Anonymous wrote:Bottom line: you (and perhaps your husband) seem to have just learned that their biggest assets are already in BIL's name. So if it is worth it to your DH, he needs to have a conversation with his parents about their choices, plans, etc.

Yes, for whatever reason or excuse they gave one son a substantial inheritance while still alive. It doesn’t happen most times, but it does happen.
Perhaps there is more dysfunction, hard feelings, favoritism, or co-dependency in that family than meets the eye.

At least now you know their true colors.