Anonymous wrote:Age 18: 0
Age 19: 8
Age 20: 19
Age 21: 27
Age 22: 28 (met DH)
Age 42: 28

How would you judge me for 3 years in college?

I'm embarrassed for your husband at reunions.

Anonymous wrote:Age 18: 0
Age 19: 8
Age 20: 19
Age 21: 27
Age 22: 28 (met DH)
Age 42: 28

How would you judge me for 3 years in college?

Did you do stuff with those other guys that you deny to your husband?

Anonymous wrote:Age 18: 0
Age 19: 8
Age 20: 19
Age 21: 27
Age 22: 28 (met DH)
Age 42: 28

How would you judge me for 3 years in college?

I wish I knew you in college

Anonymous wrote:How do you even keep track after a certain point? I’ve slept with around 10 or 12 or 14 people, but I’ve been married 10 years and could not list all of my sexual partners.

I have a very good memory. I remember everyone I have had sex with. Or even anything sexual. Not necessarily every time (in long term relationships)...I am male, btw.

11 at summer camp....non consensual with older boy
13 with friends mom -- non consensual. Her hubby was deployed in the military
18 fooled around with a 16 yo I met while on vacation. third base.
20 ONS -- picked up girl on campus, tutored physics
22 ONS -- met her on campus.
24 ONS.-- got drunk in a bar. Woman came up to me. Offered oral. Deed done. Demanded money. Gave her money.
25 Summer -- Overseas, student at the institute showed me around...then we had some fun
27-32 Relationship with an older woman, lived together.
33 Met girl off AOL; spent two weekends with her. Not a good vibe
33 At Mardis Gras in NO, three different woman at different times.
33 1 month with crazy wild woman. She could not accept I did not smoke dope.
33 ONS -- She did not want to go home after date; roommate problems. Came to my house...made out.
33 ONS -- At a bar, woman dancing with me. Invited me into her minivan to have some fun. After done, noticed the car seats.
33 Met my wife, only person to present (23 years)

My partner slept with close to 100 people. He is great. Maybe not for marrying though.

Anonymous wrote:How do you even keep track after a certain point? I’ve slept with around 10 or 12 or 14 people, but I’ve been married 10 years and could not list all of my sexual partners.

Some people keep little lists, notebooks or spreadsheets. Of course others just guess or exaggerate lol.

How do you even keep track after a certain point? I’ve slept with around 10 or 12 or 14 people, but I’ve been married 10 years and could not list all of my sexual partners.

Anonymous wrote:Age 18: 0
Age 19: 8
Age 20: 19
Age 21: 27
Age 22: 28 (met DH)
Age 42: 28

How would you judge me for 3 years in college?

Nobody is judging you, you're off the market.

Anonymous wrote:I’m in my early 30s and married. But most of my male friends are well over that number. For a normal, non-celeb man to have a lot of partners (50-100+) I would assume they are absolute trash in bed as they presumably dont have a lot of repeat business if you will. Study after study has shown that women are, on average, less satisfied in casual hookups.

Although I couldn’t relate to a woman with a high number of sexual partners I don’t think I would think anything about that one way or another.

Do they want repeat business? A lot of guys just like to rack up body counts; especially those that can. No vajayjay is that special.

I’m in my early 30s and married. But most of my male friends are well over that number. For a normal, non-celeb man to have a lot of partners (50-100+) I would assume they are absolute trash in bed as they presumably dont have a lot of repeat business if you will. Study after study has shown that women are, on average, less satisfied in casual hookups.

Although I couldn’t relate to a woman with a high number of sexual partners I don’t think I would think anything about that one way or another.

Age 18: 0
Age 19: 8
Age 20: 19
Age 21: 27
Age 22: 28 (met DH)
Age 42: 28

How would you judge me for 3 years in college?

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Anonymous wrote:Probably have lower ability to pair bond and form deeper emotional connections. Probably also more likely to cheat.

My partner and I both have a “high” number and we’re still completely bonded and connected. Probably because our relationship isn’t built on sex.

Exception/ rule and all that. Keep patting yourself on the back though, Jane.

Disagree. I’ve known a few people who had hang ups over number of sexual partners potential SOs had, and they all turned out to have a whole lot of hang ups over sex in general.

Well-adjusted people don’t really care.

Nice anecdotes you have there. I have friends who, despite counsel to the contrary, married people with loose sexual tendencies and...shockingly, they were cheated on.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Probably have lower ability to pair bond and form deeper emotional connections. Probably also more likely to cheat.

My partner and I both have a “high” number and we’re still completely bonded and connected. Probably because our relationship isn’t built on sex.

Exception/ rule and all that. Keep patting yourself on the back though, Jane.

Disagree. I’ve known a few people who had hang ups over number of sexual partners potential SOs had, and they all turned out to have a whole lot of hang ups over sex in general.

Well-adjusted people don’t really care.

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Anonymous wrote:My number was 2 when I got married and then 30 within two months of divorce. It’s easier to have sex with pretty women than I realized.

New one every other day? Damn bro!

Tinder. The amount of 40 something women on Tinder literally gagging for c*ck is off the charts. I could get laid in the next three hours if I felt like it. Of course it would be with a pudgy, cellulite covered mom, but still.

This speaks ill of your own looks, babe.

No, not really, babe. Better quality would probably take a bit more time and work but it's out there!

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My number was 2 when I got married and then 30 within two months of divorce. It’s easier to have sex with pretty women than I realized.

New one every other day? Damn bro!

Tinder. The amount of 40 something women on Tinder literally gagging for c*ck is off the charts. I could get laid in the next three hours if I felt like it. Of course it would be with a pudgy, cellulite covered mom, but still.

This speaks ill of your own looks, babe.