Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Muslima. For Pete's sake. Mohammed's first wife owned property before Islam even appeared. Islam did not "grant property rights to women." Why do you keep saying that?
Also, you're the one who is so big on using context to interpret the Quran, yet in this case you insist on ignoring context. You're talking about people who were acting 1400 years ago in a context of establishing relations with another tribe. Nor does pledging allegiance to the ruler of another tribe have anything to do with *choosing* the ruler that you pledge to or the "ballots" you kept referring to.
Read, woman, read. Nasty Little Muslim here. We just got through telling you that in Sura Ash Shurra there is a verse on the requirement of mutual consultations to decide all matters that require a collective opinion. It clearly makes this statement to both men and women. This means even in political matters, women's opinion mattered because usually political matters require a collective vote or opinion. But this ruling goes for everything from voting on a ruler to deciding who should clean the mosque that week.
Anonymous wrote:Muslima. For Pete's sake. Mohammed's first wife owned property before Islam even appeared. Islam did not "grant property rights to women." Why do you keep saying that?
Also, you're the one who is so big on using context to interpret the Quran, yet in this case you insist on ignoring context. You're talking about people who were acting 1400 years ago in a context of establishing relations with another tribe. Nor does pledging allegiance to the ruler of another tribe have anything to do with *choosing* the ruler that you pledge to or the "ballots" you kept referring to.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:
Muslima, do you really, really want to start all this again? Don't you remember what happened last time? Can't you see what's coming next?
- Muslim men can divorce women by saying the phrase "Talak, talak, talak." That's it. Women have to sue for divorce in court and may lose their children.
The losing children bit may or may not happen but all major madhabs agree women lose custody of children if they remarry. One of our divorcee relatives in KSA has been declining all proposals for that reason - she would rather stay single than lose her children.
anonymous wrote:
- The polygamy stuff you mentioned, except you called it polygyny which refers to women having multiple husbands./quote]
No, she's correct and you're wrong. Polygyny is multiple wives. Polyandry is multiple husbands.
OK, thanks.
Was interested to read the point that Muslim wives who are divorced get alimony for ... three months only. Again, I presume this is because they're presumed to be dependent on the male members of their families.
Anonymous wrote:
Muslima, do you really, really want to start all this again? Don't you remember what happened last time? Can't you see what's coming next?
- Muslim men can divorce women by saying the phrase "Talak, talak, talak." That's it. Women have to sue for divorce in court and may lose their children.
anonymous wrote:
- The polygamy stuff you mentioned, except you called it polygyny which refers to women having multiple husbands./quote]
No, she's correct and you're wrong. Polygyny is multiple wives. Polyandry is multiple husbands.
Muslima wrote:Furthermore, the Quran:
forbids female infanticide (practiced in pre-Islamic Arabia and other parts of the world)
instructs Muslims to educate daughters as well as sons
insists that women have the right to refuse a prospective husband
gives women rights if they are divorced by their husband
gives women the right to divorce in certain cases
gives women the right to own and inherit property (though in Sunni Islam they get only half of what men inherit. Men are expected to care for their mothers and any unmarried female relatives, and would, it is reasoned, need greater resources for this purpose.)
While polygyny is permissible, it is discouraged and on the whole practiced less frequently than imagined by Westerners. It is more frequent in the Gulf, including Saudi Arabia. Many Muslims cite the Quranic phrase "But treat them equally... and if you cannot, then one [wife] is better" and argue that monogamy is preferable, or even mandatory.
OMG, did PBS just use the word "Equal"??? Don't they know how confusing this is to their western readers![]()
Muslima wrote:
In fact, Islam gives women a number of rights, some of which were not enjoyed by Western women until the 19th century. For example, until 1882, the property of women in England was given to their husbands when they married, but Muslim women always retained their own assets. Muslim women could specify conditions in their marriage contracts, such as the right to divorce should their husband take another wife. Also, Muslim women in many countries keep their own last name after marriage.
Muslima wrote:
Some women in Muslim societies have been prominent political actors. Female relatives of the Prophet Muhammad were particularly important in the early Muslim community because they knew his practice and teachings so well. Other women came to power through fathers or husbands. Still others wielded power behind the scenes.
Aisha, the favored wife of Muhammad, had great political clout and even participated in battle (the Battle of Camel).
Muslima wrote:
Razia was a Muslim woman ruler of 13th-century India.
Amina was a 16th-century queen of Zaria in present-day Nigeria.
Shajarat al-Durr was briefly sultan in Mamluk Egypt, but was the power behind the throne for even longer.
The so-called "sultanate of women" in the Ottoman Empire during the 17th century was a period when several strong women had enormous power over affairs of state.
Huda Shaarawi, who became famous for discarding her face veil, also established a women's political party and worked for Egyptian independence from Britain in the first half of the 20th century.
Muslima wrote:
And yes Khadijah R.A was wealthy, she was a business woman. Wealthy women were able to own property and even inherit, the lower class couldn't. Take a history class and come back
Muslima wrote:Furthermore, the Quran:
forbids female infanticide (practiced in pre-Islamic Arabia and other parts of the world)
instructs Muslims to educate daughters as well as sons
insists that women have the right to refuse a prospective husband
gives women rights if they are divorced by their husband
gives women the right to divorce in certain cases
gives women the right to own and inherit property (though in Sunni Islam they get only half of what men inherit. Men are expected to care for their mothers and any unmarried female relatives, and would, it is reasoned, need greater resources for this purpose.)
While polygyny is permissible, it is discouraged and on the whole practiced less frequently than imagined by Westerners. It is more frequent in the Gulf, including Saudi Arabia. Many Muslims cite the Quranic phrase "But treat them equally... and if you cannot, then one [wife] is better" and argue that monogamy is preferable, or even mandatory.
OMG, did PBS just use the word "Equal"??? Don't they know how confusing this is to their western readers![]()
PBS didn't use the word equal. The Quran did. Again, you may believe that Islam gives women a superior deal. Others may disagree. Why is that so hard to fathom? Right of divorce "in certain cases"? As opposed to unrestricted one for men?
Also, there aren't really any rights for women post-divorce, other than a three-month paycheck.
Islam didn't invent the right to own and inherit property for women. Women owned and inherited property long before Islam. There is absolutely no evidence Islam forged a virgin path there.
Muslima wrote:
In fact, Islam gives women a number of rights, some of which were not enjoyed by Western women until the 19th century. For example, until 1882, the property of women in England was given to their husbands when they married, but Muslim women always retained their own assets. Muslim women could specify conditions in their marriage contracts, such as the right to divorce should their husband take another wife. Also, Muslim women in many countries keep their own last name after marriage.
There is no such thing as "Western women". Each Western country had its own legal framework. Women in Spain owned and inherited property independently since 12th century. The fact that Muslim women keep their names after marriage is a just a custom. It's not a particular sign of independence. In fact, some say it is to signify that a woman remains a part of her father's family more so than her husband's.
Muslima wrote:
Some women in Muslim societies have been prominent political actors. Female relatives of the Prophet Muhammad were particularly important in the early Muslim community because they knew his practice and teachings so well. Other women came to power through fathers or husbands. Still others wielded power behind the scenes.
Aisha, the favored wife of Muhammad, had great political clout and even participated in battle (the Battle of Camel).
That's not particularly special or different from any other environment. There were always powerful women, in all societies. And just which one of his wives was the favored one is a matter of some debate, even within Islam. Of course, when your daddy is president, it's easy to become revered.
Muslima wrote:
Razia was a Muslim woman ruler of 13th-century India.
Amina was a 16th-century queen of Zaria in present-day Nigeria.
Shajarat al-Durr was briefly sultan in Mamluk Egypt, but was the power behind the throne for even longer.
The so-called "sultanate of women" in the Ottoman Empire during the 17th century was a period when several strong women had enormous power over affairs of state.
Huda Shaarawi, who became famous for discarding her face veil, also established a women's political party and worked for Egyptian independence from Britain in the first half of the 20th century.
Again, how is this in any way special or different from other societies?
Muslima wrote:
And yes Khadijah R.A was wealthy, she was a business woman. Wealthy women were able to own property and even inherit, the lower class couldn't. Take a history class and come back
Oh dear. What is the source for this? Your opinion?
Apropos that, I doubt very much that an upperclass woman would have entertained marriage to an orphan with nothing much except character to recommend. AND, if your claim of her upper class status is true, that actually shows us that pre-Islamic Arabia was quite an egalitarian little place - women could propose marriage to much younger men, hire and fire, dispose of their own business, get rich and stay rich, and pick husbands not necessarily from their social milieu. Not a bad deal, if you ask me.
I may also say that most of pre-Islamic history was conveniently authored by Islamic scholars. Mainstream Muslim discourse always tries to cast "jahiliya" in the worst possible light. I wouldn't rely on Muslims to learn what pre-Islamic society was really like - too much incentive to put it down.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Personally, I feel like the moderator should just shut this thread down before Muslima does more disservice to her religion -- which I believe deserves a fair and open-minded hearing -- by dropping any more of her whoppers.
When Muslima and the nasty little sidekick make claims like this, as they've done many times before (Islam provides equality to women, more people in the US convert to Islam than immigrate), there's an inevitable pattern:
- Muslima claims Islam gave women voting rights 1400 years ago (page 23 of this thread)
- Other posters ask her for proof for multiple pages (pages 23-26 of this thread)
- Muslima cllaims that we're too stupid for her to waste her time providing proofs, she suggests the library or Google with reminders not to forget our reading glasses and suggestions that we're so stupid we'll need to ask the librarian for help (pages 23-26 of this thread), with help from the nasty little sidekick telling everybody they are gap-toothed rednecks and should go get drunk on cosmos (see the same thread pages),
- Someone else proves Muslima wrong (see 10/08/2014 19:02),
- Muslima finally posts something she claims proves her point (see page 27 of this thread) , followed by,
- More thread pages about how that doesn't prove her point at all, because it's somebody's opinion and it has nothing to do with voting,
- Muslima and the nasty little sidekick call everybody Islamophobes for spending 7+ (or 10-20 pages on issues like whether converts exceed immigrants or the meaning of "equality" when it comes to Islamic women's rights).
Honestly, how is an open and free exchange on Islam served by this BS? The moderator should shut these threads down.
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Muslima wrote:
I don't respond to Pete but for Allah's sakesince you don't trust all the "obscure" Muslim sources
Here's PBS for you :
The Quran explicitly states that men and women are equal in the eyes of God. Furthermore, the Quran:
forbids female infanticide (practiced in pre-Islamic Arabia and other parts of the world)
instructs Muslims to educate daughters as well as sons
insists that women have the right to refuse a prospective husband
gives women rights if they are divorced by their husband
gives women the right to divorce in certain cases
gives women the right to own and inherit property (though in Sunni Islam they get only half of what men inherit. Men are expected to care for their mothers and any unmarried female relatives, and would, it is reasoned, need greater resources for this purpose.)
While polygyny is permissible, it is discouraged and on the whole practiced less frequently than imagined by Westerners. It is more frequent in the Gulf, including Saudi Arabia. Many Muslims cite the Quranic phrase "But treat them equally... and if you cannot, then one [wife] is better" and argue that monogamy is preferable, or even mandatory.
Anonymous wrote:Muslima. For Pete's sake. Mohammed's first wife owned property before Islam even appeared. Islam did not "grant property rights to women." Why do you keep saying that?
Also, you're the one who is so big on using context to interpret the Quran, yet in this case you insist on ignoring context. You're talking about people who were acting 1400 years ago in a context of establishing relations with another tribe. Nor does pledging allegiance to the ruler of another tribe have anything to do with *choosing* the ruler that you pledge to or the "ballots" you kept referring to.
The Quran explicitly states that men and women are equal in the eyes of God. Furthermore, the Quran:
forbids female infanticide (practiced in pre-Islamic Arabia and other parts of the world)
instructs Muslims to educate daughters as well as sons
insists that women have the right to refuse a prospective husband
gives women rights if they are divorced by their husband
gives women the right to divorce in certain cases
gives women the right to own and inherit property (though in Sunni Islam they get only half of what men inherit. Men are expected to care for their mothers and any unmarried female relatives, and would, it is reasoned, need greater resources for this purpose.)
While polygyny is permissible, it is discouraged and on the whole practiced less frequently than imagined by Westerners. It is more frequent in the Gulf, including Saudi Arabia. Many Muslims cite the Quranic phrase "But treat them equally... and if you cannot, then one [wife] is better" and argue that monogamy is preferable, or even mandatory.
In fact, Islam gives women a number of rights, some of which were not enjoyed by Western women until the 19th century. For example, until 1882, the property of women in England was given to their husbands when they married, but Muslim women always retained their own assets. Muslim women could specify conditions in their marriage contracts, such as the right to divorce should their husband take another wife. Also, Muslim women in many countries keep their own last name after marriage.
Aisha, the favored wife of Muhammad, had great political clout and even participated in battle (the Battle of Camel).
Razia was a Muslim woman ruler of 13th-century India.
Amina was a 16th-century queen of Zaria in present-day Nigeria.
Shajarat al-Durr was briefly sultan in Mamluk Egypt, but was the power behind the throne for even longer.
The so-called "sultanate of women" in the Ottoman Empire during the 17th century was a period when several strong women had enormous power over affairs of state.
Huda Shaarawi, who became famous for discarding her face veil, also established a women's political party and worked for Egyptian independence from Britain in the first half of the 20th century.
Anonymous wrote:Personally, I feel like the moderator should just shut this thread down before Muslima does more disservice to her religion -- which I believe deserves a fair and open-minded hearing -- by dropping any more of her whoppers.
When Muslima and the nasty little sidekick make claims like this, as they've done many times before (Islam provides equality to women, more people in the US convert to Islam than immigrate), there's an inevitable pattern:
- Muslima claims Islam gave women voting rights 1400 years ago (page 23 of this thread)
- Other posters ask her for proof for multiple pages (pages 23-26 of this thread)
- Muslima cllaims that we're too stupid for her to waste her time providing proofs, she suggests the library or Google with reminders not to forget our reading glasses and suggestions that we're so stupid we'll need to ask the librarian for help (pages 23-26 of this thread), with help from the nasty little sidekick telling everybody they are gap-toothed rednecks and should go get drunk on cosmos (see the same thread pages),
- Someone else proves Muslima wrong (see 10/08/2014 19:02),
- Muslima finally posts something she claims proves her point (see page 27 of this thread) , followed by,
- More thread pages about how that doesn't prove her point at all, because it's somebody's opinion and it has nothing to do with voting,
- Muslima and the nasty little sidekick call everybody Islamophobes for spending 7+ (or 10-20 pages on issues like whether converts exceed immigrants or the meaning of "equality" when it comes to Islamic women's rights).
Honestly, how is an open and free exchange on Islam served by this BS? The moderator should shut these threads down.
Anonymous wrote:PP, you are almost single handedly engaging in a modern day lynching, except you don't have access to a rope and tree so you are doing it online.
As a Muslim woman, I can validate the truth of what Muslima has published thus far in defense of her statement support Islam granted women voting rights over 1400 years ago.
The sura Ash Shura means "consultation" and the verses she quoted are evidence that women had political say, they had the right to offer their oath of allegiance to rulers if they wanted and this was independent of their father or husband making an oath.
You said this oath of allegiance is different from voting. Not necessarily. Ash Shura, the Sura in the Quran, states those who believe in Allah will rely on consultations for deciding any matter that requires a collective opinion. This hints at the importance of democratic decisions. The language does not only refer to males, either. This requirement to come to a decision collectively applies to men and women. This is powerful evidence that women were not excluded from political decision making. Their opinion counted too.
You asked why muslim countries took so long to give Muslim women voting rights. Its a logical question and has a simple answer that any intelligent person should be able to deduce. After the Prophet died, the condition and treatment of women deteriorated, and slowly returned to pre-Islamic times. Muslima tried to explain to you, numerous times, that Saudi Arabia and other Muslim countries do not fairly reflect Islamic practice. Your misunderstanding of Islam stems basically from your inability to distinguish Islamic faith from Muslim practice.
Now you want Muslima to be banned from DCUM when you have done nothing but engaged in a modern day, online lynching of her? You follow her from thread to thread. One member of your racist group told her to go back to her country. Yet, you want HER banned?
You represent the ugly, disgusting, loathsome minority with your hatred of Islam and vendetta against religious Muslims. Very few people have come to your defense because your exposed yourself to be a promoter of hate. On the other hand, the reason more people have not come to Muslima's defense is because they recognize you may have a psychiatric disorder and explaining anything to you is pointless when you are on a one-woman-atheist-Islam-hating-racist mission.
Subject: [Masjid Tucson] Submission weekly reminder
In the name of God, Most Gracious, Most Merciful
Peace be upon you,
What does the Quran say about women and government? Do women have equal rights to vote? Can they run for president?
From the Quran we know men and women are equal (Quran 33:35), and God tells us that our leaders make decisions after due consultation (Quran 42:38) of those involved (i.e., both men and women). Thus women and men are equal in their vote.
The Quran further gives us an example of a woman ruler, who followed the principle of consultation -- the Queen of Sheba (Quran 27:29-35).
Source: http://www.masjidtucson.org/publications/books/weekly/2012/jan/jan12_women_society.txt
[Quran 42:38] They respond to their Lord by observing the Contact Prayers (Salat). Their affairs are decided after due consultation among themselves, and from our provisions to them they give (to charity).