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Anonymous wrote:Im like OP and feel like a dog in heat. Do men feel like this all the time? I feel sorry for them. The feeling of just needing a good lay wont dissipate and I'm worried about lowering my standards. But I have a one track mind. Self pleasure doesnt help for long.

Wow, where are you women?

Everywhere. At work, the store, drop off st school.

I get this way every couple of months for no known reason but I'm lucky to have a husband who doesn't mind meeting the needs of his 53 year old wife for 5-6 days straight. If he's away I start climbing the walls and rely on toys.

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Anonymous wrote:Im like OP and feel like a dog in heat. Do men feel like this all the time? I feel sorry for them. The feeling of just needing a good lay wont dissipate and I'm worried about lowering my standards. But I have a one track mind. Self pleasure doesnt help for long.

Wow, where are you women?

Everywhere. At work, the store, drop off st school.

I get this way every couple of months for no known reason but I'm lucky to have a husband who doesn't mind meeting the needs of his 53 year old wife for 5-6 days straight. If he's away I start climbing the walls and rely on toys.

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Anonymous wrote:Im like OP and feel like a dog in heat. Do men feel like this all the time? I feel sorry for them. The feeling of just needing a good lay wont dissipate and I'm worried about lowering my standards. But I have a one track mind. Self pleasure doesnt help for long.

Wow, where are you women?

Everywhere. At work, the store, drop off st school.

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Anonymous wrote:Im like OP and feel like a dog in heat. Do men feel like this all the time? I feel sorry for them. The feeling of just needing a good lay wont dissipate and I'm worried about lowering my standards. But I have a one track mind. Self pleasure doesnt help for long.

Wow, where are you women?

I wrote this comment... I feel this way a few days a month and want to come out of hiding. I dont know a "sign" to get the vibe across ... what would you suggest?

Anonymous wrote:What happened to that guy who would always come into threads like this and say, "DM me!", did he get banned or something?

I read that as "banana-ed" and figured that's what he's been up to.

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Anonymous wrote:Why don't you put the effort into your marriage and try to get the spark back? No plans to divorce must mean its worth fighting for?

No. It just means we are financially tied together in ways too difficult to untangle without damaging our kids.

I’ve been to therapy. I’ve tried getting his attention. I’ve tried pretty much everything. I haven’t had sex in 7 years. And I don’t remember the last time I had good sex.

in all honestly, and no insult intended, are you attractive/fit? besides a general statement of looking for [basically] a 40-something FWB, what type of guy do you want?

Still attractive. Still fit. Breasts are bigger after kids but that’s the only change.

I really just want someone to have sex with who isn’t an ax murderer.

Troll alert!

Not the DP but why must this be a troll?

Bc most women who have hadn’t kids don’t have bigger boobs than pre-kids. They’re typically much smaller. Unless OP had a boob job.

Bingo! Caught red handed!

Anonymous wrote:Im like OP and feel like a dog in heat. Do men feel like this all the time? I feel sorry for them. The feeling of just needing a good lay wont dissipate and I'm worried about lowering my standards. But I have a one track mind. Self pleasure doesnt help for long.

Wow, where are you women?

Anonymous wrote:Late 40s? That could be difficult, regardless of gender.

I've had many affairs with married women. While those days are over, women in their 40s were the perfect age for me. As to where to find them, I could write a book on how to do it with excellent advice for a woman in OPs situation. No matter the problems they had a few years back, there is still no better a site than AshleyMadison.

That said, be prepared for the bombardment of 100s of messages your first week. You will really need to filter them. One easy way is to put on your profile text, several sentences down, "when messaging me, put "watermelon seeds" (or whatever) in the subject line of the message. This along will filter most of the replies without having to read them for you know that all those guys who write the magic words, didn't even read your profile.

Next, figure out what kind of guy you want for a fling. Another married guy with as much to lose as you? Single guy who just wants no attachment right now and where you can meet at his place instead of some hotel? Then screen them carefully. Beware of any married guy who has never done this before. He is likely to get too excited and be way too careless, resulting in a bust.

Good luck. I wish I could DM you with 100 other tips.

You are an adult and obviously will make your own decisions. But you may want to consider that you may be more hungry (emotionally and sexually) and deprived (no judgment) than you realized and "no strings" particularly if you end up connecting with someone, could turn out to be quite painful for you. In other words....there may end up being strings. You may be more vulnerable than you want to consider. Just a thought. Take care of yourself.

Anonymous wrote:Late 40s? That could be difficult, regardless of gender.

I am late 30s make and if I was not happily married I would have no problem. I prefer average weight, larger hips and breasts, small muffin top fine also.

Late 40s? That could be difficult, regardless of gender.

Anonymous wrote:Come to Annapolis tomorrow night. Parole Towne Center.

The meat market that is Friday night at ziki and coopers hawk.

I would recommend this also but most of the guys are bad. I watch week after these beautiful successful woman go home with dweebs. Fun people watching, close second to an airport.

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I really just want someone to have sex with who isn’t an ax murderer.

Well, that leaves me out.

#metoo

Anonymous wrote:I'm a DW in the same boat! I got to know someone a little bit outside my normal circle, and eventually it crossed over to FWB. It is tricky, but possible. It was nice because I first got to know and trust him, although now we are purely physical. I see him fairly infrequently, but the sex is amazing, and it keeps me sane! Just take care with your appearance, and look around, there are a lot of guys who would be up for this.

10 out of 10 married men would be up for that.

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I really just want someone to have sex with who isn’t an ax murderer.

Well, that leaves me out.