Anonymous wrote:The owner of the site does not get into the weeds on soccer drama and who can blame him? If a post gets reported, he usually just deletes it. I wouldn't assume nefarious intent. I don't think he GAF if someone threatens to sue him.

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Anonymous wrote:We tried out for st james a few years ago when one of our current u12 teammates was playing there and intending to stay. She moved to another club, where she and her family are now huge problems, and we are leaving, but we always got the sense they just wanted our money. Awful.

Did they move to Mclean? Sounds like extra information here.

Anonymous wrote:The owner of the site does not get into the weeds on soccer drama and who can blame him? If a post gets reported, he usually just deletes it. I wouldn't assume nefarious intent. I don't think he GAF if someone threatens to sue him.

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Anonymous wrote:I am not at STJ, but I have experienced this. It is not the STJ fault, except the poor results. The league tells the clubs when they can announce when they are accepted to GA or relegated to Aspire. The club can’t make that announcement until they are given the go ahead. The same thing happened at NVA and Charlotte last year. If you are mad, be mad at the league for allowing IDs and acceptances before they let the club make the announcement they are in a different league/level.

The league doesn’t decide when STJ has tryouts. Instead of deceiving girls and their families, they could have waited until next week. It’s simple. They chose to move forward with the lie.

Correct GA doesn’t decide; however in Dec they did give all the clubs the opportunity to vote on delaying tryouts for the spring of “all” clubs in the division agreed. The only club that voted against delaying tryouts was SYC. That forced STJ to move forward while waiting for GA to determine the club’s future status as a member and while waiting on a determination of their Aspire application. Lot of moving parts for a bad situation all around but in the end, the club put themselves in that spot, not GA. How the club decided to move forward and communicate this to families is where they truly failed. But then why would it be successful when the same people responsible for the decisions that got them there are the same people determining how to move forward while trying to save their jobs. It’s never one decision, it’s the series of decisions over time that have proven to bring the club to where it is now.

IMO, Aspire has always been a part of the plan to ‘expand’ but GA made it their solution to allow STJ to maintain their membership with GA as a whole. In short, show us you can be successful in Aspire over the next 2-3 years and we will bring you back.

Why would SYC vote against that?

Because SYC starts their ID sessions in Dec to try and get ahead of the crowd.

Don’t blame SYC for anything related to STJ.
SYC has been running ID sessions at the same time for years. This is the first time there has been a delay, and it’s solely due to Snowcrete—not mismanagement.
Also, whoever claimed that the conference wanted to delay tryouts is simply wrong. GA does not have mandated ID timelines like ECNL does. That information is being misrepresented.
Please stop spreading false narratives.
If there’s blame to be placed, it belongs with Adam. Poor leadership decisions—letting strong people go and hiring unqualified replacements—have been ongoing for the past six years. This situation didn’t happen overnight. The move to Aspire is the result of years of bad decisions finally catching up.

Nailed it!


Yes, Adam needs to go. His public social media activity—particularly his strong political MAGA commentary—has been divisive and inappropriate for someone in his role.
More importantly, STJ leadership needs to be made aware of how poorly things have deteriorated under his tenure. From the outside, it appears leadership is either unaware of or disconnected from how much damage has been done since he took over. The organization has been steadily declining, and the warning signs have been visible for quite some time.

As an outsider, I communicated with Adam regarding attending a clinic. Then out of the blue, he simply stopped communicating. A few follow up e-mails and no reply’s from him. Very off putting.

This is normal behavior. Ask anybody who has a kid for one of his current teams how "well" he communicates. You should be able to sue for this type of con job.

should ask him about that one time during a boys tournament he showed up late. He was hung over and had been to a strip club club all
night with his assistant coach.(True story).. or how he got forced out as Varsity coach at freedom HS for his poor treatment of players.. how hes still in youth soccer is just crazy.

If he didn’t have this job, would anyone in the region hire him to coach? Too much baggage. Frankly I’m surprised that coaches familiar with his behavior and his reputation would accept to work for him. Shocked that 22 would align himself with this situation.

Expect 2 new hires for StJ this place is a revolving door

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Anonymous wrote:Is STJ officially Aspire? Nobody really seems to know

Someone posted earlier in the thread the email that was sent out saying they are Aspire. But perhaps that post was deleted along with a bunch of others.

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Anonymous wrote:"The St James Football Club are excited to announce the hiring of Fadia Alkhazali as our new Girls Director of Player Development in the North (Loudoun) Region for 2026-2027!
Fadia’s addition in the North along with @coachtylerb_ and @coachmarc___ in the South gives TSJFC 3 of the strongest girls U8-U12 Coaches in the DMV and further cements our commitment to providing the best developmental experience for our younger girls teams. This helps solidify our long term development strategy and commitment to developing a pipeline of players into our @girlsacademyleague program.
About Coach Fadia:
• Nearly 29 years of coaching experience in the DMV area
• 13 years at GFR Soccer Club Girls Age Group Director
• Led teams to multiple State Cup championships and consistent success in top tournaments in the all around the country.
• Strong focus on technical skills, player development, and long-term growth
• Dedicated to maintaining high standards and developing players year after year
• Passionate about grooming athletes with the goal of playing at the collegiate level
• Known for discipline, structure, accountability, and building confident, competitive players
Committed to developing skilled soccer players and preparing them for the next level, both on and off the field."

Anonymous wrote:We tried out for st james a few years ago when one of our current u12 teammates was playing there and intending to stay. She moved to another club, where she and her family are now huge problems, and we are leaving, but we always got the sense they just wanted our money. Awful.