Tell him it's time to unite, not divide.

Anonymous wrote:Bye Felicia.

You will be so much happier in a few years.

Mourn the loss of who you thought he was, move on.

Agree.

He should be able to handle this difference of opinion within a relationship.

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Anonymous wrote:I gotta say I don't know how couples who did not both support Trump could stay together over the past four years. The difference in ideology and morality is too big of a gap to reconcile. It goes to the core of who you are as a person.

This! My husband and I are rabid Trump supporters. We will accept the results once all is clear. Republicans 2024! Enjoy while you can! Life is still good with us!

+1. Husband and I are both Trump supporters. We don't agree with the election results but we will respect it if it turns out to actually be legit. Americans rise up 2024. I'm in it for all Americans, not just Republicans.

There has not been the tiniest bit of evidence that it is not. Comments like this are designed to undermine faith in democracy.

OP, I wish you luck.

PP here. That's your opinion. There has been lots of evidence from what I've looked into but nothing the media is reporting. We can agree to disagree. That is why we are in America. We have the wonderful freedom to have different opinions.

DP, I totally respect a difference of opinions. But we cannot accept a different set of facts. where is this evidence? Republican election officials themselves have come out and said there has been no fraud or election tampering. You do realize that there is a lot, a ton in fact, of misleading BS all over the internet. Even Fox News hasn't found anything - and you know they would be the first to report if there was anything even remotely credible.

Anonymous wrote:Can I just say I’m jealous?? I wish mine would ask for a divorce. The things he’s telling our kids scares the hell outta me.

Grow a spine and determine your own future. File.

Anonymous wrote:So, let me get this straight ....Husbands and wives now have to vote the same in order to survive marriage? My DH and I did NOT vote for the same candidate in the recent election. I am confident with my choice as he is with his. Move on, the election is over. Is it social media that has made everyone so vocal and immature?

NP - I’m a moderate Democrat. DH is a moderate Republican. We would not have survived if he was a Trumper. That’s not just a difference of opinion; it’s a fundamental incompatibility. I can’t overlook or respect supporting a candidate who championed sexism, homophobia, xenophobia, and racism.

Can I just say I’m jealous?? I wish mine would ask for a divorce. The things he’s telling our kids scares the hell outta me.

So, let me get this straight ....Husbands and wives now have to vote the same in order to survive marriage? My DH and I did NOT vote for the same candidate in the recent election. I am confident with my choice as he is with his. Move on, the election is over. Is it social media that has made everyone so vocal and immature?

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Anonymous wrote:I gotta say I don't know how couples who did not both support Trump could stay together over the past four years. The difference in ideology and morality is too big of a gap to reconcile. It goes to the core of who you are as a person.

This! My husband and I are rabid Trump supporters. We will accept the results once all is clear. Republicans 2024! Enjoy while you can! Life is still good with us!

+1. Husband and I are both Trump supporters. We don't agree with the election results but we will respect it if it turns out to actually be legit. Americans rise up 2024. I'm in it for all Americans, not just Republicans.

There has not been the tiniest bit of evidence that it is not. Comments like this are designed to undermine faith in democracy.

OP, I wish you luck.

PP here. That's your opinion. There has been lots of evidence from what I've looked into but nothing the media is reporting. We can agree to disagree. That is why we are in America. We have the wonderful freedom to have different opinions.

What have your independent investigations turned up?

yes, pray tell, what 'alternate facts' have you turned up?

Your fearless leader has proven that internal threats pose the biggest threat to the US. From the highest office on the inside, he has torn apart government institutions, systems, faith in government and any faith we had in each other to be kind, knowledgeable and self-aware enough to do even the most basic 'right things'. His own government has funded the research that shows voter fraud occurs at a rate of between between 1/1000 and 1/10000th of a percent- and that is being generous. Even the Heritage Foundation's own numbers (right wing think tank) has determined that fraud is inconsequential. Trump declared fraud in 2016 and is claiming it now, the same way he still talks about Hillary. He has been equally successful at 'locking her up' for as he has been at proving voter fraud over the last 4 years. Move along and do some navel-gazing about what chord this clown strikes in you when at every turn he makes every possible worst choice.

Anonymous wrote:I am so sorry you are going through this. I have realized a profound truth that most Trump supporters have narcissistic personality disorder. I’m a clinician and feel confident saying this. So there are likely many problems in your marriage and your husband being a Trump supporter is only one of them. It must not been easy to stand up for your believes being married to a person with NPD. I’m here to tell you that you will get through this and divorcing this man will mean that your kids will spend at least fifty percent of their home lives not in the presence of a bully.

You are a clinician and actually believe trump supporters are narcissistic? I honestly question your integrity as a clinician. Some people support trump for other reasons than you obviously can understand. They believe they voted against anti-semitism, for example, which pervades the progressive part of the Democratic Party. The believe that critical race theory is racist. They believe defunding the police is very dangerous. They are frightened of Marxist values. There’s more to supporting Trump than narcissism.

My BFF, a Democrat and agnostic, has been married to a conservative Christian Republican for 15 years. It works because they don’t discuss politics, attend church together and are childfree. They also keep their finances separate.

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Anonymous wrote:I gotta say I don't know how couples who did not both support ***** could stay together over the past four years. The difference in ideology and morality is too big of a gap to reconcile. It goes to the core of who you are as a person.

Not if you’re a mature adult who can handle differences of opinion.

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Normal people have (and appreciate) differences of opinion. You people are something else. We’ve rarely seen eye to eye politically and do just fine.

Yeah, no. That may have been true with previous Republican presidents, but 45 is walking, breathing garbage and if you support him, you are too. "Difference of opinion." LOL.

Anonymous wrote:I’m in the same boat as OP, but my kids are grown. Last 4 years have been hard between Trump husband, his alcoholism, and now a Pandemic. Definitely reconsidering trying to work it out, but our values are now so obviously different. 😢

Don’t blame Trump or politics for you picking a bad spouse. That’s on you.

Anonymous wrote:I gotta say I don't know how couples who did not both support Trump could stay together over the past four years. The difference in ideology and morality is too big of a gap to reconcile. It goes to the core of who you are as a person.

This PP gets it! I am married to a Trump supporter who also believes the Q-Anon BS. TRUST ME IT SUCKS. But-- I really love him, I'm trying to act like he's been indoctrinated into a cult and just respond with kindness. We have been married for 20 years, but it will take a lot of effort to make it through these next few months and stay married.

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Anonymous wrote:I am so sorry you are going through this. I have realized a profound truth that most Trump supporters have narcissistic personality disorder. I’m a clinician and feel confident saying this. So there are likely many problems in your marriage and your husband being a Trump supporter is only one of them. It must not been easy to stand up for your believes being married to a person with NPD. I’m here to tell you that you will get through this and divorcing this man will mean that your kids will spend at least fifty percent of their home lives not in the presence of a bully.

You are a joke not a clinician. Have several seats. And I am not even a Trump supporter, I just cannot believe YOUR level of narcissistic unprofessionalism.

+100. If dumbass PP was a halfway decent clinician (what kind, I wonder?), they wouldn’t make these unprofessional and, frankly, dangerous armchair diagnoses. I’m a Democrat but cannot abide such indecency. You should be ashamed of your POS self PP.

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Anonymous wrote:I gotta say I don't know how couples who did not both support Trump could stay together over the past four years. The difference in ideology and morality is too big of a gap to reconcile. It goes to the core of who you are as a person.

Not if you’re a mature adult who can handle differences of opinion.

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Normal people have (and appreciate) differences of opinion. You people are something else. We’ve rarely seen eye to eye politically and do just fine.