Anonymous
01/12/2021 14:05
Subject: How do I get my family to stop sending unwanted gifts?
Anonymous wrote:Just need to bump this thread... in-laws came by and dropped of a bunch of junk. Like seriously, stuff that came out a junk drawer, china made crap, etc. etc.
agree with 1/2 15:35 that you can't keep parroting "just donate" because they created a problem for me and donation places don't want this garbage so I can't create a problem for them and keep this stupid cycle going. Everything went into the trash.
I just fear there will be more as they are downsizing...such a pain.
My MIL is the same way. Every time she comes over, bags and bags of junk for the kids...including stuff her friends don't want. Sometimes it's huge stuff like a pink infant stroller (I have sons, we have a stroller, and it was an infant stroller that was too small for them).
Anonymous
01/10/2021 13:22
Subject: How do I get my family to stop sending unwanted gifts?
Just need to bump this thread... in-laws came by and dropped of a bunch of junk. Like seriously, stuff that came out a junk drawer, china made crap, etc. etc.
agree with 1/2 15:35 that you can't keep parroting "just donate" because they created a problem for me and donation places don't want this garbage so I can't create a problem for them and keep this stupid cycle going. Everything went into the trash.
I just fear there will be more as they are downsizing...such a pain.
agree with 1/2 15:35 that you can't keep parroting "just donate" because they created a problem for me and donation places don't want this garbage so I can't create a problem for them and keep this stupid cycle going. Everything went into the trash.
I just fear there will be more as they are downsizing...such a pain.
Anonymous
01/02/2021 21:33
Subject: Re:How do I get my family to stop sending unwanted gifts?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP if they choose not to stop and don't care if its reciprocated suggest gift cards
That’s tacky.
They're tacky.
Anonymous
01/02/2021 15:35
Subject: Re:How do I get my family to stop sending unwanted gifts?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Just donate the gifts. How can you possibly not know this?
Not OP, but we really need to get out of the mentality that isn't NBD to keep buying junk and imposing it on others. Climate change is real. Some of this is junk that absolutely nobody wants. It would be nice if these "givers" understand the true gift is being a kind and lovely person, not doing a junk dump on someone who asked you to stop repeatedly. The landfills are overflowing with crap. Just stop. I think it needs to become more socially acceptable to just not accept it at all and let them figure out what to do with it or hopefully stop. When someone asks you to stop giving gifts and you continue, you are not a big hearted person or some overly giving person who is unappreciated. It's obnoxious behavior.
Agree with you. The whole "donation" option has given people an faux ethical excuse to keep up the whole excessive consumption cycle and continue destroying the earth.
All of this!