I'll get implants when my husband gets his own implant. I mean that would improve our sex life too, right? Why is it only about the woman?

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Anonymous wrote:Before we had children I was very small chested, an A cup at best. When I got pregnant, but before my stomach ballooned, my breasts got much bigger, at least a B and maybe a C. It was crazy! It was a big turn on for my husband and maybe lasted 2 months before I was really showing. After we had all of our children and went back to my A days I decided to get implants to bring me back to that B/C look. I look better and I know my DH is happy too.

I know you are referring to yourself, but I don't think people see how damaging this kind of talk is. People read these accounts, young girls look up to older women, and the message they get, intended or not, is that small breasts are inferior. That you should change your body to "look better" and turn a man on. It is just an icky message. An A cup is fine, it is great. You decision is yours and it is great that you are comfortable with it. But be careful of the messaging.

This +1000000

I am nearly flat chested (was very small chested to begin with, and even smaller after breastfeeding three) and would love to do this, although my husband is opposed. However, when my breasts were bigger during breastfeeding, I could tell it turned him on and we were able to do some things in bed that were different and enjoyable. He’s against me going through surgery, money that could be spent on other things, and says he really doesn’t care about breast size and loves my body as it is.

Those of you who did this, did you worry about the risks? The new evidence linking breast implants to certain types of cancer? The idea that they will probably have to be replaced every ten years, necessitating more surgery/risk? Those are my main concerns. I do think they would increase my confidence tremendously and make me feel more sexual. How much did yours cost?

Anonymous wrote:Before we had children I was very small chested, an A cup at best. When I got pregnant, but before my stomach ballooned, my breasts got much bigger, at least a B and maybe a C. It was crazy! It was a big turn on for my husband and maybe lasted 2 months before I was really showing. After we had all of our children and went back to my A days I decided to get implants to bring me back to that B/C look. I look better and I know my DH is happy too.

I know you are referring to yourself, but I don't think people see how damaging this kind of talk is. People read these accounts, young girls look up to older women, and the message they get, intended or not, is that small breasts are inferior. That you should change your body to "look better" and turn a man on. It is just an icky message. An A cup is fine, it is great. You decision is yours and it is great that you are comfortable with it. But be careful of the messaging.

Before we had children I was very small chested, an A cup at best. When I got pregnant, but before my stomach ballooned, my breasts got much bigger, at least a B and maybe a C. It was crazy! It was a big turn on for my husband and maybe lasted 2 months before I was really showing. After we had all of our children and went back to my A days I decided to get implants to bring me back to that B/C look. I look better and I know my DH is happy too.

What I really noticed is how much more my DH loves to soap me up in the shower. He really gets turned on and so do I so that by the time we get into bed we are both ready to really enjoy ourselves.

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Anonymous wrote:My wife is seriously considering getting a breast augmentation after having two kids. I've told her she's beautiful and doesn't need them, but she keeps telling me how much more confident she will feel with implants. My wife is self conscious about her body post kids which has not been great for our sex life. Just curious for those of you that have implants or are married to someone with them, did the increased confidence change your sex life at all?

She's not doing it for you. She's doing it for some other dude she has the hots for. Fair warning.

Small-chested woman here. Just want to weigh in that if I ever get breast augmentation (which I probably won't, only because of the cost and judgment I would get from my family), it would be for myself and secondarily for my husband. Just because a woman gets a boob job doesn't mean she has an AP.

She might not have one... yet... but she's got her eye on one that she might like to have.

Improving the odds for a branch swing.

Is this open marriage guy? It feels like OMG's general life view on women and relationships.

We had a very good sex life before I got my implants so that wasn't an issue. I will say that having larger breasts has led to a few different bedroom behaviors that have been a pleasant surprise.

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Anonymous wrote:The tummy can be handled with effort in many non-C section cases. I would never ask for that. I lobe my babies to death but they ruined my perkies. A lift and a small implant did wonders for me liking the way I looked and I believe it helps me want to stay fit.

"My perkies"? What the actual F.

Don't be jealous of of my perky breasts. Not everyone wants to be a DD and have back issues when they age.

Anonymous wrote:Definitely very realistic feel. One is firmer than the other but not anywhere near baseball like.

Mine feel realistic as well and my DH really enjoys my "love handles".

Definitely very realistic feel. One is firmer than the other but not anywhere near baseball like.

Anonymous wrote:Yuck. It's like putting your hands on two baseballs.

The old tech yes... New tech is softer I think

Definitely yes! My wife lost her beautiful perky breasts after breastfeeding. They deflated and sagged. She was really embarrassed and shy about it. No lights on allowed. I told her I loved her unconditionally and how worried i was about surgery. She got nice c cups not too big and I have to admit she has never looked better. She really enjoys filling out clothes now. Her new found confidence in her body is incredible! She doesn’t mind walking around nude in the bedroom and our sex life has increased from about 1 time a week to 3-6 times per week! She now enjoys new positions and sometimes even wants another round! If I knew it would be like this I would have offered it up 15 years ago! Go for it!

If she gets em, the sex life will improve. Whether is it with you is the question.

Anonymous wrote:Yuck. It's like putting your hands on two baseballs.

+1. I had a GF in her twenties, no kids get these. She looked great in her little black number but I'll take real ones any day, thank you.