Anonymous wrote:I do, but I'm a woman, too.

Hot.

Do men and women define fantasy the same way? I don't have romantic scenarios that go on for 10 minutes with the MILFs from school, but thoughts about positions, sounds, facial expressions...hell yeah

Anonymous wrote:everyone keeps saying fantasize.... you LITERALLY fantasize about your wives' friends?! Not just a fleeting thought, but a full fantasy?

Well... I always feel kinda ashamed afterward if I jerk off while thinking about a friend's wife or girlfriend, but I won't say I've never done it...

Anonymous wrote:everyone keeps saying fantasize.... you LITERALLY fantasize about your wives' friends?! Not just a fleeting thought, but a full fantasy?

Can’t a fantasy be a fleeting thought?

everyone keeps saying fantasize.... you LITERALLY fantasize about your wives' friends?! Not just a fleeting thought, but a full fantasy?

A couple of MILFs of the teammates on my son's soccer team.

Men fantasize about every woman they find attractive, whether married to a friend or otherwise.

Anonymous wrote:Honestly they don't even need to be that attractive and we'll still fantasize.

Yep. A good friend's wife was never a fan because I was viewed as the guy that led him astray. So for a while it was the hate F fantasy. Then, she got a little heavy but we were at a pool party and her freckled boobs were hanging out. It was a feature I hadn't noticed. Now, that's where the mind goes.

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Anonymous wrote:Definitely, I am sure I speak for 99% of men. The other 1% are either lying or their wives don't have attractive friends.

I'm in the 1%
I got really lucky with my DW. She has an amazing body and still looks great, her friends don't even compare

My wife is definitely more attractive than some of the women, so that's not my standard. My wife wants nothing to do with talk in bed. She has friend's that, thru personality, seem like they'd be into it, so that's a factor.

I’m a woman, but there are definitely a few friends’ husbands I fantasize about, one in particular who is super fit, hot, and also fun to talk to. I imagine most men are the same.

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Anonymous wrote:These responses are grossing me out

I guess you'd rather be so unattractive that men never had sexual thoughts about you?

Uh, no I don’t want to be fantasized about by my friends’ husband. Ugh

If you are fat and ugly, your risk is minimal. Your personality won't lead anyone there, so that's not a concern.

Anonymous wrote:If you find them attractive? I feel like this is normal/common, but trying to settle a debate.

If you are asking ever, sure. If you are asking regularly, no. There isn't a women that I find attractive that I haven't imaged being with.

I do, but I'm a woman, too.

Once in awhile

Anonymous wrote:Having a child at 21 is not such a big deal.

I had two kids by age 21 though this was in ‘92.

Times haven’t changed THAT much since then.

No WAY would I have even considered having two kids by 21 ...