breasts since I was about 13 and it's still a constant struggle to find bras that are comfortable, supportive enough, that maintain their shape and are affordable. I can't imagine why you would want to denigrate this person who is trying to create such a product. Please explain.

I can’t wait until they fine tune their sizes and will gladly hoist my large saggy bits into one to give it a try!

But they’re not the first to attempt this type of bra… Evelyn & Bobbie was initially funded via Kickstarter but the reality of their bras just hasn’t lived up to the hype IMO.

Personally, I don’t want my bras to make my breasts look naturally supported. I just want them up, mushed and immobilized. Like a weird molded super hero costume.