Anonymous
Post 05/17/2023 16:58     Subject: What secrets do most of your friends & family not know about you?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:In college, one of my roommates couldn't come up with his rent one month. He told me I could sleep with his girlfriend if I covered his rent that month. I took him up on the offer. It happened a few times.

Not sure why she did it, but I didn't see it as any of my concern.


Did she know of this deal beforehand? Did she want to do it? How did it happen multiple times?

She knew our deal, yeah, and didn't seem to object to it. It happened a few times because he was short on rent a few times. I wouldn't say they had a healthy relationship. She slept with two more of our housemates as well.


She must have had the hots for you otherwise she wouldnt have done it.

In retrospect, I think she was a pretty screwed up girl. The guy was kind of an ass to women, but he was a lot of fun to hang out with if you were one of his male friends. Once, when he won big on sports bets, he flew me and another guy out with him to Vegas for the weekend.
Anonymous
Post 05/17/2023 16:48     Subject: What secrets do most of your friends & family not know about you?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:In college, one of my roommates couldn't come up with his rent one month. He told me I could sleep with his girlfriend if I covered his rent that month. I took him up on the offer. It happened a few times.

Not sure why she did it, but I didn't see it as any of my concern.


Did she know of this deal beforehand? Did she want to do it? How did it happen multiple times?

She knew our deal, yeah, and didn't seem to object to it. It happened a few times because he was short on rent a few times. I wouldn't say they had a healthy relationship. She slept with two more of our housemates as well.


She must have had the hots for you otherwise she wouldnt have done it.


Uhh, no -- do prostitutes have the hots for their johns?

Her boyfriend pimped her out.
Anonymous
Post 05/17/2023 16:29     Subject: What secrets do most of your friends & family not know about you?

Our families don’t know we officially got married a week before our destination wedding.
Anonymous
Post 05/17/2023 16:25     Subject: What secrets do most of your friends & family not know about you?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:In college, one of my roommates couldn't come up with his rent one month. He told me I could sleep with his girlfriend if I covered his rent that month. I took him up on the offer. It happened a few times.

Not sure why she did it, but I didn't see it as any of my concern.


Did she know of this deal beforehand? Did she want to do it? How did it happen multiple times?

She knew our deal, yeah, and didn't seem to object to it. It happened a few times because he was short on rent a few times. I wouldn't say they had a healthy relationship. She slept with two more of our housemates as well.


She must have had the hots for you otherwise she wouldnt have done it.
Anonymous
Post 05/17/2023 16:00     Subject: What secrets do most of your friends & family not know about you?

Anonymous wrote:I am so stressed out by work that I now have IBS. I don’t exercise because I’m depressed. Work is all consumingly stressful. I have textbook general anxiety and am completely untreated. I hide all of this.


That's awful! You must take care of yourself!!
Anonymous
Post 05/17/2023 12:57     Subject: What secrets do most of your friends & family not know about you?

I am so stressed out by work that I now have IBS. I don’t exercise because I’m depressed. Work is all consumingly stressful. I have textbook general anxiety and am completely untreated. I hide all of this.
Anonymous
Post 05/17/2023 12:45     Subject: What secrets do most of your friends & family not know about you?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:In college, one of my roommates couldn't come up with his rent one month. He told me I could sleep with his girlfriend if I covered his rent that month. I took him up on the offer. It happened a few times.

Not sure why she did it, but I didn't see it as any of my concern.


Did she know of this deal beforehand? Did she want to do it? How did it happen multiple times?

She knew our deal, yeah, and didn't seem to object to it. It happened a few times because he was short on rent a few times. I wouldn't say they had a healthy relationship. She slept with two more of our housemates as well.
Anonymous
Post 05/17/2023 12:33     Subject: What secrets do most of your friends & family not know about you?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:For context, I am 55

- I was rejected from every college I applied to except for my lone safety school that pretty much had open admissions

-I had bulimia in college.

-I barely graduated from college: failed a required course last semester senior year. Had a tearful meeting with the professor who took pity upon me and hours before I was to walk changed my grade to a D-
Applying to grad school soon and honestly this is haunting me - my transcript will show my failings as a student



goodbye grad school.


Not necessarily. I have a masters from a private, non-profit's regional campus. It can be done. Sure, it's not Yale, but whatever.
Anonymous
Post 05/17/2023 12:27     Subject: What secrets do most of your friends & family not know about you?

I was a secret progressive democrat for about 20 years. Never said anything until I moved to the free state of Maryland.
Anonymous
Post 05/17/2023 12:25     Subject: What secrets do most of your friends & family not know about you?

Anonymous wrote:For context, I am 55

- I was rejected from every college I applied to except for my lone safety school that pretty much had open admissions

-I had bulimia in college.

-I barely graduated from college: failed a required course last semester senior year. Had a tearful meeting with the professor who took pity upon me and hours before I was to walk changed my grade to a D-
Applying to grad school soon and honestly this is haunting me - my transcript will show my failings as a student



goodbye grad school.
Anonymous
Post 05/17/2023 12:23     Subject: Re:What secrets do most of your friends & family not know about you?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I eliminated the man who broke into my home after following my kid home.


Do you mean killed?

What is with the euphemism?


I mean woodchipped into a lake stocked with fish on private property in one of the provinces


What is the point of this nonsense?
Kids these days....
Anonymous
Post 05/17/2023 12:19     Subject: What secrets do most of your friends & family not know about you?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I slept with my dad’s best friend when i was 19 and he about 45. Just twice.


Do you feel creepy that he was plotting on having sex with you when you were a child? What a creep!



DP
Actually I had a very, very similar experience myself. Almost same ages and circumstances. I initiated the trysts myself, he merely obliged. I’d had such horrible first sexual experiences with two prior boyfriends that I was on the verge of having an anxiety disorder over it. One of my father’s friends had a reputation as quite a lady’s man, and I approached him and explained my predicament and asked him to help me. I remember asking something to the effect of “can you please show me what GOOD sex is supposed to be like?” or something equally dorky sounding.

He was hesitant at first but I was very insistent and eventually he relented. We had several encounters over a few weeks and he rocked my world every time. Now I not only had a benchmark of what a good lover was like, but I also discovered what I enjoyed, w how to ask for it and enjoy it. Looking back, it was probably one of the smartest things I ever did. I’m sure he enjoyed himself as well, although I’d guess he didn’t get nearly as much out of it as I did.


Tell me there was abuse in your childhood without telling me...


This story could not be more fake.
Anonymous
Post 05/17/2023 12:04     Subject: What secrets do most of your friends & family not know about you?

I failed out of college.
Anonymous
Post 05/17/2023 12:00     Subject: What secrets do most of your friends & family not know about you?

Anonymous wrote:In college, one of my roommates couldn't come up with his rent one month. He told me I could sleep with his girlfriend if I covered his rent that month. I took him up on the offer. It happened a few times.

Not sure why she did it, but I didn't see it as any of my concern.


Did she know of this deal beforehand? Did she want to do it? How did it happen multiple times?
Anonymous
Post 05/17/2023 11:59     Subject: What secrets do most of your friends & family not know about you?

Anonymous wrote:I consider myself a straight person but I have experimented a few times in same sex relationships and it was fun.


Are you male or female? How did you experiment?