Anonymous
Post 03/08/2020 10:44     Subject: Would you date a single mom?
Anonymous wrote:New poster.
As a single mom, I understand why a childless man may not want me or another single mom.
What I do not understand however, is why would a single mom (even the one who is much hotter and younger than me) want a childless dude?
I am new to this, but do such men usually not only marry but financially support their stepkids?! I had no idea.
I mean, I personally don’t care to not only get married again but even move in with anyone, unless I gain a lot financially- a bigger house in a better school district and nice outings and vacations etc etc. However, I am under an impression that it is a very rare occurrence that a single childless man has this to offer and moreover WANTS to offer it to a single mom...
If so, why would a single mom care if the dude is childless??
Please explain?


A lot of men are good people. I’ve never been turned down by a man because I have a child. In my last relationship, he took it very seriously and worked hard on his finances because he wanted to be in a better position to support us (we broke up for other reasons).

I don’t care if a man has kids or not, but I tend to have more in common with those who do.
Anonymous
Post 03/08/2020 10:37     Subject: Would you date a single mom?
New poster.
As a single mom, I understand why a childless man may not want me or another single mom.
What I do not understand however, is why would a single mom (even the one who is much hotter and younger than me) want a childless dude?
I am new to this, but do such men usually not only marry but financially support their stepkids?! I had no idea.
I mean, I personally don’t care to not only get married again but even move in with anyone, unless I gain a lot financially- a bigger house in a better school district and nice outings and vacations etc etc. However, I am under an impression that it is a very rare occurrence that a single childless man has this to offer and moreover WANTS to offer it to a single mom...
If so, why would a single mom care if the dude is childless??
Please explain?
Anonymous
Post 03/08/2020 10:12     Subject: Would you date a single mom?
Anonymous wrote:Date? Yes.

Marriage? No.



+1.
Anonymous
Post 03/08/2020 09:28     Subject: Re:Would you date a single mom?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I did for about a year and I really liked her but it was way too difficult to have a real relationship given her work and custody schedule which was very understandable. Instead of breaking up she suggested we just be FWB because she really liked sex so she would just call or text to see if I was around. She told me that she had a few single mom friends who envied her because none of them had time for anything more than that.


As a single mom that would work for me. I’d be very happy if once a week or so I could share a bottle of wine with a nice guy and have some adult conversation followed by an hour of intense sex. It might be a meaningless relationship but it’s all I really need.


Agree!
-Another single mom
Anonymous
Post 03/08/2020 09:24     Subject: Re:Would you date a single mom?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Single moms who have just become empty nesters are the best. They have a degree of freedom they haven’t had in maybe 20 years and sexually they may be at their peak.


LOL idiot they were at their sexual peak at 20 and they hit the wall 10 years ago but if that's what you want go for it.


Gotta love the DCUM douche bag.


I’m sorry you’re a post-wall single mom who can’t get any interest except from 55+ divorced men. With the help of cialis, he can enjoy your supposed “sexual peak”.


Hah. Actually, I am with a much younger man who is 6 foot tall, has a rock hard body, and makes me O multiple times when we are together. It’s been three years now and it’s the best sex of my life.
Anonymous
Post 03/08/2020 09:06     Subject: Would you date a single mom?
I love dating single moms from 32-45... When they don't have the kids they're like wild beasts. Absolutely the best. And usually not looking for total commitment.
Anonymous
Post 03/08/2020 08:37     Subject: Re:Would you date a single mom?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Single moms who have just become empty nesters are the best. They have a degree of freedom they haven’t had in maybe 20 years and sexually they may be at their peak.


LOL idiot they were at their sexual peak at 20 and they hit the wall 10 years ago but if that's what you want go for it.


Gotta love the DCUM douche bag.


I’m sorry you’re a post-wall single mom who can’t get any interest except from 55+ divorced men. With the help of cialis, he can enjoy your supposed “sexual peak”.
Anonymous
Post 03/07/2020 19:00     Subject: Re:Would you date a single mom?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Single moms who have just become empty nesters are the best. They have a degree of freedom they haven’t had in maybe 20 years and sexually they may be at their peak.
I

LOL idiot they were at their sexual peak at 20 and they hit the wall 10 years ago but if that's what you want go for it.


Gotta love the DCUM douche bag.
Anonymous
Post 03/07/2020 18:56     Subject: Re:Would you date a single mom?
Anonymous wrote:Single moms who have just become empty nesters are the best. They have a degree of freedom they haven’t had in maybe 20 years and sexually they may be at their peak.
I

LOL idiot they were at their sexual peak at 20 and they hit the wall 10 years ago but if that's what you want go for it.
Anonymous
Post 03/07/2020 14:41     Subject: Re:Would you date a single mom?
New to dating apps. Not gonna lie, I found the unmarried childless men (age ranging 30-42), to be a much more attractive physically and credential wise (level of education, job, etc).


Why would these men want you?

The OP was asking if single men would date single moms. Your credentials must be weak if you cannot stay on point for this simple post. And, yes, I did go off-post to make fun of you.
Anonymous
Post 03/07/2020 14:18     Subject: Re:Would you date a single mom?
Anonymous wrote:I was introduced to a single mom by a good friend after resisting for a few months for all the obvious reasons. Kids, custody, marriage baggage just name it. I finally gave in to shut her up and I was happily surprised. I wasn’t surprised that she was beautiful - thank you Instagram - but she didn’t carry marriage baggage and after a couple of months I met her kids and I was “ok, they are not screwed up kids of divorced parents.” That’s when I realized that their mom really had her act together. 5 years and two more children later it’s worked out great but I think I’m the exception to the norm.


Works out great that your wife found a schmuck to support her two kids by another dude!
Anonymous
Post 03/07/2020 14:12     Subject: Re:Would you date a single mom?
Anonymous wrote:Single moms who have just become empty nesters are the best. They have a degree of freedom they haven’t had in maybe 20 years and sexually they may be at their peak.


I’ve been an empty nester for over a year and this is very true, at least in my case. When my kids were home I always made sure I was home by midnight because we had rules. And you can be darn sure no guy ever spent the night at my place. Now when I invite a man over for dinner I think he knows what my intent is. Sexually, I’m hoping I’m not yet at my peak but I know I’ve become a very enthusiastic partner.
Anonymous
Post 03/07/2020 13:57     Subject: Would you date a single mom?
Anonymous wrote:Age of the DCs matter. Nothing under the age of 5 and prefer the kids to be older.


For dating yes. But older kids will hate you if try and make it work as a relationship.
Anonymous
Post 03/07/2020 13:25     Subject: Re:Would you date a single mom?
Single moms who have just become empty nesters are the best. They have a degree of freedom they haven’t had in maybe 20 years and sexually they may be at their peak.
Anonymous
Post 03/07/2020 09:50     Subject: Would you date a single mom?
Moms in their late 30’s and 40’s are hott.