Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Don’t forget the percentage of international students really cut into the ‘normal’ American kids getting accepted to selective schools. Profit margins increased with full pay foreign students. Once you also were considered unique if you lived abroad - were the child of missionaries or diplomats. Now they simply recruit directly from the place your family was ‘posted.’ You don’t seem very unique against an international student who pays full freight. Also, agreed on quality drop in American high schools. Probably combination of factors there but seems everyone gets a medal type of thinking...
What selective colleges do this? Please be specific.
Anonymous wrote:We’ll never really know why my son was accepted into every school he applied to including an Ivy where he’s attending but my guess is that (aside from good grades and test scores) he wrote a brilliant essay and is an unusual kid. He plays the bag pipes and spent the summer working as a chocolatier in France.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:It helps to make an enormous donation, and it is totally legal, OP.
Where this is true (and it isn't everywhere), the particulars about "the number" and who to talk to at the school will circulate amongst those capable of such donations.
Anonymous wrote:Get a 23 and me test and hope you have URM blood.
Get recruited for sports.
Find a seriously connected friend.
Donate 7 figures.
Beyond that it's a lottery.
Seriously, you're best off letting your child know that there's no promise of getting into a first choice and not to pin their hopes on one school. Trying to do things to impress colleges will lead to an unhappy high school career.
Anonymous wrote:It helps to make an enormous donation, and it is totally legal, OP.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:What the F even is a GPA over 4.0. That’s garbage. The highest grade you can get is an A which is a 4.0 so this nonsense to artificially inflate grades makes me insane. Haven’t hey also made the SAT higher scoring?
Smartest thing kids can do these days is to get an actual vocation.
You must be new here. A 4.1 GPA is like garbage for selective schools.
Except that not all schools weight their GPAs. For the most part, colleges know the difference between a 3.9 at one school, a 4.1 at another and a 5.0 (or whatever insane GPA some schools allow).
Anonymous wrote:We’ll never really know why my son was accepted into every school he applied to including an Ivy where he’s attending but my guess is that (aside from good grades and test scores) he wrote a brilliant essay and is an unusual kid. He plays the bag pipes and spent the summer working as a chocolatier in France.
Anonymous wrote:The secret is sports. Every sport at every school is allowed a certain number of recruits and those kids don’t need to have the same insane resumes. They usually still need decent grades and scores but there is way more flexibility. Make friends with the coaches at the chosen school bye emailing them in a friendly manner and that way they will remember your kid and possibly offer them one of the slots.
Anonymous wrote:If you were really committed to your kid going to a top college, you’d move to wyoming or montana or someplace like that. It’s easier to get in from a remote state that doesn’t send a ton of kids to top schools than it is from the DC metro area/any of the major cities.
Anonymous wrote:I don’t think this thread has discussed the benefit of being a legacy at many elite colleges.
FWIW the number of international applicants is way down, which is an awful development for our country’s economic future, but that’s a topic for a whole other board.