Anonymous wrote:Wow, you are really dumb.
"We're" not getting $32K of your signing bonus as taxes. You pay that in withholding and then will get it back based on your annual filing. If you've been unemployed and your overall income is lower, your bonus withholding means squat.
And "cutting expenses costs you money in the long run"? You are just not very bright. There are tons of expenses that are for your convenience and not necessities. What are you teaching your kids? That it's fine to budget beyond your means, take handouts when you have other options, and you don't sometimes need to take a bird in the hand while you're looking for your forever home.
And employers are not googling your home address to see if you live in a rich neighborhood - first, many resumes I get now only include cell numbers and email addresses; second, many HR departments explicitly prohibit that sort of discrimination; and, third, it could backfire on you have have someone assume that you won't invest as much in the job because you don't need it or that it's better off going to someone who it might make a quality of life difference for.
Jesus Christ, I hope you're a troll.
Anonymous wrote:OP I held out on a job worthwhile doing. I got an offer letter today.
I wanted a sign on bonus as I did not like salary. They were constrained by salary.
So I got them to agree to $40K sign on years one and $20K in year two and three. Assuming I stay three years.
Folks whining I stayed on unemployment too long and got extra checks remember that $80K is taxable at bonus rates so you guys are getting $32,000 of my sign on in taxes. I think collecting an extra $10K in unemployment resulted in a 300 percent gain to tax payers.
Lesson never sell yourself short. If you dont think you are worth it why would your boss think you are worth it.
Remember, they are hiring you cause they need you!! Not the other way around.
Also those BS low pay consulting gigs never lead to good jobs. You are giving away the milk so they wont buy the cow. The body shop consulting firm is using you like an indentured servant. They wont let you go. Plus they often are entitled to big fee to convert you to an FTE so they wont.
You are also only unemployed if you let folks think you are unemployed. I decided I am taking a break waiting for right opportunity (yes I was unemployed and scared as needed a good job), but once I made it clear I dont have to work, I have mad skills, the employers started asking where else are you interiewing, please tell us if you have any other offers.
My new job is very exciting. I turned down a higher paying opportunity for it. I am in a huge fintech reporting directly to CEO.
There are extremely nice people I will love forever and help out to day I die in my job hunt. But 99 percent of folks turned their backs and not mad as that is how people are.
I am going to give my one car to my older daughter senior year and my car to middle daughter junior year for clinicals. My 2011 American car only has 30K miles on it so giving a 11 year old car to daughter is not a huge thing. No way in their budget of 3K for a car they they will they get anything safe or reliable.
I start work on March 22.
My wife did agree to go back to work as this was stressful mainly do to medical situation. But she will wait til Sept 2021 when school is back full time for youngest.
I am also going to keep job hunting. I dont want to be walked out the door again in a pandemic with no notice.
One wise man once told me cutting expenses costs you money in long run. Look I could of threw in the towel. Downsized, to a house I could pay cash for with lower taxes, told my children to take out loans then retired early or worked in retail or some bs job. But what message does that send.
I also think living in a nice house in a rich neighborhood even if unemployed shows you dont have to work rather than you are deperate for work.
I also posted good content on LinkedIn a lot and make a lot of calls.
I guess I am good to the next Recession. Now to pay off mortgage, pay off college, get wife back to work in next three years.
And I still took a big pay cut. The place got a deal on me. But I love the company and they gave me a shot at stock.
They also treated me with respect the whole way.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:
You don't need to replace them with cars. Replace them with a $100 bicycle.
And bike ride where? One daughter is taking job to college next fall. She is moving further from campus in a cheaper apartment. Then I need the car other kids Junior and senior year as in nursing and needs to get to hospital.
Your daughters can use them to bike to campus/hospital from their apartments. As an aspiring nurse, your daughter should know the importance of physical activity.
Anonymous wrote:OP there are massive costs with selling and buying. I plan on selling when youngest done HS at earliest. To sell now and downsize is crazy expensive. I rather wait till I retire. Go to Florida. My condo I rent has no mortgage and in a different state. I don’t want to sell as I make a lot on it. And if I sell primary at retirement and between homes could live there on a temp basis.
My three cars run perfect, low mileage but are 7-10 years old. To replace then is crazy.
One thing I learned I need to get back to work. Something with equity or pre ipo and pray stock pops. But $45 an hour nothing is popping
And my wife at best $20 an hour part time is doing nothing.
Anonymous wrote:OP there are massive costs with selling and buying. I plan on selling when youngest done HS at earliest. To sell now and downsize is crazy expensive. I rather wait till I retire. Go to Florida. My condo I rent has no mortgage and in a different state. I don’t want to sell as I make a lot on it. And if I sell primary at retirement and between homes could live there on a temp basis.
My three cars run perfect, low mileage but are 7-10 years old. To replace then is crazy.
One thing I learned I need to get back to work. Something with equity or pre ipo and pray stock pops. But $45 an hour nothing is popping
And my wife at best $20 an hour part time is doing nothing.
Anonymous wrote:OP - right now $45 works out like this. I am getting $20 an hour unemployment. So actually $25 an hour. I am all in since live in MoCo so almost 30 percent tax bracket so like another $7 off. Plus payroll taxes. SS etc another buck off.
So making $17 an hour.
If job had medical would do it. Cobra and mortgage are my biggest expenses. If unemployment ran out would do it.
My bills are at point $17 does nothing. In fact if I wanted Obama care might also be an issue.
I need around $145k to pay the bills. Remember that is taxable. But even at $145 can’t contribute much to 401k as need the income.
I think I can land a job soon. But to be honest it may be my last one.
Anonymous wrote:
1. Health insurance.
2. Rest depends on individual lifestyle. I would jump at a chance of a $45/hr job. You’re lucky.
Anonymous wrote:I never do this, but I call troll on this whole stupid thread.
Good one, OP. You got us.