Anonymous wrote:I have suicidal thoughts at times.

Anonymous wrote:I told you that I “lost” the pregnancy but it was not so much lost as it was intentionally terminated. You would have been an awful father and I didn’t want to be stuck to you for life.

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Anonymous wrote:I am ready for DD to move out and go to college- she is seriously grumpy and thinks the world revolves around her. Ready for her to see how life is in the real world. I'm really hoping she gets an attitude adjustment once she's on her own.

No one to blame but yourself. Coddling makes for grown up spoiled brats. Maybe if every time she broke something, you didn't replace it with a new one, she would have learned some lessons and be a better person. Give a kid everything they want for 18 years and what do you think the result will be?

Wow. Who left your sorry judgmental ass in charge? It's amazing how people on this forum make snap judgements based on one sentence.

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Anonymous wrote:After being married over 15 years of marriage and having kids, the passion between my spouse and I faded. I began an affair that made me feel young and attractive. The man was still married but he made me feel desirable and sexy. I told my XH that I wanted a divorce after know my AP for a few months. Now I realize that leaving my XH and almost losing my family based on being a cheater, a liar, a phony, selfish, and egotistical was the most imbecile and stupid thing that I could of have ever done in my entire life.

The cost is much too great. The pain that caused to my family was seriously not worth it. The affair was an illusion. I hurt a good man who gave me his life of 15 years and kids. I live each day knowing that I diminished my reputation as a mother in my children's eyes. Think about that for a moment. I made the biggest mistake of my life because I was blinded by the excitement and thrill of having an affair. Children, work, and family responsibilities are what matter in life. My XH and kids are the ones who are my world. As to the AP, he was married as well and his wife left him. A day does not go by of the selfish decision I made.

You are way too hard on yourself.

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Anonymous wrote:I told you that I “lost” the pregnancy but it was not so much lost as it was intentionally terminated. You would have been an awful father and I didn’t want to be stuck to you for life.

Wow... Just when I thought I heard it all.

Why not divorce him?

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Anonymous wrote:My cat is driving me nuts ever since I got pregnant.

I need to get her some new toys or a better cat condo because she’s getting into EVERYTHING. I bought a large houseplant and she’s been digging in the plant everyday, I come home to big clumps or dirt all over the floor. She’s clawed our fabric headboard, couches, etc.

I need some toys that can occupy her and distract her from taking her energy out on the furniture and a way to keep her from digging in the plants. It’s driving me nuts!

Not really a confession (or even a confrssion) but, okay.

I immediately thought of that when I first saw this thread. Twins!

Soulmates??

That was my first thought but, not knowing your gender, I thought twins was safer.

Hint: I could wear Manties, but I don't.

#metoo

Looks like we are indeed not soulmates.

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Anonymous wrote:My cat is driving me nuts ever since I got pregnant.

I need to get her some new toys or a better cat condo because she’s getting into EVERYTHING. I bought a large houseplant and she’s been digging in the plant everyday, I come home to big clumps or dirt all over the floor. She’s clawed our fabric headboard, couches, etc.

I need some toys that can occupy her and distract her from taking her energy out on the furniture and a way to keep her from digging in the plants. It’s driving me nuts!

Not really a confession (or even a confrssion) but, okay.

I immediately thought of that when I first saw this thread. Twins!

Soulmates??

That was my first thought but, not knowing your gender, I thought twins was safer.

Hint: I could wear Manties, but I don't.

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Anonymous wrote:I'm jealous of my coworker. She's beautiful. Like model beautiful and smart. My friend has a crush on her and I hate her for it. I do things to annoy her on purpose. I've tried to get her in trouble. I know it's pathetic and immature but I can't help it.

Could you introduce me to her?

So thirsty.

"model beautiful and smart" - that's not thirst, that's good taste. Besides, given that PP hates her co-worker, I read it as a witty troll of PP.

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Anonymous wrote:My cat is driving me nuts ever since I got pregnant.

I need to get her some new toys or a better cat condo because she’s getting into EVERYTHING. I bought a large houseplant and she’s been digging in the plant everyday, I come home to big clumps or dirt all over the floor. She’s clawed our fabric headboard, couches, etc.

I need some toys that can occupy her and distract her from taking her energy out on the furniture and a way to keep her from digging in the plants. It’s driving me nuts!

Not really a confession (or even a confrssion) but, okay.

I immediately thought of that when I first saw this thread. Twins!

Soulmates??

That was my first thought but, not knowing your gender, I thought twins was safer.

Anonymous wrote:After being married over 15 years of marriage and having kids, the passion between my spouse and I faded. I began an affair that made me feel young and attractive. The man was still married but he made me feel desirable and sexy. I told my XH that I wanted a divorce after know my AP for a few months. Now I realize that leaving my XH and almost losing my family based on being a cheater, a liar, a phony, selfish, and egotistical was the most imbecile and stupid thing that I could of have ever done in my entire life.

The cost is much too great. The pain that caused to my family was seriously not worth it. The affair was an illusion. I hurt a good man who gave me his life of 15 years and kids. I live each day knowing that I diminished my reputation as a mother in my children's eyes. Think about that for a moment. I made the biggest mistake of my life because I was blinded by the excitement and thrill of having an affair. Children, work, and family responsibilities are what matter in life. My XH and kids are the ones who are my world. As to the AP, he was married as well and his wife left him. A day does not go by of the selfish decision I made.