Anonymous
Post 09/08/2021 15:12     Subject: Re:How old were you when you had your last baby?
45. #2.
Anonymous
Post 09/08/2021 15:01     Subject: Re:How old were you when you had your last baby?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:38. Had my other two kids ate 30 and 32.

I am 43 now. If I was youbger, I would go for a fourth. Ran out of time.



Do you feel you have enough time for a fourth? Are your older kids needs not as time consuming anymore? I’ve always wanted 4 but worry about meeting everyone’s needs fully. Seems like someone is bound to get lost.


Yes, I think I would be able to since there would be such a big age gap. My older 2 are pretty self sufficient and actually help around the house now. Moot point because DH and I both aren’t even considering a fourth. If I was 5 years younger, I would totally go for it.

I know a few moms with 3-4 kids very young in age and some or all the kids seem to be lost in the shuffle. I know other large families and they seem like well oiled machines.

And then I have some old friends who can’t get their shit together and they are single and childless.
Anonymous
Post 09/08/2021 14:57     Subject: Re:How old were you when you had your last baby?
Anonymous wrote:32 (my second). Looking forward to being able to travel, etc. in my 50s.


You can travel with your kids, you know. 32 is REALLY young for this area.I would never have made partner, etc.
Anonymous
Post 09/08/2021 14:39     Subject: Re:How old were you when you had your last baby?
32. Definitely wouldn’t have wanted to be any older.
Anonymous
Post 09/08/2021 14:11     Subject: Re:How old were you when you had your last baby?
Last year a week after my 42nd birthday.
Anonymous
Post 09/08/2021 14:09     Subject: Re:How old were you when you had your last baby?
Anonymous wrote:38. Had my other two kids ate 30 and 32.

I am 43 now. If I was youbger, I would go for a fourth. Ran out of time.



Do you feel you have enough time for a fourth? Are your older kids needs not as time consuming anymore? I’ve always wanted 4 but worry about meeting everyone’s needs fully. Seems like someone is bound to get lost.
Anonymous
Post 09/08/2021 14:07     Subject: How old were you when you had your last baby?
26 for first and last.

DCUM has gotten a lot younger since the last time I read a thread like this!
Anonymous
Post 09/08/2021 14:05     Subject: How old were you when you had your last baby?
40, she's now 2, i don't recall ever feeling stronger or more energetic than now. Our older kid is 6. No regrets. That said, I wouldn't got for a third, not enough time in the day.
Anonymous
Post 09/08/2021 14:05     Subject: How old were you when you had your last baby?
34
Anonymous
Post 09/08/2021 14:04     Subject: Re:How old were you when you had your last baby?
Anonymous wrote:38. Had my other two kids ate 30 and 32.

I am 43 now. If I was youbger, I would go for a fourth. Ran out of time.


My friend had twins (unplanned) at 45.
Anonymous
Post 09/08/2021 14:02     Subject: How old were you when you had your last baby?
37. Not planned. One time sex in years.
Anonymous
Post 09/08/2021 13:59     Subject: Re:How old were you when you had your last baby?
38. Had my other two kids ate 30 and 32.

I am 43 now. If I was youbger, I would go for a fourth. Ran out of time.
Anonymous
Post 09/08/2021 13:58     Subject: How old were you when you had your last baby?
39. I was very active during the pregnancy, and I think that helped keep the momentum going. No regrets.
Anonymous
Post 09/08/2021 13:55     Subject: How old were you when you had your last baby?
3rd and last at 37. I’m exhausted. Other 2 were at 19 & 35. 2nd pregnancy kicked my ass. My current pregnancy is similar to first.
Anonymous
Post 09/08/2021 13:53     Subject: How old were you when you had your last baby?
I had #2 at 35. It was a harder pregnancy but faster/easier recovery. I had zero desire to have a third kid...it took me a while to come around to having a second!