Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:
I think this experience is very much the exception, not the rule. My ES has great communication but there is no way the AART could make personal calls like that. I think that is expecting too much. Some, such as ours, are part time split between two schools. Schools have variable communication sure and parents take variable responsibility. Seriously OP forget about assigning blame and just get the info you need. If you really are interested and think it is right for your kid it shouldn’t be a big deal to ask for info.
I agree that it is the exception and not the rule, but it shouldn't be. The only people who would be called are the ones with high scores who are not in pool and who didn't already submit an AAP application or indicate that they would be submitting one. That's maybe 10 kids. It wouldn't even need to be a call. The AART could send out an email to the parents of those kids urging them to fill out an AAP parent referral. I wouldn't have applied for my older kid if the AART hadn't called. I knew about AAP, but was under the impression that the bar to get in was much higher than it actually is. I would love to see the stats on the number of kids who are high achieving, would get high GBRS, and have scores in the 120s who don't parent refer.
Anonymous wrote:
I think this experience is very much the exception, not the rule. My ES has great communication but there is no way the AART could make personal calls like that. I think that is expecting too much. Some, such as ours, are part time split between two schools. Schools have variable communication sure and parents take variable responsibility. Seriously OP forget about assigning blame and just get the info you need. If you really are interested and think it is right for your kid it shouldn’t be a big deal to ask for info.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:People should give OP a bit of a break. For both schools that my kids attended, it would have been impossible to miss the AAP meeting and information on what AAP is about if you had a 1st or 2nd grader. They advertised very heavily to those grades and made sure parents were well informed.
For older grades, the only notice you might have is a blurb in the school newsletter, which would be easily overlooked, especially if you don't really understand what AAP is. My base school makes a point of helping 3rd-6th graders new to the school understand the AAP process, particularly if the kid's academic record suggests it would be a good fit. OP's school does not seem like it has been nearly as helpful with new students.
Agree with this completely. Also, it doesn't matter if she is a working parent.
OP, you should assume, though, that your old school also probably expects more independence from kids (and parents) as kids get older. They all do. Some of these changes are not school system differences but age differences.
I am sorry you missed the AAP deadlines. There are so many referrals that FCPS has to be (can afford to be?) very strict about them. I agree with others that you should schedule a meeting with AART now. You'll get a better sense of the timeline and be on track next year. Also, you can ask about Level III for next year.
It does. It would help explain why she missed emails or dates.
This is such BS. A lot of working parents I know are so organized and don’t miss a beat. A lot of non-working parents I know can’t even get out of the house to get their kids to school on time, let alone bother to figure out what AAP even is.
The OP missed the emails. It has nothing to do with whether she works or not.
For some working parents, indeed it does make missing emails more likely. Why the hostility?
Please explain to me exactly why being a working parent would make missing emails more likely.
Um, because they are working and might forget to read something that comes in during the day from school. They might not be in a job that allows for constant email checking. They are tired and have a million things to do? How is this a serious question?
Let me guess - you have a very expensive education and need to justify not working by saying your kids would miss out on things if you did work. [/quote
Let me guess - you are a working parent and I’ve hit a nerve.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:People should give OP a bit of a break. For both schools that my kids attended, it would have been impossible to miss the AAP meeting and information on what AAP is about if you had a 1st or 2nd grader. They advertised very heavily to those grades and made sure parents were well informed.
For older grades, the only notice you might have is a blurb in the school newsletter, which would be easily overlooked, especially if you don't really understand what AAP is. My base school makes a point of helping 3rd-6th graders new to the school understand the AAP process, particularly if the kid's academic record suggests it would be a good fit. OP's school does not seem like it has been nearly as helpful with new students.
Agree with this completely. Also, it doesn't matter if she is a working parent.
OP, you should assume, though, that your old school also probably expects more independence from kids (and parents) as kids get older. They all do. Some of these changes are not school system differences but age differences.
I am sorry you missed the AAP deadlines. There are so many referrals that FCPS has to be (can afford to be?) very strict about them. I agree with others that you should schedule a meeting with AART now. You'll get a better sense of the timeline and be on track next year. Also, you can ask about Level III for next year.
It does. It would help explain why she missed emails or dates.
This is such BS. A lot of working parents I know are so organized and don’t miss a beat. A lot of non-working parents I know can’t even get out of the house to get their kids to school on time, let alone bother to figure out what AAP even is.
The OP missed the emails. It has nothing to do with whether she works or not.
For some working parents, indeed it does make missing emails more likely. Why the hostility?
Please explain to me exactly why being a working parent would make missing emails more likely.
Um, because they are working and might forget to read something that comes in during the day from school. They might not be in a job that allows for constant email checking. They are tired and have a million things to do? How is this a serious question?
Let me guess - you have a very expensive education and need to justify not working by saying your kids would miss out on things if you did work.
Anonymous wrote:It has nothing at all to do with working vs. not working and instead everything to do with how well the school communicates with parents. The first school my kids attended was wonderful with communications, and I didn't miss a beat on required materials, even when I was going through cancer treatment. Any parent with a kid who scored over 120 on the cogat was likely to get a personal call from the AART explaining AAP and how to apply.
The school my kids currently attend doesn't tell you anything, and I could have easily missed something like the AAP meetings or deadlines even while healthy. I feel like I never have a clue what's going on. Some school are terrible at communication and outreach.
If a family is new to the school and the kid got a cogat near 132, either the AART or classroom teacher should have reached out to make sure OP's family understood AAP.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:People should give OP a bit of a break. For both schools that my kids attended, it would have been impossible to miss the AAP meeting and information on what AAP is about if you had a 1st or 2nd grader. They advertised very heavily to those grades and made sure parents were well informed.
For older grades, the only notice you might have is a blurb in the school newsletter, which would be easily overlooked, especially if you don't really understand what AAP is. My base school makes a point of helping 3rd-6th graders new to the school understand the AAP process, particularly if the kid's academic record suggests it would be a good fit. OP's school does not seem like it has been nearly as helpful with new students.
Agree with this completely. Also, it doesn't matter if she is a working parent.
OP, you should assume, though, that your old school also probably expects more independence from kids (and parents) as kids get older. They all do. Some of these changes are not school system differences but age differences.
I am sorry you missed the AAP deadlines. There are so many referrals that FCPS has to be (can afford to be?) very strict about them. I agree with others that you should schedule a meeting with AART now. You'll get a better sense of the timeline and be on track next year. Also, you can ask about Level III for next year.
It does. It would help explain why she missed emails or dates.
This is such BS. A lot of working parents I know are so organized and don’t miss a beat. A lot of non-working parents I know can’t even get out of the house to get their kids to school on time, let alone bother to figure out what AAP even is.
The OP missed the emails. It has nothing to do with whether she works or not.
For some working parents, indeed it does make missing emails more likely. Why the hostility?
Please explain to me exactly why being a working parent would make missing emails more likely.
Um, because they are working and might forget to read something that comes in during the day from school. They might not be in a job that allows for constant email checking. They are tired and have a million things to do? How is this a serious question?
Anonymous wrote:
This is such BS. A lot of working parents I know are so organized and don’t miss a beat. A lot of non-working parents I know can’t even get out of the house to get their kids to school on time, let alone bother to figure out what AAP even is.
The OP missed the emails. It has nothing to do with whether she works or not.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:People should give OP a bit of a break. For both schools that my kids attended, it would have been impossible to miss the AAP meeting and information on what AAP is about if you had a 1st or 2nd grader. They advertised very heavily to those grades and made sure parents were well informed.
For older grades, the only notice you might have is a blurb in the school newsletter, which would be easily overlooked, especially if you don't really understand what AAP is. My base school makes a point of helping 3rd-6th graders new to the school understand the AAP process, particularly if the kid's academic record suggests it would be a good fit. OP's school does not seem like it has been nearly as helpful with new students.
Agree with this completely. Also, it doesn't matter if she is a working parent.
OP, you should assume, though, that your old school also probably expects more independence from kids (and parents) as kids get older. They all do. Some of these changes are not school system differences but age differences.
I am sorry you missed the AAP deadlines. There are so many referrals that FCPS has to be (can afford to be?) very strict about them. I agree with others that you should schedule a meeting with AART now. You'll get a better sense of the timeline and be on track next year. Also, you can ask about Level III for next year.
It does. It would help explain why she missed emails or dates.
This is such BS. A lot of working parents I know are so organized and don’t miss a beat. A lot of non-working parents I know can’t even get out of the house to get their kids to school on time, let alone bother to figure out what AAP even is.
The OP missed the emails. It has nothing to do with whether she works or not.
For some working parents, indeed it does make missing emails more likely. Why the hostility?
Please explain to me exactly why being a working parent would make missing emails more likely.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:People should give OP a bit of a break. For both schools that my kids attended, it would have been impossible to miss the AAP meeting and information on what AAP is about if you had a 1st or 2nd grader. They advertised very heavily to those grades and made sure parents were well informed.
For older grades, the only notice you might have is a blurb in the school newsletter, which would be easily overlooked, especially if you don't really understand what AAP is. My base school makes a point of helping 3rd-6th graders new to the school understand the AAP process, particularly if the kid's academic record suggests it would be a good fit. OP's school does not seem like it has been nearly as helpful with new students.
Agree with this completely. Also, it doesn't matter if she is a working parent.
OP, you should assume, though, that your old school also probably expects more independence from kids (and parents) as kids get older. They all do. Some of these changes are not school system differences but age differences.
I am sorry you missed the AAP deadlines. There are so many referrals that FCPS has to be (can afford to be?) very strict about them. I agree with others that you should schedule a meeting with AART now. You'll get a better sense of the timeline and be on track next year. Also, you can ask about Level III for next year.
It does. It would help explain why she missed emails or dates.
This is such BS. A lot of working parents I know are so organized and don’t miss a beat. A lot of non-working parents I know can’t even get out of the house to get their kids to school on time, let alone bother to figure out what AAP even is.
The OP missed the emails. It has nothing to do with whether she works or not.
For some working parents, indeed it does make missing emails more likely. Why the hostility?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:People should give OP a bit of a break. For both schools that my kids attended, it would have been impossible to miss the AAP meeting and information on what AAP is about if you had a 1st or 2nd grader. They advertised very heavily to those grades and made sure parents were well informed.
For older grades, the only notice you might have is a blurb in the school newsletter, which would be easily overlooked, especially if you don't really understand what AAP is. My base school makes a point of helping 3rd-6th graders new to the school understand the AAP process, particularly if the kid's academic record suggests it would be a good fit. OP's school does not seem like it has been nearly as helpful with new students.
Agree with this completely. Also, it doesn't matter if she is a working parent.
OP, you should assume, though, that your old school also probably expects more independence from kids (and parents) as kids get older. They all do. Some of these changes are not school system differences but age differences.
I am sorry you missed the AAP deadlines. There are so many referrals that FCPS has to be (can afford to be?) very strict about them. I agree with others that you should schedule a meeting with AART now. You'll get a better sense of the timeline and be on track next year. Also, you can ask about Level III for next year.
It does. It would help explain why she missed emails or dates.
This is such BS. A lot of working parents I know are so organized and don’t miss a beat. A lot of non-working parents I know can’t even get out of the house to get their kids to school on time, let alone bother to figure out what AAP even is.
The OP missed the emails. It has nothing to do with whether she works or not.