say OP, were you OW in a previous relationship of his?

Anonymous wrote:I think you have an obligation to this other woman.
I mean, we are talking about a person’s health.

However, she is having unprotected sex w/him so she alone is putting her own health at great risk.

And there is a strong chance she may consider you just a scorned lover.

But I would at least attempt to tell her.

For all Op knows this woman might have several different boyfriends that she's having unprotected sex with. Op doesn't know this woman at all. It's generally bad to assume things about people that you do not know.

Op needs to protect HERSELF and get away from this guy. He was never serious about her if he was sleeping around like that. Op needs to accept it and move on.

I've imagined conversations with my STBXGF's last two partners, for I'm sure they could have warned me. That said, warning her next partner is only something I'd do out of vengeance, and I have no desire for that. But I can also imagine running into that guy a few years later, having a beer and comparing notes.

I don't feel compelled to warn anyone and I don't see that going well for you. Let her do her own due diligence.

I think you have an obligation to this other woman.
I mean, we are talking about a person’s health.

However, she is having unprotected sex w/him so she alone is putting her own health at great risk.

And there is a strong chance she may consider you just a scorned lover.

But I would at least attempt to tell her.

2.07 here. To add, after I confronted the boyfriend he then went and told her that I was an angry ex who had previously tried to break up his relationships. Those were the lies he told.

A liar will always be a liar. Remember that.

The other woman didn't believe that I was currently in a 1 year relationship with him. She moved in with him soon after all smug. It did end really really badly for her - she had to get a restraining order from him.

At least I didn't cop that crap.