Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:She's interested in someone else.
Yup, she's having an affair.
OP here. I don't think this is actively having an affair (I did ask and she said no) but she may have someone in mind. When we were growing up, she was the girl who always had another boyfriend waiting in the wings before she dumped the first one.
I just can't get over the fact that she thinks her marriage is something to be trashed. From the outside, it looks great and from what she says, it is great. Maybe they don't have sex as often as she'd like but I personally don't feel that is something to divorce over. Shrug.
Anonymous wrote:After years of Marrage I just tollerate my wife.
The sex is blah.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:It’s stupid and short sighted. Newness wears off any relationship. Romantic or new friend ones. What remains the the close bond and trust and some physical attraction since the person knows you like no one else. I’ve been married 6 years with one toddler. I’m not “in love” with my husband in ge butterfly sense. But I love him deeply, we have satisfying sex, sometimes exciting, we trust eatchotber and he’s the person that I want to tell everything to and want in my space next to me for everything. And when the toddler is with grandma we get a chance to reignite a little bit it’s based on how we know we felt when it was super new and unknown.
What if you want all that PLUS the giddy, butterflies, I can't keep my hands off you feeling?
Is that realistic for any long term couple?
Anonymous wrote:She may be having a mid-life crisis.
Was he her first love?
Perhaps she wants to experience that “giddy, schoolgirl...Butterflies in the stomach feeling” that usually happens when a romance is brand-new.
But considering there are two young children in the equation, her life isn’t all about her and only her.
Plus what if the other side consists of nothing but weeds + dead grass......??!
She would have broken up an entire family already.