Eh, done now. Op will come back and say it was donderfuo, and the harridans on here he never wanted to listen to anyway we’re overreacting.

Anonymous wrote:My daughter is handling it very well. She has a lot of support from family and I have an amazing nanny who adores dd and has been so supportive of me and dd

You’re an f’ing idiot. Determined to do what you want to do no matter how much it hurts your child. Sounds a lot like your selfish ex, actually. You want what yiu want even though there is 100% concensus that meeting your new girlfriend now is going to hurt your kid.

Anonymous wrote:Decided they will meet on Thursday. I know they will get on great and she already loves my dd from what she has seen. My dd is sociable and friendly and I know her best. I am confident this will work out well

Bet you were confident your first marriage would work out well too.

Seriously, OP, why did you ask for advice at all? You are completely obtuse.

Can't imagine why your wife strayed, given how obtuse you are. Why ask for advice when it's clear you don't want it, you refuse to acknowledge the possibility that it may not work out as you plan, and that it might not be best for your daughter? You, you, you.