Anonymous wrote:I did this more in the early days of the internet, when it was so amazing that you could find out so much online. Once I had caught up with where they were in life from my minor stalking I haven’t thought much about them since...except for my college boyfriend, whom I still have regrets about not marrying.

How come?

I’ve often thought about them but given they likely married and changed their names it’s not easy to see where they might be. Someone more internet savvy might be able to figure it out.

Yup. One caught my eye as maybe he got his life together after his 20's? Talented, intelligent, articulate but a little bit of an emotional train wreck. He suffered from depression and social anxiety on occasion but at least understood what triggered it and was very self aware. But it unnerved me.

Looked him up and he has multiple degrees, work accomplishments, and is married long-term with at least one child. - looks to be in really good shape. I hope that whatever his demons were he's now happy.