Anonymous wrote:Are courts in the habit of allowing men to demand paternity tests from mothers when child support isn't part of the equation?


Also, this is a work of fiction, but I credit OP for a more compelling storyline than the usual Hallmark Romance and Lifetime Mystery reject scripts that get posted here. for that I award you with a B+/A-

I'm not the best write but I'm telling the truth. Why would someone joke about this?

Are courts in the habit of allowing men to demand paternity tests from mothers when child support isn't part of the equation?


Also, this is a work of fiction, but I credit OP for a more compelling storyline than the usual Hallmark Romance and Lifetime Mystery reject scripts that get posted here. for that I award you with a B+/A-

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Anonymous wrote:
Bring your valuables, and make sure he can't wheedle his way into control of your local bank accounts. It's completely illegal, but it has happened before that moronic bank clerks allow unauthorized users.

Wouldn't the bank be liable?

Probably. It's rare, don't worry about it. But I know it has happened before.

Anonymous wrote:
Bring your valuables, and make sure he can't wheedle his way into control of your local bank accounts. It's completely illegal, but it has happened before that moronic bank clerks allow unauthorized users.

Wouldn't the bank be liable?

Bring your valuables, and make sure he can't wheedle his way into control of your local bank accounts. It's completely illegal, but it has happened before that moronic bank clerks allow unauthorized users.

Thank you for all of the advice everyone, I really appreciate it.

I don’t think what you’re talking about doing is wrong at all, just extremely risky. Please be safe.

Anonymous wrote:Couldn’t you just also have been cheating on him? Would he still want the baby if it wasn’t his?

Or just tell him he cheated, it’s over and you got an abortion.

If your gut is telling you he’s bad news and abusive then I would absolutely carry on with your plan. You would need to do it fast though. Then get the hell out of dodge.

He wouldn't believe me. Not only that he would demand a paternity test.

Anonymous wrote:Couldn’t you just also have been cheating on him? Would he still want the baby if it wasn’t his?

Or just tell him he cheated, it’s over and you got an abortion.

If your gut is telling you he’s bad news and abusive then I would absolutely carry on with your plan. You would need to do it fast though. Then get the hell out of dodge.

I'm considering putting in my two weeks next week taking my pets and leaving everything behind.

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Anonymous wrote:^unless you want your child to inherit something

His family has millions. I don't want anything from him. I come from nothing. I'd rather be safe and away from him.

Yes, you say that now... but millions come in handy, my dear. How about you move back home, and pay for a consultation with a lawyer as soon as you arrive. You have the option of declaring this baby's parentage on the birth certificate, in the hope that due to the distance, visits will be few and far between, and cordial, and that your child's college might be paid for (by the time he goes to college, it might be $80K a year). Or, you might decide that it's best to not declare the father on the certificate...

Umm, he is the father of your child and you are suggesting not telling him about his child. Then, you plan on lying to your and his daughter about your child’s father. I think you know that this is simply wrong. Morally and ethically wrong.

Couldn’t you just also have been cheating on him? Would he still want the baby if it wasn’t his?

Or just tell him he cheated, it’s over and you got an abortion.

If your gut is telling you he’s bad news and abusive then I would absolutely carry on with your plan. You would need to do it fast though. Then get the hell out of dodge.

Anonymous wrote:^unless you want your child to inherit something

His family has millions. I don't want anything from him. I come from nothing. I'd rather be safe and away from him.

Anonymous wrote:And do not EVER post about this child on the internet. No Facebook posts, no Twitter about motherhood, no Instagram posts. Nothing. Those can get back to him.

I hadn't thought this far ahead, thank you

^unless you want your child to inherit something