So, OP, did you brother also have veto rights over all of your BF's and your choice of husband?

If not, then butt the h*ll out. It is not your right to approve or disapprove of his choice of gf, fiance or wife. You can choose to be a B about it but then if he is wise, he'll just cut you, the dysfunctional one, out of his life and live with the person who is better for him, e.g. the girlfriend/wife.

Anonymous wrote:She must be prettier and thinner than you.

This is absolutely true

Is the current girlfriend not pretty?
What career did the ex girlfriend have?

Afraid you will get hurt again, should this relationship not work?

Not willing to get close, so you will just sit back and find faults?

Anonymous wrote:I’m awful. Whatever. I don’t see why he couldn’t make things work with his ex. She was nice, smart, pretty and got along with us too.

This has to be a troll.

I reek with your dh.

I can’t believe you criticized her cookies.

Please back off before you damage your relationship with your brother. My ILs gave me hell and our relationship never recovered. Keep this up and you will be sorry in the end.

Anonymous wrote:I’m awful. Whatever. I don’t see why he couldn’t make things work with his ex. She was nice, smart, pretty and got along with us too.

You must be really really young. Don't worry one day when you grow up you'll understand. Leave the adult stuff for the adults.

You are so jealous of her. This is NOT about you! She sounds lovely and I am happy for your brother. You should listen to your husband and leave her alone. You have EVERYTHING to lose and nothing to gain. Please see a therapist before you ruin many lives through your meanness and insecurities. You are so cruel.

It's OK, OP. She seemed like a great person. But the reality is, she didn't like back door action. And so this new relationship is a better "fit." Your brother is super happy now. Yay!

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m awful. Whatever. I don’t see why he couldn’t make things work with his ex. She was nice, smart, pretty and got along with us too.

If you like his ex so much, why don't YOU marry her? You could totally make things work with her. She is nice, smart, pretty, and gets along with your family, too.

Don’t be stupid. They were together 2.5 years. She was like family. I was close to her and now we barely talk. I don’t think an explanation is unreasonable.

and this is related to the new girlfriend how?

Anonymous wrote:I’m awful. Whatever. I don’t see why he couldn’t make things work with his ex. She was nice, smart, pretty and got along with us too.

What difference does it make? He didn't want to be with her anymore.

Anonymous wrote:I call troll.

winner winner chicken dinner.

Jesus, OP. All that should matter is your brother’s happiness. Be grateful he’s with someone who wants his family to like her. There’s a disturbing note of jealousy in your post. It’s coming across very odd and borderline incestuous. You should not be this involved or care this much about who your brother is dating. Butt out and don’t try to poison your parents against her. Take a look at your own life and try to figure out why you’re feeling what you’re feeling. It’s not normal.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m awful. Whatever. I don’t see why he couldn’t make things work with his ex. She was nice, smart, pretty and got along with us too.

If you like his ex so much, why don't YOU marry her? You could totally make things work with her. She is nice, smart, pretty, and gets along with your family, too.

Don’t be stupid. They were together 2.5 years. She was like family. I was close to her and now we barely talk. I don’t think an explanation is unreasonable.

The issue is that you became too emotionally invested after 2.5yrs to someone your brother was not married to. No one is stopping you from starting a friendship with her just because she’s not dating your brother anymore.