Anonymous
Post 05/16/2019 13:07     Subject: Re:Serious question: Why are people afraid to admit privilege?

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Anonymous wrote:I'm a first generation immigrant from a poor Eastern European country. I'm also white and beautiful. I had minimal struggles despite being a poor immigrant only because I'm white and beautiful. I'm saying minimal, not none, because the vast majority of my managers have been mediocre white men with low intellect, degrees from podunk universities, with no communication or writing skills. Forget about leadership skills.
Georgetown came out with a great study showing that smarter kids from disadvantaged backgrounds are worse off than white kids with lower intellect.
The trend continues, at least at my work, where I advocated for hiring some amazing candidates with proven leadership skills, MIT degrees (I'm in tech). So far, for the last 3 years, we've been hiring only mediocre white men as they show the greatest potential for teamwork.


UGH! The "teamwork" angle. For most white men, Teamwork just means piggybacking off of other people's ideas while they shirk the blame/responsibility and claim all the credit.


UGH! The "teamwork" angle. For most black women, Teamwork just means piggybacking off of other people's ideas while they shirk the blame/responsibility and claim all the credit.

That doesn't sound bigoted at all, does it You sexist racist.
Anonymous
Post 05/16/2019 13:07     Subject: Serious question: Why are people afraid to admit privilege?

Yet another reason why the 2 party system sucks. I vote D (and will continue to do so) for Education, Gun Control, and Healthcare. I do not agree fully with (among others) affirmative action, entitlement spending, illegal immigration. But the first 3 are non-negotiable to me.
Anonymous
Post 05/16/2019 13:07     Subject: Re:Serious question: Why are people afraid to admit privilege?

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Anonymous wrote:I'm someone who fully believes that some people are born with more privilege or advantages (due to race, sex, SES, etc) than others. Consequently, I also believe there should be policies intended to equalize the playing field. But SAT adversity points scheme is stupid and self-defeating. What's the purpose of the exam if the score is not an accurate reflection of how well the student performed on the exam? The answer should be making free SAT prep available to disadvantaged students not artificially inflating SAT scores.


If you have a class with 40 kids that are advanced and 10 kids that are average the 10 kids that are average are going to struggle and frankly they have no business at an elite institution

the actual solution is to improve schools in lower performing areas to address the knowledge gap much earlier in life and really it starts from birth-5 with more and better headstart type programs



Get with the times, PP. That is so old school. Nowadays, the going reasoning is that there is *obviously* something wrong with the curriculum or the test if those 10 kids are underperforming. It must be racial bias or privilege-bias (especially if 8 out of 10 of those kids are URM) that caused the kids not to learn as quickly. So now you need to change the curriculum or create ratios so that you push at least 6 of those 10 kids into the advanced program. (See AAP in FCPS)


ha yeah I know. I'm just waiting for all the SJW to move to the crappy areas. That would fix the problem too but surprise no one does it. Seems like SJW like to hold on to "privilege" aka do what's best for their children just like everyone else. So to all the SJW f off lolz


Such an easy term to throw around. Has it never occurred to you that there are plenty of progressives in low-income areas as well?


The vast, vast majority do not stay, particularly after they have kids.


Again, you're assuming that only people with significant money can be progressives (if they don't have money, they don't have a choice about staying in a low-income area). That's simply not true.

I'm LMC, as are my neighbors, and everyone I've met here is probably what you'd dismiss as an "SJW."


I think you are probably responding to my comments. I'll cut you so some slack but you realize you are a unicorn right. DCUM barely has any LMC people on it. It does have tons of progressives/SJW/limousine liberals who have the do as I say not as I do down to a T.


Again, based on my own experience, I'm not a unicorn. Perhaps you need to step outside your own personal bubble - not everyone on the left is rich, although clearly you'd prefer that to be the case so you could just dismiss all of us.
Anonymous
Post 05/16/2019 13:06     Subject: Serious question: Why are people afraid to admit privilege?




You can’t put a number on someone’s adversity.

That’s why people are so frustrated.

My mother was mentally ill and abusive my entire childhood. It was adversity, but I could never include it on an application.

I am not white.
Anonymous
Post 05/16/2019 13:04     Subject: Re:Serious question: Why are people afraid to admit privilege?

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Anonymous wrote:I'm someone who fully believes that some people are born with more privilege or advantages (due to race, sex, SES, etc) than others. Consequently, I also believe there should be policies intended to equalize the playing field. But SAT adversity points scheme is stupid and self-defeating. What's the purpose of the exam if the score is not an accurate reflection of how well the student performed on the exam? The answer should be making free SAT prep available to disadvantaged students not artificially inflating SAT scores.


If you have a class with 40 kids that are advanced and 10 kids that are average the 10 kids that are average are going to struggle and frankly they have no business at an elite institution

the actual solution is to improve schools in lower performing areas to address the knowledge gap much earlier in life and really it starts from birth-5 with more and better headstart type programs



Get with the times, PP. That is so old school. Nowadays, the going reasoning is that there is *obviously* something wrong with the curriculum or the test if those 10 kids are underperforming. It must be racial bias or privilege-bias (especially if 8 out of 10 of those kids are URM) that caused the kids not to learn as quickly. So now you need to change the curriculum or create ratios so that you push at least 6 of those 10 kids into the advanced program. (See AAP in FCPS)


ha yeah I know. I'm just waiting for all the SJW to move to the crappy areas. That would fix the problem too but surprise no one does it. Seems like SJW like to hold on to "privilege" aka do what's best for their children just like everyone else. So to all the SJW f off lolz


Such an easy term to throw around. Has it never occurred to you that there are plenty of progressives in low-income areas as well?


The vast, vast majority do not stay, particularly after they have kids.


Again, you're assuming that only people with significant money can be progressives (if they don't have money, they don't have a choice about staying in a low-income area). That's simply not true.

I'm LMC, as are my neighbors, and everyone I've met here is probably what you'd dismiss as an "SJW."


I think you are probably responding to my comments. I'll cut you so some slack but you realize you are a unicorn right. DCUM barely has any LMC people on it. It does have tons of progressives/SJW/limousine liberals who have the do as I say not as I do down to a T.
Anonymous
Post 05/16/2019 13:02     Subject: Serious question: Why are people afraid to admit privilege?

I'm not afraid to admit privilege. I felt it the moment I arrived in DC.
I worked hard to but it's easy to work when everything is going your way just because you are white.
Me white foreigner, me no English and nobody cared.
I've been offered a job while I was shopping (no, not that kind of job). This was one of the first very big glues how "special I am" in US or at least in DC.
Being told that I have credit and can move into an apartment asap, was another big glue. What's a "credit"?!
I don't even worry about my kids. They are white in America and go to good schools.
Anonymous
Post 05/16/2019 13:02     Subject: Re:Serious question: Why are people afraid to admit privilege?

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Anonymous wrote:Fck off. I worked for my "privilege". My parents were the first in my family to go to college. I resent this being counted against my kids for purely political reasons.


You really don’t get it apparently.

I’m a lawyer in biglaw. No one in the building works harder than the janitorial staff. And many of them have second and third jobs. Lots of people work hard. But their hard work doesn’t help their kids like mine does.


People think that "privilege" means you never faced adversity. It doesn't. It means that any adversity you faced was not the result of your race/gender/poverty.

It's also really hard for people to accept that their success was not purely the result of "hard work."
Anonymous
Post 05/16/2019 13:02     Subject: Serious question: Why are people afraid to admit privilege?

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Anonymous wrote:I am shocked by how many people are upset of the SAT adversity score. They do not want to admit the privileges that their children having growing up in a nice school district, safe school, etc. These are all great things! Everyone wants these things for their kids but sadly, many kids do not have access to these resources. Why are people so afraid to own that privilege and be proud of it while also working toward the same future for other kids? What are you afraid of? Honestly if you kid doesn't get into HPY and goes to say, UVA- what do you think will happen? Do you really think their future is lost? Are you afraid they will end up on the streets?

Seriously please help me understand...


Because they don't want their kids to just have a good life, they want their kids to have it all. They want everything for their kids and don't care if that means other kids get little of nothing.


Yes! How do you not get that the rich white kids are the real victims here?

Anonymous
Post 05/16/2019 13:01     Subject: Re:Serious question: Why are people afraid to admit privilege?

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How do people avoid poverty if the minimum wage (which is all you can expect to earn, at least at first, if you have only an HS diploma) will not rent you a two-bedroom in 99 percent of the nation's counties? How do you pay for a trade school if all you're earning is minimum wage?


Read the PPs more closely.

You don't need a two-bedroom apartment all to yourself if you are single, and remember, you don't have kids yet!. You won't have kids for -years-.

So as a single 19 or 20 year old with a high school degree, earning minimum wage, you rent a room in a group house if you're in an expensive city. Maybe you even share that room that has 2 twin-size beds with another person?

If you're in, say, Dubuque IA, and group homes aren't a thing, you rent a basement from a SFH homeowner on the outskirts of town. Maybe you rent that basement with a roommate.

Are you in my hometown in Kansas, working in an agribusiness processing plant? Then you and 5 of your friends at the plant rent the whole damn house, and you follow the rules and don't trash the house and the owner lets you continue to rent for years as you attend night school at the county community college.

All of this is doable. It's hard as hell to live in deprivation without that second bedroom and balcony, but a healthy, childless, single 19 year old working 40+ hours a week can do it.




Again, on a minimum wage, you're going to find yourself stuck in that basement in Dubuque for a very long time. Maybe forever.
Anonymous
Post 05/16/2019 13:00     Subject: Re:Serious question: Why are people afraid to admit privilege?

Because of the expectation that you will work to make things more equal.

If you are a privileged person, you will give up some privileges.
Anonymous
Post 05/16/2019 13:00     Subject: Re:Serious question: Why are people afraid to admit privilege?

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Anonymous wrote:I'm someone who fully believes that some people are born with more privilege or advantages (due to race, sex, SES, etc) than others. Consequently, I also believe there should be policies intended to equalize the playing field. But SAT adversity points scheme is stupid and self-defeating. What's the purpose of the exam if the score is not an accurate reflection of how well the student performed on the exam? The answer should be making free SAT prep available to disadvantaged students not artificially inflating SAT scores.


If you have a class with 40 kids that are advanced and 10 kids that are average the 10 kids that are average are going to struggle and frankly they have no business at an elite institution

the actual solution is to improve schools in lower performing areas to address the knowledge gap much earlier in life and really it starts from birth-5 with more and better headstart type programs



Get with the times, PP. That is so old school. Nowadays, the going reasoning is that there is *obviously* something wrong with the curriculum or the test if those 10 kids are underperforming. It must be racial bias or privilege-bias (especially if 8 out of 10 of those kids are URM) that caused the kids not to learn as quickly. So now you need to change the curriculum or create ratios so that you push at least 6 of those 10 kids into the advanced program. (See AAP in FCPS)


ha yeah I know. I'm just waiting for all the SJW to move to the crappy areas. That would fix the problem too but surprise no one does it. Seems like SJW like to hold on to "privilege" aka do what's best for their children just like everyone else. So to all the SJW f off lolz


Such an easy term to throw around. Has it never occurred to you that there are plenty of progressives in low-income areas as well?


The vast, vast majority do not stay, particularly after they have kids.


Again, you're assuming that only people with significant money can be progressives (if they don't have money, they don't have a choice about staying in a low-income area). That's simply not true.

I'm LMC, as are my neighbors, and everyone I've met here is probably what you'd dismiss as an "SJW."
Anonymous
Post 05/16/2019 12:58     Subject: Re:Serious question: Why are people afraid to admit privilege?

How do people avoid poverty if the minimum wage (which is all you can expect to earn, at least at first, if you have only an HS diploma) will not rent you a two-bedroom in 99 percent of the nation's counties? How do you pay for a trade school if all you're earning is minimum wage?


Read the PPs more closely.

You don't need a two-bedroom apartment all to yourself if you are single, and remember, you don't have kids yet!. You won't have kids for -years-.

So as a single 19 or 20 year old with a high school degree, earning minimum wage, you rent a room in a group house if you're in an expensive city. Maybe you even share that room that has 2 twin-size beds with another person?

If you're in, say, Dubuque IA, and group homes aren't a thing, you rent a basement from a SFH homeowner on the outskirts of town. Maybe you rent that basement with a roommate.

Are you in my hometown in Kansas, working in an agribusiness processing plant? Then you and 5 of your friends at the plant rent the whole damn house, and you follow the rules and don't trash the house and the owner lets you continue to rent for years as you attend night school at the county community college.

All of this is doable. It's hard as hell to live in deprivation without that second bedroom and balcony, but a healthy, childless, single 19 year old working 40+ hours a week can do it.


Anonymous
Post 05/16/2019 12:58     Subject: Serious question: Why are people afraid to admit privilege?

White people of any income level can move about freely without being targeted due to racial stereotypes.

This is not true of anyone who does not have white skin, no matter the ethnicity or race.

That is the essential privilege that anyone, including poor whites, must acknowledge. But is anyone really denying it?
Anonymous
Post 05/16/2019 12:52     Subject: Re:Serious question: Why are people afraid to admit privilege?

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Anonymous wrote:I'm someone who fully believes that some people are born with more privilege or advantages (due to race, sex, SES, etc) than others. Consequently, I also believe there should be policies intended to equalize the playing field. But SAT adversity points scheme is stupid and self-defeating. What's the purpose of the exam if the score is not an accurate reflection of how well the student performed on the exam? The answer should be making free SAT prep available to disadvantaged students not artificially inflating SAT scores.


If you have a class with 40 kids that are advanced and 10 kids that are average the 10 kids that are average are going to struggle and frankly they have no business at an elite institution

the actual solution is to improve schools in lower performing areas to address the knowledge gap much earlier in life and really it starts from birth-5 with more and better headstart type programs



Get with the times, PP. That is so old school. Nowadays, the going reasoning is that there is *obviously* something wrong with the curriculum or the test if those 10 kids are underperforming. It must be racial bias or privilege-bias (especially if 8 out of 10 of those kids are URM) that caused the kids not to learn as quickly. So now you need to change the curriculum or create ratios so that you push at least 6 of those 10 kids into the advanced program. (See AAP in FCPS)


ha yeah I know. I'm just waiting for all the SJW to move to the crappy areas. That would fix the problem too but surprise no one does it. Seems like SJW like to hold on to "privilege" aka do what's best for their children just like everyone else. So to all the SJW f off lolz


Such an easy term to throw around. Has it never occurred to you that there are plenty of progressives in low-income areas as well?


The vast, vast majority do not stay, particularly after they have kids.
Anonymous
Post 05/16/2019 12:50     Subject: Serious question: Why are people afraid to admit privilege?

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Anonymous wrote:There is also privilege in being unprivileged. We should acknowledge that as well.

Neither of my parents went to college. One parent only has an 8th grade education. I was embarrassed by this fact until my high school guidance counselor showed me how it would be a good thing and work to my advantage. She told me that colleges loved someone like me who'd persevered through all the challenges and still managed to be a 4.0 student. I didn't really trust her 100% until I took the PSATs. I scored a 1540 and colleges started bombarding me with calls and invites to tour their campuses. I got a 1570 on my SATs and the recruiting intensified. With the help of my guidance counselor, I was able to visit most schools for free by utilizing their financial aid departments. There's no way my parents could afford trips like that for me to take tours.

The fact that I had under-educated, blue collar parents worked to my advantage and helped me get into an Ivy. Yes, I had excellent grades and test scores, but without the guidance and knowledge of my counselor, I would have ignored all of those offers for tours and never have applied to any Ivy league schools. Before that I was 100% planning on attending George Mason so I could live at home and save money that way. That's still privilege, IMO.



Same here. I would assume that you, like me, experienced a fairly sh$tty childhood with food scarcity, no heat at times, etc., so I don't feel my scholarship was undeserved. However, it was a little weird to graduate with no debt while my wealthy classmates were saddled with many thousands to pay.

But that's how they achieve their goals of diversity, and I was glad to participate. I'm now a woman in a hugely male-dominated field, and yes, I've gotten every job I've applied for. I'm 100% qualified, and I assume at least one male applicant was, too. But diversity's working in my favor because of what I guess you would call female privilege.


I mean, cool story for you. But you do know that your children will not benefit from such privilege, right?

Also, if you are caucasian, that "female diversity" will only carry you so far. You will win the job over a white male, but if you're up against a female, lesbian woman of color, you will lose the job every time.


I'm not sure of your argument here. No, my kids didn't experience poverty like I did. Although we're successful, we're definitely in that donut hole of UMC but not rich enough to afford private college unaided. That's in part why I say growing up without means gives you a brief moment of privilege when it comes to college.

I am Caucasian, and by the time I'm competing with other women of any demographic, I'll be retired. You are correct that it's a very good time to be a white woman in the workplace. Businesses can hire more UMC/wealthy white people yet call themselves "diverse." It won't last for long.

However, I also see a day when it all cycles back to white guys. The basic hierarchical models stretch back centuries, and two or three years of wokeness in the United States is not going to change that.