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Anonymous wrote:All those who said CB was drugged -- ADMIT that you were wrong! I said long ago, that if there had been drugs in her system, it would have come out already. No drugs. She was straight up being held down by JR, who unwittingly thought she wanted that.

You have to admit, and I’m going be direct that I am not victim blaming either victim for this, but he must’ve thought she was a pretty good actress from her reaction when she was being held down. Couldn’t another human being tell when another human being is terrified? I mean what if he had just stopped and said hey are you still OK with this? And she would’ve been like WTF do you mean!?

Don't people usually have a safe word for these sorts of encounters/ games? Maybe he assumed if she was truly scared she'd be using the safe word.

That is totally true, and she didn’t scream out cup cake, or the color yellow so he thought she was a great actress. There is no more room for victim blaming as it is unfair to those that lost both Joe, he was set up, and murdered in cold blood. He was asked to play a part, and then disposed as if his life meant nothing.

DP. I agree to a point but I’m suspect of any man who agrees to this arrangement. IMO, no good man would be ok with even “pretending” to rape someone. No judgement for whatever games you want but not this. Draw a line.

Get over yourself.

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Anonymous wrote:All those who said CB was drugged -- ADMIT that you were wrong! I said long ago, that if there had been drugs in her system, it would have come out already. No drugs. She was straight up being held down by JR, who unwittingly thought she wanted that.

You have to admit, and I’m going be direct that I am not victim blaming either victim for this, but he must’ve thought she was a pretty good actress from her reaction when she was being held down. Couldn’t another human being tell when another human being is terrified? I mean what if he had just stopped and said hey are you still OK with this? And she would’ve been like WTF do you mean!?

Don't people usually have a safe word for these sorts of encounters/ games? Maybe he assumed if she was truly scared she'd be using the safe word.

That is totally true, and she didn’t scream out cup cake, or the color yellow so he thought she was a great actress. There is no more room for victim blaming as it is unfair to those that lost both Joe, he was set up, and murdered in cold blood. He was asked to play a part, and then disposed as if his life meant nothing.

DP. I agree to a point but I’m suspect of any man who agrees to this arrangement. IMO, no good man would be ok with even “pretending” to rape someone. No judgement for whatever games you want but not this. Draw a line.

Body cam footage of Julianna has been released.

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Anonymous wrote:All those who said CB was drugged -- ADMIT that you were wrong! I said long ago, that if there had been drugs in her system, it would have come out already. No drugs. She was straight up being held down by JR, who unwittingly thought she wanted that.

You have to admit, and I’m going be direct that I am not victim blaming either victim for this, but he must’ve thought she was a pretty good actress from her reaction when she was being held down. Couldn’t another human being tell when another human being is terrified? I mean what if he had just stopped and said hey are you still OK with this? And she would’ve been like WTF do you mean!?

I don’t agree but understand where you’re coming from. I also wonder what happened in the minutes BB took to go back to the house.

However, everything usually happens too fast in these situations. By the time BB showed up, JR could, in fact, be at the “are you still ok with this” point, we’ll never know.
But even if JR was a murderer, which he’s not, he was still set up to be there, and not there bc he wanted to kill someone.

Likely the timeline is not as described, just as it has come out that the gun safe story was a lie (they were both armed from the getgo per the court yesterday). Either BB came back before JR got there (staging all the calls as part of the ruse) or they messaged him to wait until directed to go inside or something.

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Anonymous wrote:All those who said CB was drugged -- ADMIT that you were wrong! I said long ago, that if there had been drugs in her system, it would have come out already. No drugs. She was straight up being held down by JR, who unwittingly thought she wanted that.

You have to admit, and I’m going be direct that I am not victim blaming either victim for this, but he must’ve thought she was a pretty good actress from her reaction when she was being held down. Couldn’t another human being tell when another human being is terrified? I mean what if he had just stopped and said hey are you still OK with this? And she would’ve been like WTF do you mean!?

I don’t agree but understand where you’re coming from. I also wonder what happened in the minutes BB took to go back to the house.

However, everything usually happens too fast in these situations. By the time BB showed up, JR could, in fact, be at the “are you still ok with this” point, we’ll never know.
But even if JR was a murderer, which he’s not, he was still set up to be there, and not there bc he wanted to kill someone.

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Anonymous wrote:All those who said CB was drugged -- ADMIT that you were wrong! I said long ago, that if there had been drugs in her system, it would have come out already. No drugs. She was straight up being held down by JR, who unwittingly thought she wanted that.

You have to admit, and I’m going be direct that I am not victim blaming either victim for this, but he must’ve thought she was a pretty good actress from her reaction when she was being held down. Couldn’t another human being tell when another human being is terrified? I mean what if he had just stopped and said hey are you still OK with this? And she would’ve been like WTF do you mean!?

Yet you are victim blaming. He was trapped and then he was murdered. What you are saying is thoughtless and cruel. They both still would have been brutally murdered in seconds. No one has to admit to anything accept to again victim blaming. Shame on you for posting this.

I’m wondering if you were connected to Joe because in no way is this victim blaming it’s just being said that had there been a safe word, could it have prevented this whole tragedy? I cannot imagine what Joe thought once he realized what was really happening. The terror, The deceit, etc.

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Anonymous wrote:All those who said CB was drugged -- ADMIT that you were wrong! I said long ago, that if there had been drugs in her system, it would have come out already. No drugs. She was straight up being held down by JR, who unwittingly thought she wanted that.

You have to admit, and I’m going be direct that I am not victim blaming either victim for this, but he must’ve thought she was a pretty good actress from her reaction when she was being held down. Couldn’t another human being tell when another human being is terrified? I mean what if he had just stopped and said hey are you still OK with this? And she would’ve been like WTF do you mean!?

Don't people usually have a safe word for these sorts of encounters/ games? Maybe he assumed if she was truly scared she'd be using the safe word.

That is totally true, and she didn’t scream out cup cake, or the color yellow so he thought she was a great actress. There is no more room for victim blaming as it is unfair to those that lost both Joe, he was set up, and murdered in cold blood. He was asked to play a part, and then disposed as if his life meant nothing.

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Anonymous wrote:All those who said CB was drugged -- ADMIT that you were wrong! I said long ago, that if there had been drugs in her system, it would have come out already. No drugs. She was straight up being held down by JR, who unwittingly thought she wanted that.

You have to admit, and I’m going be direct that I am not victim blaming either victim for this, but he must’ve thought she was a pretty good actress from her reaction when she was being held down. Couldn’t another human being tell when another human being is terrified? I mean what if he had just stopped and said hey are you still OK with this? And she would’ve been like WTF do you mean!?

Yet you are victim blaming. He was trapped and then he was murdered. What you are saying is thoughtless and cruel. They both still would have been brutally murdered in seconds. No one has to admit to anything accept to again victim blaming. Shame on you for posting this.

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Anonymous wrote:All those who said CB was drugged -- ADMIT that you were wrong! I said long ago, that if there had been drugs in her system, it would have come out already. No drugs. She was straight up being held down by JR, who unwittingly thought she wanted that.

You have to admit, and I’m going be direct that I am not victim blaming either victim for this, but he must’ve thought she was a pretty good actress from her reaction when she was being held down. Couldn’t another human being tell when another human being is terrified? I mean what if he had just stopped and said hey are you still OK with this? And she would’ve been like WTF do you mean!?

Don't people usually have a safe word for these sorts of encounters/ games? Maybe he assumed if she was truly scared she'd be using the safe word.

Anonymous wrote:All those who said CB was drugged -- ADMIT that you were wrong! I said long ago, that if there had been drugs in her system, it would have come out already. No drugs. She was straight up being held down by JR, who unwittingly thought she wanted that.

You have to admit, and I’m going be direct that I am not victim blaming either victim for this, but he must’ve thought she was a pretty good actress from her reaction when she was being held down. Couldn’t another human being tell when another human being is terrified? I mean what if he had just stopped and said hey are you still OK with this? And she would’ve been like WTF do you mean!?

All those who said CB was drugged -- ADMIT that you were wrong! I said long ago, that if there had been drugs in her system, it would have come out already. No drugs. She was straight up being held down by JR, who unwittingly thought she wanted that.

The first 911 call was cut short because BB told JM to cut it off, b/c he hadn't yet stabbed CB. (from what the prosecutor's letter seems to say).

Again, imagine CB thinking she's just been saved from being attacked, and then the person who "saves" her, turns on her with a knife. We can only HOPE that CB did not see the knife coming at her and that she lost consciousness quickly.

NEW DETAILS in this article showing the prosecutor's details of what happened:

https://wjla.com/news/local/juliana-peres-magalhaes-fairfax-county-virginia-au-pair-pleaded-guilty-manslaughter-brendan-banfield-reston-virginia-double-murder-joseph-ryan-christine-shooting-trial-plea-deal#

Prosecutors say that when JM and BB went into the bedroom, JR was "holding CB down" -- so CB surely thought she was being attacked. Then BB shoots JR, and he falls away from CB.

Imagine CB trying to process what is happening... she is being attacked in her bedroom, then her husband comes in to "save her" and literally in the next few minutes, he stabs her. Was BB acting like he was comforting CB for a few minutes before he pulls out a knife and stabs her? Just really craven on the part of BB.

There’s still the few mins gap that BB took to go back to the house. It’s still unexplained what was happening within that time.

My guess:
JR was waiting in the car. Not sure if you know their house but it’s basically “hidden” in a cul de sac, with a shared driveway.

If you’re parked on the street, people in the driveway can’t quite see your car.
JM does call BB, he arrives, they go around through the other side (opposite to the driveway), go in the basement and text JR (pretending to be CB) saying he can go in and go upstairs.

That would make JR’s car and their car show up in Ring cameras around the neighborhood at the time they wanted to tell the police it happened.

That’s just a guess, obviously.

Anonymous wrote:That’s what they suggest. Doesn’t mean the judge will agree.
Maybe they told her that, like “we’re on your side, we will ask the judge to give you time served and deportation”
Maybe even they know the judge won’t take it.
That’s my hope.

Agree. I cannot believe she would serve less than 5 yrs for premeditated killing. She literally shot an innocent man to death, knowing he was innocent, after SHE lured him to the scene. She pulled the trigger and killed him when he was writhing in pain. That is COLD BLOODED, no matter how "in love" you are. I hope the judge gives her more than 1.5 yrs (which is the likely "time served"). This is where the community needs to rise up and show that they demand more than 1.5 yrs of incarceration for cold-blooded, pre-meditated, depraved heart murder.