Anonymous
Post 02/19/2019 20:00     Subject: Tell me about your whoops baby
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Anonymous wrote:I am so happy for "whoops" babies or I would not have been able to adopt my 3 kids.

Your kids were planned
You did not suddenly find out you were adopting and have a baby arrive in your home



It took 9 months to complete the paperwork and meet my kid(s). Same amount of time it took you to decide whether to carry the pregnancy, or terminate it, or place for adoption.

I doubt any baby suddenly "arrives". Or are you one of those women in the news who gave birth but never knew she was pregnant?
Anonymous
Post 02/18/2019 09:13     Subject: Tell me about your whoops baby
Anonymous wrote:Is it possible to get pregnant without intervention at 45? I want a whoops baby so bad.


DH was a surprise baby, and his mom was 46 when she had him.
Anonymous
Post 02/18/2019 08:33     Subject: Tell me about your whoops baby
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I am so happy for "whoops" babies or I would not have been able to adopt my 3 kids.

Your kids were planned
You did not suddenly find out you were adopting and have a baby arrive in your home


You misunderstand PP. She’s saying other people’s whoops babies whom they then place for adoption allowed her to adopt them
Anonymous
Post 02/18/2019 00:41     Subject: Tell me about your whoops baby
Anonymous wrote:I am so happy for "whoops" babies or I would not have been able to adopt my 3 kids.

Your kids were planned
You did not suddenly find out you were adopting and have a baby arrive in your home
Anonymous
Post 02/18/2019 00:40     Subject: Re:Tell me about your whoops baby
Anonymous wrote:IUD failure. Obsessed with her


This is legit lol
Anonymous
Post 02/17/2019 22:24     Subject: Re:Tell me about your whoops baby
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Anonymous wrote:So sick of this “whoops” and surprise BS. Unless you have a rare birth control failure, there is no such thing.


The people who say this are generally miserable, struggled with infertility, and jealous. No form of birth control is 100%.

The people who say this are generally women who think that they are super special beings because they got knocked up and popped three babies out of their vagina.


Sorry you wanted that third and your husband said no.

You’ve got me. No snark intended. I am super jealous of 3-kid families but my husband says no to EVERYTHING and expects a lot of persuasion to say yes. I have 2 and the process costed me years of life. I am jealous because a whoops baby would never happen to me. Not a chance.
Anonymous
Post 02/17/2019 22:12     Subject: Re:Tell me about your whoops baby
Anonymous wrote:So sick of this “whoops” and surprise BS. Unless you have a rare birth control failure, there is no such thing.


I was told my literal world experts there was no way whatsoever that I could get pregnant. I've heard a number of similar stories. Is my surprise baby BS and my fault?

Sucks to have IF for years and then deal with people like you on top of it.
Anonymous
Post 02/17/2019 21:53     Subject: Re:Tell me about your whoops baby
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Anonymous wrote:So sick of this “whoops” and surprise BS. Unless you have a rare birth control failure, there is no such thing.


Pp, get off your high horse. My youngest is a surprise, especially as he was conceived with condom useage, me on birth control pills and in perimenopause (I hadn’t had my cycle in almost 2 years at the time). He is amazing but was quite the shock! So needless to say, it happens, and not because people are dumb.


You used a condom and were on the pill while married? Uh, ok.


NP here, I did this for years. I didn't want to get pregnant.


I’ve done this too, for the same reason. Not fun to use a condom every time (or to take a pill every day) but I really didn’t want to get pregnant. I’m one of those extremely fertile ones who got pregnant first time trying twice, don’t want that to happen again so we’re extra cautious.
Anonymous
Post 02/17/2019 21:28     Subject: Tell me about your whoops baby
But having just one is SO much easier than 3.

I had a rare morning of just getting 1 ready for a doctor appointment and never felt so productive and organized and on time in my life.

You just don’t realize it unless you have more kids.
Anonymous
Post 02/17/2019 21:28     Subject: Re:Tell me about your whoops baby
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Anonymous wrote:So sick of this “whoops” and surprise BS. Unless you have a rare birth control failure, there is no such thing.


The people who say this are generally miserable, struggled with infertility, and jealous. No form of birth control is 100%.

The people who say this are generally women who think that they are super special beings because they got knocked up and popped three babies out of their vagina.


Sorry you wanted that third and your husband said no.

Ugh! Typical three-kid mom acting like they cured cancer because they have three kids and looking down of people with fewer children.



Typical? lol.

Yes, some 3 kid moms are the most judgmental and full of themselves. I once heard a bunch of them yapping in front of 1 and 2 kid moms at preschool about how easy it was when they just had one or two. Like they are somehow a higher type of mother because they had three. I come from a big family in which a lot of women had 5 or 6 kids and I never heard them talk so much about it or seek any kind of recognition. I think that, in this area, the bragging might be due to the fact that it is mostly affluent, entitled women who are able to afford three kids. And they had three because they could and because all of their other rich friends where doing it and they had to keep up with Joneses.


And in conclusion, you are bitter because you weren't fertile enough to have 3 kids. Sad!

And you think that you are special because you were?


No, just happy!

Yeah, sure.
Anonymous
Post 02/17/2019 21:23     Subject: Re:Tell me about your whoops baby
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:So sick of this “whoops” and surprise BS. Unless you have a rare birth control failure, there is no such thing.


Pp, get off your high horse. My youngest is a surprise, especially as he was conceived with condom useage, me on birth control pills and in perimenopause (I hadn’t had my cycle in almost 2 years at the time). He is amazing but was quite the shock! So needless to say, it happens, and not because people are dumb.


You used a condom and were on the pill while married? Uh, ok.


NP here, I did this for years. I didn't want to get pregnant.
Anonymous
Post 02/17/2019 21:03     Subject: Re:Tell me about your whoops baby
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Anonymous wrote:So sick of this “whoops” and surprise BS. Unless you have a rare birth control failure, there is no such thing.


The people who say this are generally miserable, struggled with infertility, and jealous. No form of birth control is 100%.

The people who say this are generally women who think that they are super special beings because they got knocked up and popped three babies out of their vagina.


Sorry you wanted that third and your husband said no.

Ugh! Typical three-kid mom acting like they cured cancer because they have three kids and looking down of people with fewer children.



Typical? lol.

Yes, some 3 kid moms are the most judgmental and full of themselves. I once heard a bunch of them yapping in front of 1 and 2 kid moms at preschool about how easy it was when they just had one or two. Like they are somehow a higher type of mother because they had three. I come from a big family in which a lot of women had 5 or 6 kids and I never heard them talk so much about it or seek any kind of recognition. I think that, in this area, the bragging might be due to the fact that it is mostly affluent, entitled women who are able to afford three kids. And they had three because they could and because all of their other rich friends where doing it and they had to keep up with Joneses.


And in conclusion, you are bitter because you weren't fertile enough to have 3 kids. Sad!

And you think that you are special because you were?


No, just happy!
Anonymous
Post 02/17/2019 20:57     Subject: Tell me about your whoops baby
Anonymous wrote:Is it possible to get pregnant without intervention at 45? I want a whoops baby so bad.


Sure. I knew a few growing up and my mother reported that mid 40s abortion in the neighborhood was not insignificant amongst her friends, so yeah.
Anonymous
Post 02/17/2019 19:43     Subject: Re:Tell me about your whoops baby
IUD failure. Obsessed with her
Anonymous
Post 02/17/2019 19:42     Subject: Tell me about your whoops baby
I am so happy for "whoops" babies or I would not have been able to adopt my 3 kids.