Who cares what others think. Your kid, your decision. Tell them exactly what you said “we have neutral items on our list or you can wait until after he/she is born” - the end.

People kill me when they have opinions about what you should do during your pregnancy, your baby, your life. Be happy and keep your opinions/comments to yourself! It’s just that simple.

Congratulations on your pregnancy!

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Anonymous wrote:It’s really hard to find gender neutral gifts and buying baby clothes is usually fun. Buying gender neutral baby clothes is not really fun. And, people who keep from learning the gender or keep their preferred names secret are usually pretty obnoxious. Sorry op

Why are you finding gender neutral baby clothes? Why not just buy off the registry? Or buy books? Or a million other things that a new baby needs. New babies really don't need clothes.

+1. I’m sure they wouldn’t mind a gift card/cash also.

Anonymous wrote:It’s really hard to find gender neutral gifts and buying baby clothes is usually fun. Buying gender neutral baby clothes is not really fun. And, people who keep from learning the gender or keep their preferred names secret are usually pretty obnoxious. Sorry op

You only feel this way because you have a constant need to interfere in other people’s lives. Sorry PP

Anonymous wrote:It’s really hard to find gender neutral gifts and buying baby clothes is usually fun. Buying gender neutral baby clothes is not really fun. And, people who keep from learning the gender or keep their preferred names secret are usually pretty obnoxious. Sorry op

Why are you finding gender neutral baby clothes? Why not just buy off the registry? Or buy books? Or a million other things that a new baby needs. New babies really don't need clothes.

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Anonymous wrote:Why wouldn’t you want to know? Stupid.

HA! This right here is what OP is up against.

I'm sorry you're jealous that people thought it was more exciting when your sister or friend made their announcement than when you did, and people were like, "Oh yeah, Baby Kevin that she's been postig on FB about for four months is now actually here."

Ahh, the jealousy argument!

Next you'll be arguing that women who work by choice are jealous of SAHMs.

More like the opposite.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Why wouldn’t you want to know? Stupid.

HA! This right here is what OP is up against.

I'm sorry you're jealous that people thought it was more exciting when your sister or friend made their announcement than when you did, and people were like, "Oh yeah, Baby Kevin that she's been postig on FB about for four months is now actually here."

Ahh, the jealousy argument!

Next you'll be arguing that women who work by choice are jealous of SAHMs.

A lot of times they are!

I find it annoying too OP.

Anonymous wrote:No one cares nearly as much as you think they care. Seriously.

+1

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Anonymous wrote:Why wouldn’t you want to know? Stupid.

HA! This right here is what OP is up against.

I'm sorry you're jealous that people thought it was more exciting when your sister or friend made their announcement than when you did, and people were like, "Oh yeah, Baby Kevin that she's been postig on FB about for four months is now actually here."

Ahh, the jealousy argument!

Next you'll be arguing that women who work by choice are jealous of SAHMs.

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Anonymous wrote:It’s really hard to find gender neutral gifts and buying baby clothes is usually fun. Buying gender neutral baby clothes is not really fun. And, people who keep from learning the gender or keep their preferred names secret are usually pretty obnoxious. Sorry op

Honey, you are not considering millions of people who did it with ease.

I had no problem finding gender-neutral baby clothes and blankets and toys. Plenty of cute stuff in colors other than blue or pink.

And I'll add, I found plenty of stuff in the store, not just online. Target is chock-full of yellow ducky jammies and green frog onesies.

Anonymous wrote:I don't know how you don't know what gender your baby is. Didn't you watch the anatomy scan? I knew the sex of our kids before the techs said a word. Boys are pretty obvious...

Not always clear. In our case, the baby's position made it hard to tell. The tech said she could try again, and we said not to bother, we didn't really want to know.

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Anonymous wrote:It’s really hard to find gender neutral gifts and buying baby clothes is usually fun. Buying gender neutral baby clothes is not really fun. And, people who keep from learning the gender or keep their preferred names secret are usually pretty obnoxious. Sorry op

Honey, you are not considering millions of people who did it with ease.

I had no problem finding gender-neutral baby clothes and blankets and toys. Plenty of cute stuff in colors other than blue or pink.

OP, if you are paying attention to all this drama, you have a tough road ahead as a parent. Let. It. Go.

The most ridiculous thing about people being upset that they don't know the baby's gender before the baby's born is that they will eventually find out. It isn't as if it'll be a secret forever and no one will know. The idea that people can even know the gender before birth is so new in the scheme of things that I can't fathom that people would think not finding out is "wrong" or "obnoxious."

No one cares nearly as much as you think they care. Seriously.