Anonymous wrote:This isn’t what I’ve observed in the real world. Often it is a younger version of the wife, frequently in a role quite similar to the man cheating but far more junior. But perhaps that is just the world I move in. No man I know has cheated using Ashley Madison but perhaps they just keep that very secret
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Women want an attractive man to sleep with. Men want a hole for their pole. Looks are not important for men to cheat.
Well said.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I wish I could share with you all a pic of my ex-DH’s affair partner.
LOl. Was he embarrassed when you found out what she looked like? Are they still together?
He was embarrassed and remorseful but I think for the cheating, not just bc of looks. She’s got a headshot for her ex-employer and it made me LOL. He ghosted her before I found out but she went crazy and stalked him and me. Ugly inside and out. I do wish you all could take a look for yourself. Maybe you someone here knows her. She’s middle aged married lawyer.
Ha! Ex’s was a SAHM and awful. Plain awful. She’s has had to get a menial job since discovery and same—that ugly mug in the headshot but her hands cupping her v-jay trying to look sexy is so pathetic, especially at 50. Sparkly shirt too—like she’s 15. Wtf? Trash.
I’d say they were the same woman, but this one hasn’t worked a real job in 20+ years and dumb as a stump. Mine was horrified when everyone saw her photos.
Anonymous wrote:Women want an attractive man to sleep with. Men want a hole for their pole. Looks are not important for men to cheat.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Welcome to DCUM where every relationship is commoditzed into a transfer of money and looks. Most people by definition are average looking. You could find a survey that says gorgeous people cheat more and posters would back that up.
This is about affairs/sex, not exactly “relationships”.
Anonymous wrote:Welcome to DCUM where every relationship is commoditzed into a transfer of money and looks. Most people by definition are average looking. You could find a survey that says gorgeous people cheat more and posters would back that up.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I wish I could share with you all a pic of my ex-DH’s affair partner.
LOl. Was he embarrassed when you found out what she looked like? Are they still together?
He was embarrassed and remorseful but I think for the cheating, not just bc of looks. She’s got a headshot for her ex-employer and it made me LOL. He ghosted her before I found out but she went crazy and stalked him and me. Ugly inside and out. I do wish you all could take a look for yourself. Maybe you someone here knows her. She’s middle aged married lawyer.
Ha! Ex’s was a SAHM and awful. Plain awful. She’s has had to get a menial job since discovery and same—that ugly mug in the headshot but her hands cupping her v-jay trying to look sexy is so pathetic, especially at 50. Sparkly shirt too—like she’s 15. Wtf? Trash.
I’d say they were the same woman, but this one hasn’t worked a real job in 20+ years and dumb as a stump. Mine was horrified when everyone saw her photos.
Why was her headshot also a shot where her crotch was at all involved?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I wish I could share with you all a pic of my ex-DH’s affair partner.
LOl. Was he embarrassed when you found out what she looked like? Are they still together?
He was embarrassed and remorseful but I think for the cheating, not just bc of looks. She’s got a headshot for her ex-employer and it made me LOL. He ghosted her before I found out but she went crazy and stalked him and me. Ugly inside and out. I do wish you all could take a look for yourself. Maybe you someone here knows her. She’s middle aged married lawyer.
Ha! Ex’s was a SAHM and awful. Plain awful. She’s has had to get a menial job since discovery and same—that ugly mug in the headshot but her hands cupping her v-jay trying to look sexy is so pathetic, especially at 50. Sparkly shirt too—like she’s 15. Wtf? Trash.
I’d say they were the same woman, but this one hasn’t worked a real job in 20+ years and dumb as a stump. Mine was horrified when everyone saw her photos.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Unattractive women have their pick on dating affair websites because men outnumber them in ridiculous amounts. Hence, you get men who bang anyone that lands on the hook. The women don’t care because it’s the first time they are banging that caliber. IRL they would never get something half as good looking.
They also will continually flatter the men which a narcissist thrives on. He’s not looking at her, he’s looking at himself reflected back in her eyes.
+1
Exactly. The attractive women have already swatted away so many bar flies before marriage no way they want to go through that again!
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I wish I could share with you all a pic of my ex-DH’s affair partner.
LOl. Was he embarrassed when you found out what she looked like? Are they still together?
He was embarrassed and remorseful but I think for the cheating, not just bc of looks. She’s got a headshot for her ex-employer and it made me LOL. He ghosted her before I found out but she went crazy and stalked him and me. Ugly inside and out. I do wish you all could take a look for yourself. Maybe you someone here knows her. She’s middle aged married lawyer.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Unattractive women have their pick on dating affair websites because men outnumber them in ridiculous amounts. Hence, you get men who bang anyone that lands on the hook. The women don’t care because it’s the first time they are banging that caliber. IRL they would never get something half as good looking.
They also will continually flatter the men which a narcissist thrives on. He’s not looking at her, he’s looking at himself reflected back in her eyes.
+1