Anonymous
02/09/2021 13:09
Subject: Re:New year, new confession thread.
Anonymous wrote:Married many years and I dream every day of sleeping with other men, including exes.
Welcome to the club!!!
Anonymous
02/09/2021 13:06
Subject: New year, new confession thread.
Anonymous wrote:I could care less about covid. I think all the people obsessed with it are lemmings. I believe it’s real, my family just has such a minimal likelihood of a scary outcome statistically that it’s a big yawn. Always wear a mask to be polite, though.
I think the lockdowns will be regarded as the biggest mistake in history. Just look at how our society is crumbling & how hate filled we’ve become. Ugh.
I agree with you!!!!!
Anonymous
02/09/2021 13:03
Subject: New year, new confession thread.
I cut my own hair. Terrible, terrible idea. I am beyond upset about it and am finding it hard to remember that it'll grow out.
Anonymous
02/09/2021 13:01
Subject: New year, new confession thread.
Anonymous wrote:I've been traveling since December am and taking full advantage of some of these lower than usual prices. I feel terrible about it and deleted my social media as to keep from posting. I've since been to Jamaica, Colorado, Rhode Island and Tennessee. I'm going to Antigua next month. oof.
Good for you! I am chicken and only travel in the US
Anonymous
02/09/2021 13:00
Subject: New year, new confession thread.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:My husband and I have been sleeping in separate rooms for the past year and half now- we started because snoring and tv habits were keeping each other up and no one was sleeping... It is glorious and I never want to stop.
I have the guest room tricked out and decorated exactly how I want it, it's clean and pretty, and it's my sanctuary. DH and I hang out and watch tv in the living room or in the master bedroom until I'm ready to go to sleep and then I head on over to my room. At first I was worried that it would impact our relationship negatively but it hasn't at all.
Do your kids notice or think it’s weird? When do you have sex?
They do notice but we've told them that Dad snores and Mom has trouble sleeping, so they seem to get it. We have sex in the hours that we're hanging out after the kids go to bed but before we go to sleep, just like we would if we were sleeping in the same bed. Occasionally he'll come over in the middle of the night to my bed- that is always kind of hot.
Anonymous
02/09/2021 12:57
Subject: New year, new confession thread.
Anonymous wrote:My husband and I have been sleeping in separate rooms for the past year and half now- we started because snoring and tv habits were keeping each other up and no one was sleeping... It is glorious and I never want to stop.
I have the guest room tricked out and decorated exactly how I want it, it's clean and pretty, and it's my sanctuary. DH and I hang out and watch tv in the living room or in the master bedroom until I'm ready to go to sleep and then I head on over to my room. At first I was worried that it would impact our relationship negatively but it hasn't at all.
Do your kids notice or think it’s weird? When do you have sex?
Anonymous
02/09/2021 12:54
Subject: New year, new confession thread.
My husband and I have been sleeping in separate rooms for the past year and half now- we started because snoring and tv habits were keeping each other up and no one was sleeping... It is glorious and I never want to stop.
I have the guest room tricked out and decorated exactly how I want it, it's clean and pretty, and it's my sanctuary. DH and I hang out and watch tv in the living room or in the master bedroom until I'm ready to go to sleep and then I head on over to my room. At first I was worried that it would impact our relationship negatively but it hasn't at all.
I have the guest room tricked out and decorated exactly how I want it, it's clean and pretty, and it's my sanctuary. DH and I hang out and watch tv in the living room or in the master bedroom until I'm ready to go to sleep and then I head on over to my room. At first I was worried that it would impact our relationship negatively but it hasn't at all.
Anonymous
02/09/2021 12:47
Subject: Re:New year, new confession thread.
My confession: I have lived my life like there was no pandemic going on, and I do not understand those of you who comply with rules. Sucks to be with the majority. Better to walk alone and break all the rules. You'll have more fun.
Anonymous
02/09/2021 12:10
Subject: New year, new confession thread.
I snoop when I am in others houses It is an addiction. I can't wait for this pandemic to be over to get back to it.
Anonymous
02/09/2021 08:58
Subject: New year, new confession thread.
DH and I haven’t had sex in months and I’m kind of ok with that. He seems to be too since he’s never brought it up. And before anyone says he’s getting it elsewhere, he’s not, because he never leaves the house.
Anonymous
02/09/2021 08:56
Subject: New year, new confession thread.
Anonymous wrote:I’m a nanny and working with a WAH parents has been hell for the past 11 months. The Dad is fine, but the Mom is just awful. They don’t have housekeepers come anymore and she expects me to cook and clean.
She uses 10 bath towels a week and expects them to be laundered 3 times a week. I’ve decided that is excessive, so now I only wash them once a week. I just put them in the dryer and put them away.
When she leaves her dishes in the sink, I just rinse with water and put them away. I no longer use soap for anything, unless it’s a dish I used. I figure if she wanted clean dishes, she should do them herself.
She expects me to cook all family meals (no extra pay of course), so now I use extra oil, butter and cream in my recipes. I don’t drain the fat for meat. She loves my cooking lol.
The love the kids, so for them I stay. But I’m tired of working for entitled people who never say thank you. Now i don’t mind the extra unpaid chores, because I made myself a little system where she thinks I’m doing all these chores and I know I’m not. It would be different if she was busy and actually working at home, but she does nothing all day except nap, yoga, and ignore her kids, so I don’t feel bad not helping her.
You need to bring these issue up with your employer. Do you have a contract? What does your contract state? If they want you to do extra chores, you need to renegotiate and get paid more.
Anonymous
02/09/2021 05:49
Subject: Re:New year, new confession thread.
^^I am also a Nanny and find the above post absolutely hilarious!
Your MB sounds like a tool and your job sounds like one from you know where.
Lol.
You have my sympathies. 💐
Your MB sounds like a tool and your job sounds like one from you know where.
Lol.
You have my sympathies. 💐
Anonymous
02/09/2021 01:04
Subject: New year, new confession thread.
I’m a nanny and working with a WAH parents has been hell for the past 11 months. The Dad is fine, but the Mom is just awful. They don’t have housekeepers come anymore and she expects me to cook and clean.
She uses 10 bath towels a week and expects them to be laundered 3 times a week. I’ve decided that is excessive, so now I only wash them once a week. I just put them in the dryer and put them away.
When she leaves her dishes in the sink, I just rinse with water and put them away. I no longer use soap for anything, unless it’s a dish I used. I figure if she wanted clean dishes, she should do them herself.
She expects me to cook all family meals (no extra pay of course), so now I use extra oil, butter and cream in my recipes. I don’t drain the fat for meat. She loves my cooking lol.
The love the kids, so for them I stay. But I’m tired of working for entitled people who never say thank you. Now i don’t mind the extra unpaid chores, because I made myself a little system where she thinks I’m doing all these chores and I know I’m not. It would be different if she was busy and actually working at home, but she does nothing all day except nap, yoga, and ignore her kids, so I don’t feel bad not helping her.
She uses 10 bath towels a week and expects them to be laundered 3 times a week. I’ve decided that is excessive, so now I only wash them once a week. I just put them in the dryer and put them away.
When she leaves her dishes in the sink, I just rinse with water and put them away. I no longer use soap for anything, unless it’s a dish I used. I figure if she wanted clean dishes, she should do them herself.
She expects me to cook all family meals (no extra pay of course), so now I use extra oil, butter and cream in my recipes. I don’t drain the fat for meat. She loves my cooking lol.
The love the kids, so for them I stay. But I’m tired of working for entitled people who never say thank you. Now i don’t mind the extra unpaid chores, because I made myself a little system where she thinks I’m doing all these chores and I know I’m not. It would be different if she was busy and actually working at home, but she does nothing all day except nap, yoga, and ignore her kids, so I don’t feel bad not helping her.
Anonymous
02/09/2021 00:40
Subject: Re:New year, new confession thread.
I'm the OP of the old pandemic confession thread. My confession is that I still take two hour lunches. Today I took a 3 hour lunch. All my work gets done. I wonder so hard if other people at my law firm are doing this, and I want to ask but can't without giving myself away.
Anonymous
02/09/2021 00:22
Subject: Re:New year, new confession thread.
My confession is that things are going pretty well for our family and we’ve made some changes to our lives that we’re happy and excited about. Of course we’re not happy about the pandemic in genera and the 400,000+ deaths in the country and devastation to many people’s livelihoods. And many of my friends are living the “primal scream” existence. This is a confession because I have to keep our happiness a secret so I don’t make others feel bad.