I considered my ex husband to be a good guy. He treated me very well and was not abusive. I felt we were partners in every sense of the word. He ended up cheating and started picking arguments and he never did that before. That is what gave him away. When I confronted him and exposed his affair to anyone who would listen he went back to his old self as far as being considerate and what not. While he was cheating he was an asshole. Otherwise he treated me like a queen.

My DH is 0% asshole with me and/or at home, but 85% asshole at work. And we work together.

He's not an asshole to me at work because he's not in a supervisory position to me, but I have found that witnessing how badly he treats others and the "tough guy" attitude he puts on at work to be affecting my feelings toward him. I'm starting to not like the person I see when I see that side of him, even though it's not directed to me at all.

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Anonymous wrote:My DH is a major a-hole. He stuck it in my back door without telling me!

Ow. That's really not cool.
Did he at least use lube and lots of it?

I know, right? I’m looking into a strapon so I can return the favor. He used some lube, (my natural/body lube) but it wasn’t much. It was so wrong...

He is 0% ahole. I’m probably 10-15% ahole, if I’m being honest w myself.

Anonymous wrote:My DH is a major a-hole. He stuck it in my back door without telling me!

Ow. That's really not cool.
Did he at least use lube and lots of it?