Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If you're going to be holding your baby the whole time or if you're okay with baby being on the floor trampled by 4 year olds having fun I'd say go ahead bring baby.

If you're the type to want the host to baby proof for you, clear a space for the pack and play or constantly chastising the 4 year olds for almost knocking baby over , give the party a skip.

Alternatively, do you have any trusted friends attending the party who wouldn't mind talking your 4 year old allowing you to stay home with baby?

No one is this type. You're just being dramatic and writing fiction.