Anonymous
Post 02/06/2019 09:33     Subject: Re:How do I become Daniel Tiger’s mom?

I love this thread! I wish Daniel Tiger had been around when my kids were little. Ahhh, what the heck, maybe I'll start watching it now, all by myself.
Anonymous
Post 02/06/2019 09:29     Subject: How do I become Daniel Tiger’s mom?

Anonymous wrote:I’m Daniel tiger’s mom. I’m forced to be. My 3yo cannot handle me raising my voice at all. I cannot even remotely shame her. If I even look like I’m displeased she will notice and spiral into an anxious mess. She has many, many times noticed a bad mood by my voice or face before I even realize it.

Her emotional connection is only with me. Over the last 18 months I’ve learned to be the most gentle and calm mom. Recently I shared with my friends how my dd struggles so much with anxiety and they commented how strange it was because I am the most calm and quiet and gentle mom they knew.

So maybe Daniel is the same way. It’s like walking on eggshells.


This sounds unhealthy, it’s normal and appropriate to model emotions and reactions. It sounds like your child has major anxiety and attachment issues. So, this isn’t exactly a good example.
Anonymous
Post 02/06/2019 09:18     Subject: How do I become Daniel Tiger’s mom?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
When you get so mad that you want to roar, take a deep breath and count to four.

Start there, maybe?


Ha.... thank you, PP... been a *very* rough day, and I actually needed this!


Also, not even joking, "when you feel frustrated, take a deep break and ask for help." I literally tell myself this on the reg
Anonymous
Post 02/06/2019 07:10     Subject: How do I become Daniel Tiger’s mom?

Anonymous wrote:Everyone, it makes sense when you realize that Daniel Tiger is brought to you by the Rogers Foundation, who brought you... Mr. Rogers Neighborhood int he "olden days" when I was a kid....

So they are doing a cartoon (because nobody could take the place of Mr. Rogers, who has passed away) but still, they are intending to pass positive messages to the children (and, evidently, it works for the parents too!) They are doing it right if so many people want to emulate the parents....


Yes, captain obvious.
Anonymous
Post 02/06/2019 06:58     Subject: How do I become Daniel Tiger’s mom?

Anonymous wrote:It’s a show for preschoolers. Not an accurate representation of what parenting in the modern world entails.


Actually, I heard some of the producers from PBS on NPR, and they said they definitely try to model Mom and Dad Tiger’s “good” parenting behavior for parents who may be watching the show with their kids.