Anonymous
Post 09/13/2020 05:10     Subject: Did you continue to have kids until you had at least one daughter and one son?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Cute story:

My father grew up in an Italian / Irish neighborhood. He got roped into taking a girl from a protective Italian family to the prom . There were 4 boys in the family and then finally the girl. 2 of the brothers came along to the prom date to "protect" the girl.

My dad says she probably became a nun!



I don't see anything cute about this story..


I don't either, I think it is kind of YUCK.

Anonymous
Post 09/13/2020 03:57     Subject: Did you continue to have kids until you had at least one daughter and one son?

Anonymous wrote:Cute story:

My father grew up in an Italian / Irish neighborhood. He got roped into taking a girl from a protective Italian family to the prom . There were 4 boys in the family and then finally the girl. 2 of the brothers came along to the prom date to "protect" the girl.

My dad says she probably became a nun!



I don't see anything cute about this story..
Anonymous
Post 09/12/2020 21:25     Subject: Re:Did you continue to have kids until you had at least one daughter and one son?

For both sides of my parents families that would have been 5+ and 3+ kids. No thanks!
Anonymous
Post 09/12/2020 20:17     Subject: Re:Did you continue to have kids until you had at least one daughter and one son?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I don't get why people do this these days. If I had my heart set on a specific sex I would just do IVF. No way would I keep having kids trying to get the opposite gender.


IVF is very expensive.


So is having a lot of kids!
Anonymous
Post 09/12/2020 20:14     Subject: Re:Did you continue to have kids until you had at least one daughter and one son?

Anonymous wrote:I don't get why people do this these days. If I had my heart set on a specific sex I would just do IVF. No way would I keep having kids trying to get the opposite gender.


IVF is very expensive.
Anonymous
Post 09/12/2020 20:06     Subject: Re:Did you continue to have kids until you had at least one daughter and one son?

I don't get why people do this these days. If I had my heart set on a specific sex I would just do IVF. No way would I keep having kids trying to get the opposite gender.
Anonymous
Post 09/12/2020 20:00     Subject: Did you continue to have kids until you had at least one daughter and one son?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Well it worked out that way (one of each) but I would have stopped at two regardless.


Same here


Me too.
Anonymous
Post 09/12/2020 19:55     Subject: Did you continue to have kids until you had at least one daughter and one son?

2 girls and so many people used to make comments about trying for a boy until I guess I got too old.

Soometomes god knows what she is doing as I would not know what to do with a boy. My family and extended family is grils girls girls!
Anonymous
Post 09/12/2020 19:51     Subject: Re:Did you continue to have kids until you had at least one daughter and one son?

Had two boys, would have loved for the third to be a boy because we already had that rhythm. The third was a girl and we can’t imagine life without her. We love our children for who they are, not their chromosomes.
Anonymous
Post 09/12/2020 19:44     Subject: Did you continue to have kids until you had at least one daughter and one son?

Honestly, yes. I mean, we would have had three even if first two had been a boy and a girl, but I think we are probably stopping at three and might not have if DC3 hadn’t been a girl. Although if I could have guaranteed a second girl I probably would have gone for it so she wouldn’t be the only one.
Anonymous
Post 09/12/2020 19:28     Subject: Did you continue to have kids until you had at least one daughter and one son?

I have two boys and I’m absolutely done. I can’t go through TTC (takes a long time for us as we are apparently just not that fertile) and pregnancy again. Heck. No. I do get some people asking if I’m going to try again and “go for a girl,” but nope, not happening.
Anonymous
Post 09/12/2020 19:10     Subject: Did you continue to have kids until you had at least one daughter and one son?

Single mom by choice here. I dreamed of a daughter and got twin boys. Could not be happier and grandparents are thrilled.
Anonymous
Post 09/12/2020 19:05     Subject: Did you continue to have kids until you had at least one daughter and one son?

I adopted and specified a girl. I got one. Then I did it again. I wanted NO surprises!
Anonymous
Post 09/12/2020 19:02     Subject: Did you continue to have kids until you had at least one daughter and one son?

^^ You just know those last 3 kids knew they were supposed to be boys!
Anonymous
Post 09/12/2020 19:01     Subject: Did you continue to have kids until you had at least one daughter and one son?

Best friend growing up: her brother ended up with 5 daughters as he and his wife tried and tried for a boy. Oh well.