Anonymous wrote:I have 1 daughter then went through years of infertility issues. I finally realized I loved the little family I already had and am now 100% content with it just being the three of us.

This is really reassuring, and where we are as well, except not quite at the point of acceptance yet. And to answer the "go back and change things" question, yes, I would have started trying for a second much sooner. I was only 30 when I got pregnant with my first so I thought I had plenty of time. I wouldn't have had kids earlier, but I would have weaned and just NTNP after the baby was 6 months or so.

Have 2 wonderful daughters with a 3 year gap in-between. If I could do it all over again, I'd have them younger and would have gone for #3. But then I wouldn't have had these particular kids, so there is that.