Anonymous wrote:This revolving door of nannies and parents and grandparents-wouldn’t it be better to just do an in home or nannyshare and have one person both for stability/wellbeing and reducing COVID risk?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I would do a nanny share with your one friend, so your kid has one friend but less exposure to covid and less insanity for you logistically. As for space, Honestly maybe now is the time to just move to a 2-plus-den. Or just rent an office space via We-Work or similar. You and spouse can share. Our nanny has the kids outside for a good chunk of time each day (even in this weather), and they are the same age group as your DD. They go outside for about 2 hours right when she gets here at 8:00, then they get back and play and are sometimes loud from 10-11:30 and we just plan for that and if we have a call we go sit in the car. 11:30, one watches a show with headphones and the other does a little mini “school” project of some kind, then they switch (so pretty quiet) then they do lunch and like a quiet time where they have to sit quietly with a stack of books. By then it is like 2:30 and they go for a short walk then there is another window of “loud time” from 3-4, then they quiet down and do some art projects or reading books together. So we just have to plan around the problem times.
What do they do outside for 2 hours???
is this an actual question?
Anonymous wrote:OP here-
Re: my mom as one of the caregivers... You're right, she is almost 70, and that is not fair. I guess I could hire a nanny for the say 1 2 days a week it would be our turn to cover supervising. With 1/4 rent and a nanny for 1-2 days, I still think it would be cheaper than what we were paying for preschool, $1700.
Just trying to problem solve this crazy situation.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Everything is wrong about devoting mental energy to the legalistics of the lease and inconvenience to neighbors while pretending that there are no risks of prolonging the pandemic and killing a person or two a couple of degrees of separation away from those paying a share of the lease.
Rich people with their $100/hr tutors and 200 sqft basements are being selfish irresponsible a-holes. But let's be honest, that is how most of them got to where they are - not with ethics or respect for the common good (c.f. environment). There is no point in trying the aspirational version of their rich pods. The kids will be fine staying home for a school year. They will come out when it's safe. The benefit, beyong appeasing the pod FOMO, is just not worth it. The risk for your kid is being far too close to illness and death, even if not their own.
I’m really failing to understand this argument. People who have 200 sq ft (??) basements and hire tutors are selfish, irresponsible a-holes? All the time? Or just now?
Anonymous wrote:This defeats the point of social distancing.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I would do a nanny share with your one friend, so your kid has one friend but less exposure to covid and less insanity for you logistically. As for space, Honestly maybe now is the time to just move to a 2-plus-den. Or just rent an office space via We-Work or similar. You and spouse can share. Our nanny has the kids outside for a good chunk of time each day (even in this weather), and they are the same age group as your DD. They go outside for about 2 hours right when she gets here at 8:00, then they get back and play and are sometimes loud from 10-11:30 and we just plan for that and if we have a call we go sit in the car. 11:30, one watches a show with headphones and the other does a little mini “school” project of some kind, then they switch (so pretty quiet) then they do lunch and like a quiet time where they have to sit quietly with a stack of books. By then it is like 2:30 and they go for a short walk then there is another window of “loud time” from 3-4, then they quiet down and do some art projects or reading books together. So we just have to plan around the problem times.
What do they do outside for 2 hours???
is this an actual question?
Anonymous wrote:I would look for a small in home daycare who is experienced and has a set up for preschoolers.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I would do a nanny share with your one friend, so your kid has one friend but less exposure to covid and less insanity for you logistically. As for space, Honestly maybe now is the time to just move to a 2-plus-den. Or just rent an office space via We-Work or similar. You and spouse can share. Our nanny has the kids outside for a good chunk of time each day (even in this weather), and they are the same age group as your DD. They go outside for about 2 hours right when she gets here at 8:00, then they get back and play and are sometimes loud from 10-11:30 and we just plan for that and if we have a call we go sit in the car. 11:30, one watches a show with headphones and the other does a little mini “school” project of some kind, then they switch (so pretty quiet) then they do lunch and like a quiet time where they have to sit quietly with a stack of books. By then it is like 2:30 and they go for a short walk then there is another window of “loud time” from 3-4, then they quiet down and do some art projects or reading books together. So we just have to plan around the problem times.
What do they do outside for 2 hours???