Anonymous wrote:Topics like rape, abuse, and other trauma are not just thought-provoking topics for some kids. You can’t just treat these topics like bugs you can examine.
For some kids, this is their reality. I don’t believe it’s right to make those kids read about those topics in class, and listen to their peers potentially be flippant about them. Teachers are not trained therapists.
Again, teachers are not trained therapists. I don’t think they should be leading discussions about these topics, just because they don’t know who has experienced what.
Anonymous wrote:Are t we talking about MS here- so kids age is basically 11-13? Hard no in some of this stuff for me. Again HS is different. Public library and even school library for many, ok. Just nit the mandatory reading list.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I couldn't get past 8 seconds. There was a thread recently discussing how the books for middle schoolers had rape, cutting, abuse, etc. one side was "wtf?" the other side was "your precious snowflake should know about these things".
Even if most middle schoolers know about some of those things, that’s completely different to normalizing it as every day occurrences in a school book.
Is stuff in a school book "normalized"? I read "A Rose for Emily" in school but that didn't normalize necrophilia.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:This is great. Think about what this is teaching you girls (and boys) about relationships. Adolescents do not have fully matured.... anything!
I would never choose to read this crap- ever. Why would I want my child to read it.
I agree.
And frankly, given the fact that many kids are being raised in a single parent home (or sometimes not even that) and without proper family values, I think there's real value in doing the total opposite and going back to classical literature with strong family values so that all kids have the chance to understand what a family is supposed to look and feel like, and how relationships are supposed to work. Assigned reading in class is the only chance that a lot of kids in this country would get to have awareness of real family and relationship values. It's appalling that we're taking that away from them.
Classical literature like Hamlet, Heart of Darkness, The Yellow Wallpaper? (All “classics” I read in school for the record.) Definitely some great family and social values to be learned from those…