Anonymous
08/29/2021 10:03
Subject: “Your mother is totally worthless”
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Maybe take this as an opportunity to look at why you might tend to ruminate and have reoccurring negative thoughts and feelings OP. Use this as a lesson on letting go of negativity that does not serve you
Gee, do you think the “why” is that OP has a mother who says horrible things to her? Way to victim-blame. The “why” behind OP’s rumination and negative thoughts/feelings is her mother’s rudeness and harsh words. No child deserves to be called “worthless,” at any age, for any reason.
Not trying to vic blame. Trying to victim empower. No child deserves to be called worthless but as am adult you have hopefully resources to heal and move on.
I'm dying. I'm dead and have come back as a ghost to haunt you.
Then you should have said that. You didn’t. You said “take this as an opportunity to look at why,” as if it is some big mystery. Nice try at backpedaling, though.
Anonymous
08/29/2021 08:42
Subject: “Your mother is totally worthless”
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Maybe take this as an opportunity to look at why you might tend to ruminate and have reoccurring negative thoughts and feelings OP. Use this as a lesson on letting go of negativity that does not serve you
Gee, do you think the “why” is that OP has a mother who says horrible things to her? Way to victim-blame. The “why” behind OP’s rumination and negative thoughts/feelings is her mother’s rudeness and harsh words. No child deserves to be called “worthless,” at any age, for any reason.
Not trying to vic blame. Trying to victim empower. No child deserves to be called worthless but as am adult you have hopefully resources to heal and move on.
Then you should have said that. You didn’t. You said “take this as an opportunity to look at why,” as if it is some big mystery. Nice try at backpedaling, though.
Anonymous
08/28/2021 22:32
Subject: “Your mother is totally worthless”
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:All you "she was just joking" people really miss the mark. Sure, people can joke, but ask yourself who is the butt of that joke? If it's not themselves, they have no right to joke at someone else's expense. It's lazy, cheap, and hurtful masquerading as a joke. Take it someone else.
All you sensitive Sally’s who have no idea the context or history need to take it down a notch!!!!
There are a lot of ways this could’ve played out the kids go to been complaining about stuff that their mother did or couldn’t do and your grandmother was saying oh yeah your mom she’s totally worthless in a way that Meant to show how ridiculous their complaints were. I can imagine a scenario with my mother in which I would say ‘man I can’t sew’ and she would say ‘oh you are totally worthless’ and we would both laugh because of the ridiculousness of it and it was meant to be funny.
Some of you are over sensitive.
What you would say or feel is beyond irrelevant. OP said she felt worthless. The direct result of her being the butt of a joke calling her worthless. If that’s the kind of humor you want to defend and engage in, good for you. But own that you hurt people and that’s your desired result.
Anonymous
08/28/2021 20:01
Subject: “Your mother is totally worthless”
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Maybe take this as an opportunity to look at why you might tend to ruminate and have reoccurring negative thoughts and feelings OP. Use this as a lesson on letting go of negativity that does not serve you
Gee, do you think the “why” is that OP has a mother who says horrible things to her? Way to victim-blame. The “why” behind OP’s rumination and negative thoughts/feelings is her mother’s rudeness and harsh words. No child deserves to be called “worthless,” at any age, for any reason.
Not trying to vic blame. Trying to victim empower. No child deserves to be called worthless but as am adult you have hopefully resources to heal and move on.
Anonymous
08/28/2021 19:32
Subject: “Your mother is totally worthless”
OP, this thread is proof that some people just suck. And your mother is one of them. Next time she makes a dig like that, give it back to her by calling her out nicely. “Wow, Grandma, we don’t talk like that around here. We try to be kind to each other.” “Wow, Grandma, we try to build each other up around here.” “Wow, Grandma, I’m sorry you feel that way about someone who is viewed as a success by most people.” Etc.
Anonymous
08/28/2021 19:15
Subject: “Your mother is totally worthless”
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Ok you said she was joking, it was a joke , so what.
Read the OP:
"I feel pretty worthless".
That's all you and OP's mom need to know. It was an attempt at a joke. It failed miserably; as you can see, the person being "joked" about felt "pretty worthless" about it.
And, maybe OP is super sensitive. Guess we will never know.
Grow up.
My kids have Have had times where they’ve complain and I said yeah I’m terrible mom want to go get a new one?
Lighten up.
You’re an asshole.
Ok
And??
GFY and stop bothering people here, you’re not interesting, liked, or wanted.
LOL. Are you OP? You are even more immature here than your first post would lead us to believe. You really need therapy. And it sounds like your mom is right btw.
(DP)
I am OP, and the poster you are talking to is someone else. A fact you can verify with Jeff, if you like. Have a good day.
Anonymous
08/28/2021 18:44
Subject: “Your mother is totally worthless”
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Ok you said she was joking, it was a joke , so what.
Read the OP:
"I feel pretty worthless".
That's all you and OP's mom need to know. It was an attempt at a joke. It failed miserably; as you can see, the person being "joked" about felt "pretty worthless" about it.
And, maybe OP is super sensitive. Guess we will never know.
Grow up.
My kids have Have had times where they’ve complain and I said yeah I’m terrible mom want to go get a new one?
Lighten up.
You’re an asshole.
Ok
And??
GFY and stop bothering people here, you’re not interesting, liked, or wanted.
LOL. Are you OP? You are even more immature here than your first post would lead us to believe. You really need therapy. And it sounds like your mom is right btw.
(DP)
Hi Mom!
Anonymous
08/28/2021 18:29
Subject: “Your mother is totally worthless”
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Ok you said she was joking, it was a joke , so what.
Read the OP:
"I feel pretty worthless".
That's all you and OP's mom need to know. It was an attempt at a joke. It failed miserably; as you can see, the person being "joked" about felt "pretty worthless" about it.
And, maybe OP is super sensitive. Guess we will never know.
Grow up.
My kids have Have had times where they’ve complain and I said yeah I’m terrible mom want to go get a new one?
Lighten up.
You’re an asshole.
Ok
And??
GFY and stop bothering people here, you’re not interesting, liked, or wanted.
LOL. Are you OP? You are even more immature here than your first post would lead us to believe. You really need therapy. And it sounds like your mom is right btw.
(DP)
Anonymous
08/28/2021 17:07
Subject: “Your mother is totally worthless”
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Ok you said she was joking, it was a joke , so what.
Read the OP:
"I feel pretty worthless".
That's all you and OP's mom need to know. It was an attempt at a joke. It failed miserably; as you can see, the person being "joked" about felt "pretty worthless" about it.
And, maybe OP is super sensitive. Guess we will never know.
Grow up.
My kids have Have had times where they’ve complain and I said yeah I’m terrible mom want to go get a new one?
Lighten up.
You’re an asshole.
Ok
And??
GFY and stop bothering people here, you’re not interesting, liked, or wanted.
Because you don’t agree with me because I have a different perspective?
Do you realize this is not your house , or a party we’re both attending it’s the damn Internet.
Your insults don’t bother me.
Anonymous
08/28/2021 17:07
Subject: “Your mother is totally worthless”
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:All you "she was just joking" people really miss the mark. Sure, people can joke, but ask yourself who is the butt of that joke? If it's not themselves, they have no right to joke at someone else's expense. It's lazy, cheap, and hurtful masquerading as a joke. Take it someone else.
All you sensitive Sally’s who have no idea the context or history need to take it down a notch!!!!
There are a lot of ways this could’ve played out the kids go to been complaining about stuff that their mother did or couldn’t do and your grandmother was saying oh yeah your mom she’s totally worthless in a way that Meant to show how ridiculous their complaints were. I can imagine a scenario with my mother in which I would say ‘man I can’t sew’ and she would say ‘oh you are totally worthless’ and we would both laugh because of the ridiculousness of it and it was meant to be funny.
Some of you are over sensitive.
Somehow I bet if OP were to joke right back and remind her mother - jokingly, of course - about all the things the mother couldn’t do, it wouldn’t be received with humor.
Anonymous
08/28/2021 17:06
Subject: “Your mother is totally worthless”
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Ok you said she was joking, it was a joke , so what.
Read the OP:
"I feel pretty worthless".
That's all you and OP's mom need to know. It was an attempt at a joke. It failed miserably; as you can see, the person being "joked" about felt "pretty worthless" about it.
And, maybe OP is super sensitive. Guess we will never know.
Grow up.
My kids have Have had times where they’ve complain and I said yeah I’m terrible mom want to go get a new one?
Lighten up.
And if OP indeed is super sensitive, I bet her mother of all people knows it, and yet still continues to make these “jokes”. That says a whole lot about her as a mother and a person.
Guess what - if your jokes continuously hurt a loved one’s feelings, and you continue to make them anyway, they aren’t the problem.
Anonymous
08/28/2021 17:05
Subject: “Your mother is totally worthless”
Anonymous wrote:All you "she was just joking" people really miss the mark. Sure, people can joke, but ask yourself who is the butt of that joke? If it's not themselves, they have no right to joke at someone else's expense. It's lazy, cheap, and hurtful masquerading as a joke. Take it someone else.
All you sensitive Sally’s who have no idea the context or history need to take it down a notch!!!!
There are a lot of ways this could’ve played out the kids go to been complaining about stuff that their mother did or couldn’t do and your grandmother was saying oh yeah your mom she’s totally worthless in a way that Meant to show how ridiculous their complaints were. I can imagine a scenario with my mother in which I would say ‘man I can’t sew’ and she would say ‘oh you are totally worthless’ and we would both laugh because of the ridiculousness of it and it was meant to be funny.
Some of you are over sensitive.
Anonymous
08/28/2021 17:03
Subject: “Your mother is totally worthless”
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Ok you said she was joking, it was a joke , so what.
Read the OP:
"I feel pretty worthless".
That's all you and OP's mom need to know. It was an attempt at a joke. It failed miserably; as you can see, the person being "joked" about felt "pretty worthless" about it.
And, maybe OP is super sensitive. Guess we will never know.
Grow up.
My kids have Have had times where they’ve complain and I said yeah I’m terrible mom want to go get a new one?
Lighten up.
You’re an asshole.
Ok
And??
GFY and stop bothering people here, you’re not interesting, liked, or wanted.