Anonymous
Post 09/10/2020 12:21     Subject: Men whats the most romantic thing a woman's done?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:What's the most romantic thing a woman's done for you, that does not involve sex?


That doesn’t involve sex? I need time to think about it.


Right? It's fascinating. I have never thought of this question but I cant think of anything romantic my wife has done. Sexually, yes. Is that the same?


No, it is not.
Anonymous
Post 09/10/2020 12:11     Subject: Men whats the most romantic thing a woman's done?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:(we are dating)
I got a baby picture of him from his mom and had it printed on a cake for his birthday. I got a hotel for us and four of our closest friends that weekend and we went to his favorite steak restaurant. In the hotel room I had rose petals all over the bed and the floor. I also bought him a PlayStation 4 and several games along with a very very very very expensive bottle of cognac.

A couple of years ago his dog got sick and he was very close to her. I took all of his pictures, uploaded them and had them put into a leather bound book just because. To this day he keeps it on his nightstand.


I am wondering if he thought this was loving, affectionate, or romantic. I think those things are romantic, but I do not have a penis.


He told me that he thought it was romantic and proceeded to take office clothes lol.
As far as the book goes he said that he was very touched by it.
Anonymous
Post 09/10/2020 11:53     Subject: Men whats the most romantic thing a woman's done?

Anonymous wrote:(we are dating)
I got a baby picture of him from his mom and had it printed on a cake for his birthday. I got a hotel for us and four of our closest friends that weekend and we went to his favorite steak restaurant. In the hotel room I had rose petals all over the bed and the floor. I also bought him a PlayStation 4 and several games along with a very very very very expensive bottle of cognac.

A couple of years ago his dog got sick and he was very close to her. I took all of his pictures, uploaded them and had them put into a leather bound book just because. To this day he keeps it on his nightstand.


I am wondering if he thought this was loving, affectionate, or romantic. I think those things are romantic, but I do not have a penis.
Anonymous
Post 09/10/2020 11:32     Subject: Men whats the most romantic thing a woman's done?

(we are dating)
I got a baby picture of him from his mom and had it printed on a cake for his birthday. I got a hotel for us and four of our closest friends that weekend and we went to his favorite steak restaurant. In the hotel room I had rose petals all over the bed and the floor. I also bought him a PlayStation 4 and several games along with a very very very very expensive bottle of cognac.

A couple of years ago his dog got sick and he was very close to her. I took all of his pictures, uploaded them and had them put into a leather bound book just because. To this day he keeps it on his nightstand.
Anonymous
Post 09/10/2020 11:16     Subject: Men whats the most romantic thing a woman's done?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Wife made a very hot sexy video of herself when I left for a long overseas business trip (2+ weeks). She sent it to me about 3 days into the trip and I moved heaven and earth to consolidate meetings, etc. to get home a few days early.

exFWB (prior to marriage) - the first time we got together was through a relatively innocent (to me at least) dinner/drinks. she intentionally wore very sexy lingerie under her clothes, flashed me while we were seated at an outdoor table and you can imagine how the story unfolded.

How exactly did she flash you while you both were seated and you noticed it? Were you actually under the table, and being a little naughty? Or, if not, and you were actually seated, did she say, “I’m flashing you, I’m flashing you, cutie?” The geometry of this incident here has me all confused.


we were seated on chairs facing each other while seated outside. While we were talking, waiting for drinks to be served, she leaned back a bit and basically would spread her legs open for me to see. she did this a few times, basically teasing me by holding her legs open a little longer each time. even after so many years it's still very hot to think about.


What color was the lingerie?


a matching light blue bra/thong set - and very much see through


So crazy that this is still vivid in your mind. Interesting that you married the one who knows how to keep things sexy for you. I’ve always believed that romance and sex are the same to a man, as much as women want it to be more it simply isn’t. This thread is still anecdotal, and there are exceptions to the rule, but your experience is the perfect demonstration of what I’m talking about.
Anonymous
Post 09/10/2020 09:25     Subject: Men whats the most romantic thing a woman's done?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Wife made a very hot sexy video of herself when I left for a long overseas business trip (2+ weeks). She sent it to me about 3 days into the trip and I moved heaven and earth to consolidate meetings, etc. to get home a few days early.

exFWB (prior to marriage) - the first time we got together was through a relatively innocent (to me at least) dinner/drinks. she intentionally wore very sexy lingerie under her clothes, flashed me while we were seated at an outdoor table and you can imagine how the story unfolded.

How exactly did she flash you while you both were seated and you noticed it? Were you actually under the table, and being a little naughty? Or, if not, and you were actually seated, did she say, “I’m flashing you, I’m flashing you, cutie?” The geometry of this incident here has me all confused.


we were seated on chairs facing each other while seated outside. While we were talking, waiting for drinks to be served, she leaned back a bit and basically would spread her legs open for me to see. she did this a few times, basically teasing me by holding her legs open a little longer each time. even after so many years it's still very hot to think about.


What color was the lingerie?


a matching light blue bra/thong set - and very much see through
Anonymous
Post 09/10/2020 09:11     Subject: Men whats the most romantic thing a woman's done?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Wife made a very hot sexy video of herself when I left for a long overseas business trip (2+ weeks). She sent it to me about 3 days into the trip and I moved heaven and earth to consolidate meetings, etc. to get home a few days early.

exFWB (prior to marriage) - the first time we got together was through a relatively innocent (to me at least) dinner/drinks. she intentionally wore very sexy lingerie under her clothes, flashed me while we were seated at an outdoor table and you can imagine how the story unfolded.

How exactly did she flash you while you both were seated and you noticed it? Were you actually under the table, and being a little naughty? Or, if not, and you were actually seated, did she say, “I’m flashing you, I’m flashing you, cutie?” The geometry of this incident here has me all confused.


we were seated on chairs facing each other while seated outside. While we were talking, waiting for drinks to be served, she leaned back a bit and basically would spread her legs open for me to see. she did this a few times, basically teasing me by holding her legs open a little longer each time. even after so many years it's still very hot to think about.


What color was the lingerie?
Anonymous
Post 09/10/2020 09:10     Subject: Men whats the most romantic thing a woman's done?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Wife made a very hot sexy video of herself when I left for a long overseas business trip (2+ weeks). She sent it to me about 3 days into the trip and I moved heaven and earth to consolidate meetings, etc. to get home a few days early.

exFWB (prior to marriage) - the first time we got together was through a relatively innocent (to me at least) dinner/drinks. she intentionally wore very sexy lingerie under her clothes, flashed me while we were seated at an outdoor table and you can imagine how the story unfolded.

How exactly did she flash you while you both were seated and you noticed it? Were you actually under the table, and being a little naughty? Or, if not, and you were actually seated, did she say, “I’m flashing you, I’m flashing you, cutie?” The geometry of this incident here has me all confused.


we were seated on chairs facing each other while seated outside. While we were talking, waiting for drinks to be served, she leaned back a bit and basically would spread her legs open for me to see. she did this a few times, basically teasing me by holding her legs open a little longer each time. even after so many years it's still very hot to think about.
Anonymous
Post 09/10/2020 09:07     Subject: Men whats the most romantic thing a woman's done?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Wife made a very hot sexy video of herself when I left for a long overseas business trip (2+ weeks). She sent it to me about 3 days into the trip and I moved heaven and earth to consolidate meetings, etc. to get home a few days early.

exFWB (prior to marriage) - the first time we got together was through a relatively innocent (to me at least) dinner/drinks. she intentionally wore very sexy lingerie under her clothes, flashed me while we were seated at an outdoor table and you can imagine how the story unfolded.


How are these romantic?


I feel sorry for you if you can't see how this is appealing (i.e., romantic for men)
Anonymous
Post 09/10/2020 09:04     Subject: Men whats the most romantic thing a woman's done?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Wife made a very hot sexy video of herself when I left for a long overseas business trip (2+ weeks). She sent it to me about 3 days into the trip and I moved heaven and earth to consolidate meetings, etc. to get home a few days early.

exFWB (prior to marriage) - the first time we got together was through a relatively innocent (to me at least) dinner/drinks. she intentionally wore very sexy lingerie under her clothes, flashed me while we were seated at an outdoor table and you can imagine how the story unfolded.


How are these romantic?


lol, just goes to show that for men, sex = romance


This thread just shows women are not romantic. They like it when men are romantic to them but that’s as far as it goes. Its the man’s job to be romantic and as you put it romantic = sex. Women are just not that focused on sex or sexual. I mean look at the responses. Making a mixed tape or stalking someone...

Anonymous
Post 09/10/2020 08:41     Subject: Re:Men whats the most romantic thing a woman's done?

How about staying with me for 34 years! If that’s not a romantic gesture I don’t know what is. FWIW - we also have a great sex life which helps.
Anonymous
Post 09/10/2020 01:46     Subject: Men whats the most romantic thing a woman's done?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Wife made a very hot sexy video of herself when I left for a long overseas business trip (2+ weeks). She sent it to me about 3 days into the trip and I moved heaven and earth to consolidate meetings, etc. to get home a few days early.

exFWB (prior to marriage) - the first time we got together was through a relatively innocent (to me at least) dinner/drinks. she intentionally wore very sexy lingerie under her clothes, flashed me while we were seated at an outdoor table and you can imagine how the story unfolded.


How are these romantic?


lol, just goes to show that for men, sex = romance


+1
Anonymous
Post 09/10/2020 01:39     Subject: Men whats the most romantic thing a woman's done?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Wife made a very hot sexy video of herself when I left for a long overseas business trip (2+ weeks). She sent it to me about 3 days into the trip and I moved heaven and earth to consolidate meetings, etc. to get home a few days early.

exFWB (prior to marriage) - the first time we got together was through a relatively innocent (to me at least) dinner/drinks. she intentionally wore very sexy lingerie under her clothes, flashed me while we were seated at an outdoor table and you can imagine how the story unfolded.


How are these romantic?


Woman here, but I actually think the first example is romantic in a sexual way. The wife had to have foresight to prepare something that would make her husbands trip.
Anonymous
Post 09/10/2020 01:19     Subject: Men whats the most romantic thing a woman's done?

I’m not sure that men appreciate some of the things that women traditionally do, but they do like to feel liked an appreciated. As we try to tell our son as he moves off into the world, “you have to like the other person and enjoy spending time with them with your clothes on without the promise of sex” (we have plenty of it, but that’s not the point of the message) We still make each other laugh and do considerate things for each other. It’s not really the grand gestures, but the small ones.
Anonymous
Post 09/10/2020 01:03     Subject: Men whats the most romantic thing a woman's done?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Wife made a very hot sexy video of herself when I left for a long overseas business trip (2+ weeks). She sent it to me about 3 days into the trip and I moved heaven and earth to consolidate meetings, etc. to get home a few days early.

exFWB (prior to marriage) - the first time we got together was through a relatively innocent (to me at least) dinner/drinks. she intentionally wore very sexy lingerie under her clothes, flashed me while we were seated at an outdoor table and you can imagine how the story unfolded.


How are these romantic?


lol, just goes to show that for men, sex = romance