Anonymous
Post 01/11/2010 11:00     Subject: Re:wife sitting in husband's lap
Anonymous wrote:At almost 40, I do not sit in my husband's lap. And yes, we love each other - just not in a "bid daddy" and "little woman" sort of way. We love each other as equals. Sitting on someone's lap is just a little "parrent/child" which is why I find it weird. But hey, if it works for you, go for it. I'm sure we all do things other's find weird.

It's not just weird, it's a sin. No smoting for you, though.
Anonymous
Post 01/11/2010 10:48     Subject: Re:wife sitting in husband's lap
Anonymous wrote:At almost 40, I do not sit in my husband's lap. And yes, we love each other - just not in a "bid daddy" and "little woman" sort of way. We love each other as equals. Sitting on someone's lap is just a little "parrent/child" which is why I find it weird. But hey, if it works for you, go for it. I'm sure we all do things other's find weird.


Sounds like an issue that you have. I am not sure that is a universal interpretation of the act. But as you say, to each his own.
Anonymous
Post 01/11/2010 10:22     Subject: Re:wife sitting in husband's lap
At almost 40, I do not sit in my husband's lap. And yes, we love each other - just not in a "bid daddy" and "little woman" sort of way. We love each other as equals. Sitting on someone's lap is just a little "parrent/child" which is why I find it weird. But hey, if it works for you, go for it. I'm sure we all do things other's find weird.
Anonymous
Post 01/11/2010 09:56     Subject: wife sitting in husband's lap
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I haven't heard anyone say "grody" since the '80s.


Yes, does it not make you feel nostalgic?


We just named our third child "Grody." DH and I just love the name. It is extremely unique and goes so well with our first two kids' names: Macey and Dylyn.
Anonymous
Post 01/11/2010 09:17     Subject: Re:wife sitting in husband's lap
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote: I think it's somewhat normal for a couple in their 20's, but after that, it seems strange. Not saying it's bad, just unexpected. Especially if it is for any length of time. I mean, if the 60 year old couple acrossed the street did it - I admit I would think it is weird. But much more welcome than a tongue in the ear


I only hope my husband still wants me to sit on his lap when I'm 60.

You people are weird.


I agree. My husband and I are openly affectionate with one another because we love one another. We've been together for a long long time, and I know I'll be sitting in his lap when we're 80.
Anonymous
Post 01/11/2010 08:43     Subject: Re:wife sitting in husband's lap
Anonymous wrote:Absolutely nothing wrong with this.

I know one couple who used to do it in church! Everybody thought it was very sweet.

I can't see anything inappropriate about it unless they're naked or making out or something.

What is so wrong about kids seeing people in love or showing the ones they love affection in appropriate ways?

The Bible is very clear on this. This heathen couple is definitely in for a smoting.
Anonymous
Post 01/11/2010 08:34     Subject: Re:wife sitting in husband's lap
Nothing wrong with it at all. As a matter of fact, it's my favorite position. I like it like that!
Anonymous
Post 01/11/2010 07:53     Subject: Re:wife sitting in husband's lap
Anonymous wrote:I've been reading DCUM too long. Wasn't there a similar thread about a year ago? Including the tongue in ear comment? Or have I just lost my mind?


Yes, but I think the couple in that thread were kissing each other and calling each other "schmoopie" so it was a little more PDA than this post.
Anonymous
Post 01/11/2010 07:36     Subject: wife sitting in husband's lap
Oy. Ya gotta be kidding me. I never even considered sitting on my DH's lap PDA.
Anonymous
Post 01/11/2010 06:11     Subject: Re:wife sitting in husband's lap
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Absolutely nothing wrong with this.

I know one couple who used to do it in church! Everybody thought it was very sweet.

I can't see anything inappropriate about it unless they're naked or making out or something.

What is so wrong about kids seeing people in love or showing the ones they love affection in appropriate ways?


Sounds like a cool church. Where is it?


Near Annapolis.



I hear there's also a swinger's club near Annapolis, too.
Anonymous
Post 01/11/2010 06:08     Subject: Re:wife sitting in husband's lap
Anonymous wrote:Absolutely nothing wrong with this.

I know one couple who used to do it in church! Everybody thought it was very sweet.

I can't see anything inappropriate about it unless they're naked or making out or something.

What is so wrong about kids seeing people in love or showing the ones they love affection in appropriate ways?


Anonymous
Post 01/11/2010 05:59     Subject: Re:wife sitting in husband's lap
My mom still sometimes comes and sits on my dad's lap. They are in their seventies. Of course, he pushes her off after a couple of seconds because they both have bad backs.

I think it's sweet.
Anonymous
Post 01/11/2010 02:45     Subject: Re:wife sitting in husband's lap
Anonymous wrote:Unless she is six times the size he is, they have their clothes on, and there is no grinding, I don't see any issues with this.


Whether she is six times the size of him or not.. what does that matter to you? It isn't your lap.
Anonymous
Post 01/11/2010 01:36     Subject: Re:wife sitting in husband's lap
Anonymous wrote: I think it's somewhat normal for a couple in their 20's, but after that, it seems strange. Not saying it's bad, just unexpected. Especially if it is for any length of time. I mean, if the 60 year old couple acrossed the street did it - I admit I would think it is weird. But much more welcome than a tongue in the ear


I only hope my husband still wants me to sit on his lap when I'm 60.

You people are weird.
Anonymous
Post 01/11/2010 00:48     Subject: wife sitting in husband's lap
Anonymous wrote:I haven't heard anyone say "grody" since the '80s.


Yes, does it not make you feel nostalgic?