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Anonymous wrote:And what did we learn here: there's no need to REMIND men about a date. If he hasn't contacted you to confirm exact place and time - he doesn't want to see you.
It's that simple.

Sure if you want to take a passive role in your life.

My active role certainly won't be to chase men.

Are you in a relationship?

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Anonymous wrote:And what did we learn here: there's no need to REMIND men about a date. If he hasn't contacted you to confirm exact place and time - he doesn't want to see you.
It's that simple.

Sure if you want to take a passive role in your life.

My active role certainly won't be to chase men.

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Anonymous wrote:Why don't you ask?

Because I don't want to seem desperate.

You seem like you are 12

That's how most women think--like 12 year olds.

Anonymous wrote:And what did we learn here: there's no need to REMIND men about a date. If he hasn't contacted you to confirm exact place and time - he doesn't want to see you.
It's that simple.

I agree! To me confirming opens the door that you think there’s a chance he’ll flake. AS IF! Just be ready around the normal date time and be flirty and fun like guys pick you up on time all the time. Not like the last two guys you dated would either not show or would be 4 hours late.

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Anonymous wrote:I decided to text him and he hasn't responded so ai have my answer

Does his name start with an A and end with an L? If so, he did the same thing to me. LOL

No it starts with A , but ends differently. His loss and my gain.

With a Y?

Anonymous wrote:And what did we learn here: there's no need to REMIND men about a date. If he hasn't contacted you to confirm exact place and time - he doesn't want to see you.
It's that simple.

Sure if you want to take a passive role in your life. Op did fine and she got a date with another guy too.

And what did we learn here: there's no need to REMIND men about a date. If he hasn't contacted you to confirm exact place and time - he doesn't want to see you.
It's that simple.

Anonymous wrote:That is awesome, OP!

Fingers crossed.

That is awesome, OP!

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I decided to text him and he hasn't responded so ai have my answer

Does his name start with an A and end with an L? If so, he did the same thing to me. LOL

No it starts with A , but ends differently. His loss and my gain.

Anonymous wrote:Any update, OP? Did he ever text you back?

I’m invested now!

Op here. No he did not. I went out with my friends instead. Gave a guy my number too and he's already asked me out on a proper date for next week.

Anonymous wrote:Any update, OP? Did he ever text you back?

I’m invested now!

So you might want to actually read the thread.

Any update, OP? Did he ever text you back?

I’m invested now!

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Anonymous wrote:"Looking forward to tonight! What time do you want to meet?"

PS I agree men do suck at this. My husband does.

This entirely. My partner has a clear idea of time, but often forgets to tell me. It’s ok to ask.

It’s different if it’s your husband or long term partner. Assuming that men have the best of intentions, but are just inept, is how women get themselves into trouble.

I'm not in trouble, nor have I ever been in trouble.

Ok Mary Sunshine.

It doesn’t mean these men are unreliable children. Let’s not be so extreme. I’m sure you have a quirk that needn’t be elevated to red flag status. I want clear communication and follow through in early dating as well. Sounds like OP handled it perfectly for her own situation/peace of mind.

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Anonymous wrote:NP
That's what I took away from the title of the thread, "He asked me out for Friday but still hasn't set s time?"

What?