Anonymous wrote:These nanny writers need to put down the porn, it's so obvious. I'm sure all the wives were just mean and nasty, and all the husbands were just sweet and helpless, and ya'll just pranced around in bikinis all day

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Anonymous wrote:^^ au pair - I was a nanny for two years for a wonderful family and I had a big time crush on the dad but never did anything about it thank God! They were living in California and we were scheduled to go on a vacation to Hawaii but the mom couldn’t go at the last minute due to work reasons but the the rest of us went. We stayed at a condo and for a week I felt like a very young mom because that’s what I was doing except for no sex.

Did the dad ever make a move on you? A week at a condo on the beach can be very enticing.

Not once and back then I looked darn good in a bikini. The people we met all assumed I was his wife and when they found out I was the nanny there was plenty of eye rolling. We had some flirty fun with that but that was as far as it went. He and his wife had a great relationship so it wasn’t going to happen. That was 25 or so years ago and they are still happily married.

I had the same experience - had a huge crush on the dad. He was hot and such a good guy. His wife was always very condescending to him and talked to him like he was an idiot. Being exposed to that was like nails on a chalkboard. He just absorbed it, never complained and took care of everything for the family. He was really great with his daughters too. I fantasized about sleeping with him more than I care to admit. They had a pool so he saw me in a bikini (which I looked great in) regularly. I flirted with him and could tell he found me attractive but he never made a move and there were lots of opportunities (like her nonstop “girls trips”). At the time I had fantasized about him so much that I would have slept with him in a minute if he asked. Looking back, I’m so glad I didn’t.

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Anonymous wrote:^^ au pair - I was a nanny for two years for a wonderful family and I had a big time crush on the dad but never did anything about it thank God! They were living in California and we were scheduled to go on a vacation to Hawaii but the mom couldn’t go at the last minute due to work reasons but the the rest of us went. We stayed at a condo and for a week I felt like a very young mom because that’s what I was doing except for no sex.

Did the dad ever make a move on you? A week at a condo on the beach can be very enticing.

Not once and back then I looked darn good in a bikini. The people we met all assumed I was his wife and when they found out I was the nanny there was plenty of eye rolling. We had some flirty fun with that but that was as far as it went. He and his wife had a great relationship so it wasn’t going to happen. That was 25 or so years ago and they are still happily married.

Anonymous wrote:A friend of mine told me she slept with her neighbor! She said it was amazing, and thrilling and maybe it was the sneaking around part, but she said she is head over heels for this man! They met because she’s a SAHM and she usually walks around the neighborhood with her kid. He just happened to be out doing yard work and her kid wanted to pet his dog. He is also married with a family of his own. She started to notice him more, and before she knew it, she found herself going near his street more and she noticed him near hers. Her husband travels for work, and the guy seems really handy, so he went over to fix something and before long things happened between them. I don’t know how to feel for her. She has a great husband. That much I know. I also know that at times she has felt trapped. I’m sure when this is all over, she will feel like sh*^. For now I just listen and try not to judge. This got me wondering if anyone has ever slept with a neighbor of theirs or a mutual friend and what happened? ..

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Anonymous wrote:^^ au pair - I was a nanny for two years for a wonderful family and I had a big time crush on the dad but never did anything about it thank God! They were living in California and we were scheduled to go on a vacation to Hawaii but the mom couldn’t go at the last minute due to work reasons but the the rest of us went. We stayed at a condo and for a week I felt like a very young mom because that’s what I was doing except for no sex.

Did the dad ever make a move on you? A week at a condo on the beach can be very enticing.

Anonymous wrote:^^ au pair - I was a nanny for two years for a wonderful family and I had a big time crush on the dad but never did anything about it thank God! They were living in California and we were scheduled to go on a vacation to Hawaii but the mom couldn’t go at the last minute due to work reasons but the the rest of us went. We stayed at a condo and for a week I felt like a very young mom because that’s what I was doing except for no sex.

Anonymous wrote:^^ au pair - I was a nanny for two years for a wonderful family and I had a big time crush on the dad but never did anything about it thank God! They were living in California and we were scheduled to go on a vacation to Hawaii but the mom couldn’t go at the last minute due to work reasons but the the rest of us went. We stayed at a condo and for a week I felt like a very young mom because that’s what I was doing except for no sex.

Anonymous wrote:Before you flame me please know that I feel awful about this and have truly changed. When I was an au pair I slept with my boss (it’s weird for me to say host dad)He was really sweet and his wife was awful. She would pick fights all the time and was disrespectful to people at work, in her family even to the kids and I. She used to go on business trips and girl trips all the time. A lot of times when she was away the kids would go to visit their grandparents. I stayed in the basement and one night went upstairs and we started talking and one thing led to another. We had an affair for months. He got really brave and would come down to my room when she went to bed. I thought I was in love with him and he told me he loved me. It become really awkward after a while. The closer we became, the more I annoyed I got when she was around. It become so unhealthy that I rematch and went across the country. After my year was up (back then you couldn’t extend) I came back to DC and I occasionally see them. They are still married. Anyway I see how horrible that was and I’m so sorry I ever got involved in that situation.

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Anonymous wrote:Before you flame me please know that I feel awful about this and have truly changed. When I was an au pair I slept with my boss (it’s weird for me to say host dad)He was really sweet and his wife was awful. She would pick fights all the time and was disrespectful to people at work, in her family even to the kids and I. She used to go on business trips and girl trips all the time. A lot of times when she was away the kids would go to visit their grandparents. I stayed in the basement and one night went upstairs and we started talking and one thing led to another. We had an affair for months. He got really brave and would come down to my room when she went to bed. I thought I was in love with him and he told me he loved me. It become really awkward after a while. The closer we became, the more I annoyed I got when she was around. It become so unhealthy that I rematch and went across the country. After my year was up (back then you couldn’t extend) I came back to DC and I occasionally see them. They are still married. Anyway I see how horrible that was and I’m so sorry I ever got involved in that situation.

You were annoyed by her. The gall of you. You are a horrible person.