Anonymous wrote:
New poster here. You've lost your credibility by denying the possibility that others' children have been abused because "you* have had no issues. If you're trying to help the cause of the coaches and//or the AD, I think you're actually making it worse for them. You really can't read this thread and imagine the possibility that a kid could get sexually abused or groomed to be abused by mcps staff or coaches? Really? I think you protest too much.
Anonymous wrote:
Only someone with a personal agenda would be angry that a poster is giving parents a warning of what has happened and what to look out for.
Anonymous wrote:
You must either be one of the coaches or the Churchill athletic director.
Anonymous wrote:
You made a comment to a post regarding the coaches who got caught driving individual students (not a group) in their cars. When multiple posters said that it was not safe to do so and contrary to MCPS policy and training, you back peddled
Anonymous wrote:
Now you are clarifying your daughter was not driven to your house but in a group back to Churchill
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:
MCPS employees are trained on the protocols cor transporting students. If the coach is going house to house dropping off students, the last child is the one alone in the car with a coach unless there is another adult in the car.
Now that would be weird if a coach drove the kids to their homes. Of course he dropped them all off at Churchill.
Anonymous wrote:
Can you tell what is going on in the car on your phone? Sexual offenses like indecent touching or exposure can occur with the car moving besides what can happen in a few minutes when the car stops. Conversations in private can also put your child at risk when a predator uses the opportunity to proposition a child or shows the child pornography on a phone. A lot can go wrong with employees willing to risk their jobs just to do you "a favor".
New poster here. You've lost your credibility by denying the possibility that others' children have been abused because "you* have had no issues. If you're trying to help the cause of the coaches and//or the AD, I think you're actually making it worse for them. You really can't read this thread and imagine the possibility that a kid could get sexually abused or groomed to be abused by mcps staff or coaches? Really? I think you protest too much.
You are nuts! There is no predator here except in your fevered imagination. Do you ever let your teenager talk to a teacher after school or to a guidance counselor in their office? They could be taking the opportunity to show your kids pornography! Do you let your teenager walk to Churchill? The predators are just laying in wait!
Anyway, if you don't want your teenager to meet with a teacher after school, or walk to Churchill, or travel with other teenagers in a coach's car from a track meet, then just tell them not to do it! Let the rest of us have normal lives.
Anonymous wrote:For anyone who is not aware, there have been more than 15 students so far identified as sexual assault victims since this past July. The perpetrators were either MCPS employees, or as in the case at Damascus HS, MCPS students.
These are the community messages for when the perpetrators were arrested.
https://www.montgomeryschoolsmd.org/uploadedFiles/departments/athletics/sports/Letter%20to%20MCPS%20Sports%20Community.pdf
Community Message: Lopez (September 27, 2018)
Community Message: Ridges (September 17, 2018)
Community Message: Kabongo (August 6, 2018)
Community Message: Escobar (May 25, 2018)
Community Message: Diaz (May 9, 2018)
Community Letter Riley (May 1, 2018)
Community Letter Lagos Toro (April 2018)
Community Message: Katz ( March 17, 2018)
Community Message: Alvarado (March 2, 2018)
Community Message: Kelley ( January, 25, 2018)
Community Message: Black (October 19, 2017)
Community Message Simmons (October 5, 2017)
Community Message: Boatman (October 6, 2017)
This is the data MCPS has been collecting regarding abuse in it's schools:
Update on Child Abuse and Neglect to County Council Education Committee (September 12, 2018)
Update on the Implementation of Board of Education Policy JHC, Child Abuse and Neglect for Fiscal Year 2018 pdf
Update on the Implementation of Policy JHC, Child Abuse and Neglect, for Fiscal Years 2016 and 2017 (January 25, 2018)pdf
Board of Education Policy Management Committee Meeting October 24, 2017
Update on the Implementation of Board of Education Policy JHC, Child Abuse and Neglect, for Fiscal Year 2017 (August 16, 2017)pdf
Update on the Implementation of Board of Education Policy JHC, Child Abuse and Neglect, for Fiscal Year 2016 (July 20 , 2016)pdf
Finally, this was the statement sent out by Dr. Smith for the arrest of Michael Riley, a 30 year retiree who was a coach and athletic director. He was convicted for the statutory rape of a girl in the 1980s. He had a sex with her in the building at Rockville High School. Since Dr. Smith's letter, Riley was convicted for the crime and is serving jail time.
As the Riley case demonstrates, sexual abuse is not a new problem. It also can take the police sometimes many years to gather the evidence for the arrest. Meanwhile, parents can protect children by letting them know how a school employee is expected to treat them, let them know not to ride alone in a car with a MCPS employee, and reporting employees when they violate the safety standards that has been mandated by the school system. Employees who don't follow the rules even if they are doing you a favor are risking their jobs. Would you risk your job to do someone a favor? As adults, we know that is not how the world works.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:
MCPS employees are trained on the protocols cor transporting students. If the coach is going house to house dropping off students, the last child is the one alone in the car with a coach unless there is another adult in the car.
Now that would be weird if a coach drove the kids to their homes. Of course he dropped them all off at Churchill.
Anonymous wrote:
Can you tell what is going on in the car on your phone? Sexual offenses like indecent touching or exposure can occur with the car moving besides what can happen in a few minutes when the car stops. Conversations in private can also put your child at risk when a predator uses the opportunity to proposition a child or shows the child pornography on a phone. A lot can go wrong with employees willing to risk their jobs just to do you "a favor".
You are nuts! There is no predator here except in your fevered imagination. Do you ever let your teenager talk to a teacher after school or to a guidance counselor in their office? They could be taking the opportunity to show your kids pornography! Do you let your teenager walk to Churchill? The predators are just laying in wait!
Anyway, if you don't want your teenager to meet with a teacher after school, or walk to Churchill, or travel with other teenagers in a coach's car from a track meet, then just tell them not to do it! Let the rest of us have normal lives.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:
MCPS employees are trained on the protocols cor transporting students. If the coach is going house to house dropping off students, the last child is the one alone in the car with a coach unless there is another adult in the car.
Now that would be weird if a coach drove the kids to their homes. Of course he dropped them all off at Churchill.
Anonymous wrote:
Can you tell what is going on in the car on your phone? Sexual offenses like indecent touching or exposure can occur with the car moving besides what can happen in a few minutes when the car stops. Conversations in private can also put your child at risk when a predator uses the opportunity to proposition a child or shows the child pornography on a phone. A lot can go wrong with employees willing to risk their jobs just to do you "a favor".
You are nuts! There is no predator here except in your fevered imagination. Do you ever let your teenager talk to a teacher after school or to a guidance counselor in their office? They could be taking the opportunity to show your kids pornography! Do you let your teenager walk to Churchill? The predators are just laying in wait!
Anyway, if you don't want your teenager to meet with a teacher after school, or walk to Churchill, or travel with other teenagers in a coach's car from a track meet, then just tell them not to do it! Let the rest of us have normal lives.
Anonymous wrote:
MCPS employees are trained on the protocols cor transporting students. If the coach is going house to house dropping off students, the last child is the one alone in the car with a coach unless there is another adult in the car.
Anonymous wrote:
Can you tell what is going on in the car on your phone? Sexual offenses like indecent touching or exposure can occur with the car moving besides what can happen in a few minutes when the car stops. Conversations in private can also put your child at risk when a predator uses the opportunity to proposition a child or shows the child pornography on a phone. A lot can go wrong with employees willing to risk their jobs just to do you "a favor".
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:
Wow. You definitely do not sound like a parent. I think any normal parent would have concerns regarding this type of conduct by a school employee. I can't believe how nonchalant you let a coach drive your daughter home. You should really check in with your daughter if that actually happened. That would be a major violation particularly if it happened after the other cases were reported to MCPS.
The implied assumption when a coach is driving a team to a meet that multiple children will be in the car. The travel permission form does not have a box to check - I DO NOT GIVE PERMISSION FOR MY CHILD TO BE ALONE IN A CAR WITH AN MCPS EMPLOYEE. It definitely does not give a coach permission to take a child off school grounds for an activity like lunch or a trip home. It is MCPS protocol that an MCPS employee should have another adult in the car when transporting children. Parents would gladly pay a transportation fee for expenses for a bus so their children do not have to be alone in a coach's car.
PP here. My teenager was NOT alone with the coach in the car. The coach was doing me a favor because I was going to be late to pick up my teenager at the meet due to an emergency. I knew what time they left and I was able to track my teenager on her phone for the 20 minute ride back to the school. As I said I am much more concerned that anyone driving my teenager be a safe driver and so I normally try to do all the driving myself.
I don't know whether you have a grudge against the coaches or are just a nutcase. One can debate whether coaches should ever drive the athletes but note (1) you can tell your teenager who they can ride with, and (2) nothing discussed in this thread has anything to do with child abuse.
As a side note, track meets often last many hours and the athletes usually do not have to stay for the whole meet.
Anonymous wrote:
Wow. You definitely do not sound like a parent. I think any normal parent would have concerns regarding this type of conduct by a school employee. I can't believe how nonchalant you let a coach drive your daughter home. You should really check in with your daughter if that actually happened. That would be a major violation particularly if it happened after the other cases were reported to MCPS.
The implied assumption when a coach is driving a team to a meet that multiple children will be in the car. The travel permission form does not have a box to check - I DO NOT GIVE PERMISSION FOR MY CHILD TO BE ALONE IN A CAR WITH AN MCPS EMPLOYEE. It definitely does not give a coach permission to take a child off school grounds for an activity like lunch or a trip home. It is MCPS protocol that an MCPS employee should have another adult in the car when transporting children. Parents would gladly pay a transportation fee for expenses for a bus so their children do not have to be alone in a coach's car.