And FYI, I’d rather hang smoke lo with my kids than be around their toxic Big Law partner mother. If she behaves at work as she did at home it’s a wonder she still has a job.

Typical DCUM answer. Wife cheats. Husband is a loser. She blew up her family, not him. If she made partner, she’s probably paying him child support and maybe even alimony.

To the guy who stopped being a DaD. You showed her! Now- she’s having great sex, made partner, and your hanging with kids solo. It’s a wonder why your ex would cheat on you. You sound like a real winner.
Enjoy more evenings in the basement watching Bugs life & paying child support. And hey, maybe stop picking up your kids again. It’s what the cool guys do.

Going to the lawyer later this week.

My brother had a girlfriend who beat the crap out of him all the time. I used to have to go rescue him when it got really bad and I always made him let me take pictures. He wouldn’t call the police because she had a daughter and no family to take the daughter in if she got in trouble.

He was with her for years until he’d finally had enough and left.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:^^^ no sir. You pick up the damned kids. You can stop behaving like you are married and still be a Dad.
Jfc. Separate your disdain for your spouse from your children

No you do not. You leverage where you can. It doesn't sound like his kids were being hurt. He just made his exwife leave work to do the chore. You think he's supposed to be picking up all the slack while she's screwing some other guy?

You're a cuck.

My God, it's parenting. You still do it even through the nastiest of divorces. Men (and women, so don't go there) who can't separate this stuff are so sad.

This is why 50/50 parenting with men is so damaging for the kids. Men will deny resources to their children to piss off their (ex)wives. Women never do this. It’s so sad that the standard custody split is 50/50 considering how men behave towards their families.

If you know how to read, you'll notice PP denied no resources to his children. He denied resources to his wife. If she can't manage her career and care for her children, than shes not only a slut but she's a POS.

Typical female response. The man is responsible for the outcome of the women's cheating.

But, kids grow up and become adults who are capable of seeing what really happened. You should know this- this forum is littered with women estranged from their kids for behavior just like this.

According to the PP he stopped driving his children to soccer and activities. He stopped making them dinner.

Sure, you could argue that all childcare is the mother’s responsibility and men only help when they’re in love with the woman. And if you’re arguing that men have no responsibilities to their children, it’s actually an argument against 50/50 custody. If men can argue that driving their kids to sports and making them dinner is 100% their wives responsibility, those men should not have custody half the time. Poor kids.

I actually laughed out loud enough that my SIL visiting from Chicago asked me what I was reading.

You actually think the kids are suffering because Dad isn't driving them all over DC, while accommodating his wife making partner AND sucking her HS bf's knob?!

Yes, he is to blame for their suffering, not their skanky, selfish, cheating mother. Yes, the crime here is him not making them PB&J's for a week, not his wife laying spread eagle at the Motel 6. Yes, only he should be thinking of their welfare. She is relieved of that to pursue c@ck. He must remain in carpool and lunch bag purgatory until she lets him off!

You can't make this stuff up. You are an imbecile.

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Anonymous wrote:You need to call the police.

I made the mistake of thinking that the courts would take me seriously when I presented photos and dates. Turns out they only want police and hospital reports. This is why I have to share custody of my minor child.

Please. Nobody would care about that with a woman either. You can document it but from what I’ve seen of how domestic violence victims with much worse injuries than a bruised lip, it won’t matter. Or maybe it will because you’re a man.

I posted that and I am a woman. My point was for all people, not just one gender.

Anonymous wrote:I’m actually quite surprised at the consensus here saying not to call the police. This is a double standard because a female op would have been urged by more people to call the police, or leave.

But, we already know that double standards exist, right? Im a woman btw.

There’s no consensus. I and at least one other person said call the police.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:^^^ no sir. You pick up the damned kids. You can stop behaving like you are married and still be a Dad.
Jfc. Separate your disdain for your spouse from your children

No you do not. You leverage where you can. It doesn't sound like his kids were being hurt. He just made his exwife leave work to do the chore. You think he's supposed to be picking up all the slack while she's screwing some other guy?

You're a cuck.

My God, it's parenting. You still do it even through the nastiest of divorces. Men (and women, so don't go there) who can't separate this stuff are so sad.

This is why 50/50 parenting with men is so damaging for the kids. Men will deny resources to their children to piss off their (ex)wives. Women never do this. It’s so sad that the standard custody split is 50/50 considering how men behave towards their families.

If you know how to read, you'll notice PP denied no resources to his children. He denied resources to his wife. If she can't manage her career and care for her children, than shes not only a slut but she's a POS.

Typical female response. The man is responsible for the outcome of the women's cheating.

But, kids grow up and become adults who are capable of seeing what really happened. You should know this- this forum is littered with women estranged from their kids for behavior just like this.

According to the PP he stopped driving his children to soccer and activities. He stopped making them dinner.

Sure, you could argue that all childcare is the mother’s responsibility and men only help when they’re in love with the woman. And if you’re arguing that men have no responsibilities to their children, it’s actually an argument against 50/50 custody. If men can argue that driving their kids to sports and making them dinner is 100% their wives responsibility, those men should not have custody half the time. Poor kids.

Anonymous wrote:I don’t want to call the police. The only evidence I have is a slight fat lip. Probably not enough to get her escorted off the property.

What "property"?

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:^^^ no sir. You pick up the damned kids. You can stop behaving like you are married and still be a Dad.
Jfc. Separate your disdain for your spouse from your children

No you do not. You leverage where you can. It doesn't sound like his kids were being hurt. He just made his exwife leave work to do the chore. You think he's supposed to be picking up all the slack while she's screwing some other guy?

You're a cuck.

My God, it's parenting. You still do it even through the nastiest of divorces. Men (and women, so don't go there) who can't separate this stuff are so sad.

This is why 50/50 parenting with men is so damaging for the kids. Men will deny resources to their children to piss off their (ex)wives. Women never do this. It’s so sad that the standard custody split is 50/50 considering how men behave towards their families.

If you know how to read, you'll notice PP denied no resources to his children. He denied resources to his wife. If she can't manage her career and care for her children, than shes not only a slut but she's a POS.

Typical female response. The man is responsible for the outcome of the women's cheating.

But, kids grow up and become adults who are capable of seeing what really happened. You should know this- this forum is littered with women estranged from their kids for behavior just like this.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:^^^ no sir. You pick up the damned kids. You can stop behaving like you are married and still be a Dad.
Jfc. Separate your disdain for your spouse from your children

No you do not. You leverage where you can. It doesn't sound like his kids were being hurt. He just made his exwife leave work to do the chore. You think he's supposed to be picking up all the slack while she's screwing some other guy?

You're a cuck.

My God, it's parenting. You still do it even through the nastiest of divorces. Men (and women, so don't go there) who can't separate this stuff are so sad.

This is why 50/50 parenting with men is so damaging for the kids. Men will deny resources to their children to piss off their (ex)wives. Women never do this. It’s so sad that the standard custody split is 50/50 considering how men behave towards their families.

Also referring to your children as "leverage" is hideous.

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Anonymous wrote:^^^ no sir. You pick up the damned kids. You can stop behaving like you are married and still be a Dad.
Jfc. Separate your disdain for your spouse from your children

No you do not. You leverage where you can. It doesn't sound like his kids were being hurt. He just made his exwife leave work to do the chore. You think he's supposed to be picking up all the slack while she's screwing some other guy?

You're a cuck.

My God, it's parenting. You still do it even through the nastiest of divorces. Men (and women, so don't go there) who can't separate this stuff are so sad.

I think you should call police.