Anonymous wrote:I’m Daniel tiger’s mom. I’m forced to be. My 3yo cannot handle me raising my voice at all. I cannot even remotely shame her. If I even look like I’m displeased she will notice and spiral into an anxious mess. She has many, many times noticed a bad mood by my voice or face before I even realize it.
Her emotional connection is only with me. Over the last 18 months I’ve learned to be the most gentle and calm mom. Recently I shared with my friends how my dd struggles so much with anxiety and they commented how strange it was because I am the most calm and quiet and gentle mom they knew.
So maybe Daniel is the same way. It’s like walking on eggshells.
This sounds unhealthy, it’s normal and appropriate to model emotions and reactions. It sounds like your child has major anxiety and attachment issues. So, this isn’t exactly a good example.