Anonymous wrote:
That is the magic age when a rape victim is no longer a victim of a crime?
Anonymous wrote:
She was 34 years old and she's not the first teacher or other adult that has been propositioned and chased by a minor with raging hormones and a body popping after puberty. It is the adult's responsibility to understand how wrong it is to give in to such propositions and pressures. It was no more right for her to prey upon him at his tender age (sexually mature and aggressive or not) than it is for a male teacher to prey upon a sexually mature and aggressive 12 or 13 year old girl. It's disgusting and reprehensible. The additional crime is that she was given a lighter sentence than would have been given had she been male. It's also despicable that she is unrepentant and feels that she was wrongly convicted. No remorse. And still no understanding that she is so morally bankrupt.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:She's a predator and should have no contact with children, including her own.
Her children are in their 20’s and 30’s. Should she not be allowed contact with them?
She should be locked up behind bars and she should not be allowed to be around children including her own grandchildren when and if her kids ever have children.
Personally, I do not think that she should be around that young man or their daughters. The level of dysfunction there is very twisted.
That young man is 34 years old.
That is the magic age when a rape victim is no longer a victim of a crime?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:She may not be the victim from the strictly legal perspective, but she was definitely victimized.
She is a pedophile predator wrapped in the package of a feminine woman. You see a girl so you must think that this was somehow not her fault?
Are you able to convince yourself that her male victim is now victimizing her? Serious question.
I think she's victimized by the process, by the tabloid media, and yes, even to some extent by her "victim", yes.
The young man was only a victim in the strictest legal sense of the word. He was a minor. He certainly didn't act like a victim, he was a willing partner in the relationship. The only thing that made him a "victim" was the law.
Would a man in the same circumstances be a victim? No. He'd be a sexual predator. Because men and women are different. Period. That's reality.
So I can come over and have sex with your middle schlooler is what you’re saying?
Assuming you're relatively attractive and fit/in shape, my 11th grader would almost certainly be sexually attracted to you. As would most of his friends. If you offered him the opportunity, I'm certain he would have sex with you. Have you ever had a teenage son? They're literally walking erections. It's simple biology.
Would I approve of him having sex with you? Not really, because I'd like to see him with someone his own age. But I wouldn't think for a minute that he'd pass up an opportunity to have sex with you if it presented. Boys are just that way. For them, it's just another form of masturbation.
Solo interview with Faulaau wrote:In a solo interview, Fualaau said that what she did was legally "wrong," and added that they "maybe should have waited" to have a physical relationship. "I think about it, could I have ever done that, could I have ever been with a girl that's 13 years old right now and I don't see myself doing it," the now-35-year-old said.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:She may not be the victim from the strictly legal perspective, but she was definitely victimized.
She is a pedophile predator wrapped in the package of a feminine woman. You see a girl so you must think that this was somehow not her fault?
Are you able to convince yourself that her male victim is now victimizing her? Serious question.
I think she's victimized by the process, by the tabloid media, and yes, even to some extent by her "victim", yes.
The young man was only a victim in the strictest legal sense of the word. He was a minor. He certainly didn't act like a victim, he was a willing partner in the relationship. The only thing that made him a "victim" was the law.
Would a man in the same circumstances be a victim? No. He'd be a sexual predator. Because men and women are different. Period. That's reality.
So I can come over and have sex with your middle schlooler is what you’re saying?
Assuming you're relatively attractive and fit/in shape, my 11th grader would almost certainly be sexually attracted to you. As would most of his friends. If you offered him the opportunity, I'm certain he would have sex with you. Have you ever had a teenage son? They're literally walking erections. It's simple biology.
Would I approve of him having sex with you? Not really, because I'd like to see him with someone his own age. But I wouldn't think for a minute that he'd pass up an opportunity to have sex with you if it presented. Boys are just that way. For them, it's just another form of masturbation.
So the answer to the question is no since the question asks about a middle schooler and you are talking about your high schooler... or would that be ok with you too because it's just "simple biology"?
(I am equally grossed out by Mary Kay and this response.)
I don't HAVE a middle schooler. It's been three years since I did. But even then, he was rather mature for his age.
You find your own affirmations of your argument in whatever people say, so it doesn't matter what I think.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Wasn't he in the sixth grade? She is absolutely a pedophile. She is only a victim of her sorry self. He is still being abused. Poor children. I hope someone is keeping an eye on them.
He was in second grade when she began to groom him, giving him private piano lessons, I think.
She's a monster.
Ok, I think she’s a sicko, but how do you know that she was giving him piano lessons with the intention of “grooming” him?
She created trust in that boy and then molested him and raped him. I'd say that is proof of her intentions.
And the scary thing is she sees nothing at all wrong with what she did.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:She may not be the victim from the strictly legal perspective, but she was definitely victimized.
She is a pedophile predator wrapped in the package of a feminine woman. You see a girl so you must think that this was somehow not her fault?
Are you able to convince yourself that her male victim is now victimizing her? Serious question.
I think she's victimized by the process, by the tabloid media, and yes, even to some extent by her "victim", yes.
The young man was only a victim in the strictest legal sense of the word. He was a minor. He certainly didn't act like a victim, he was a willing partner in the relationship. The only thing that made him a "victim" was the law.
Would a man in the same circumstances be a victim? No. He'd be a sexual predator. Because men and women are different. Period. That's reality.
So I can come over and have sex with your middle schlooler is what you’re saying?
Assuming you're relatively attractive and fit/in shape, my 11th grader would almost certainly be sexually attracted to you. As would most of his friends. If you offered him the opportunity, I'm certain he would have sex with you. Have you ever had a teenage son? They're literally walking erections. It's simple biology.
Would I approve of him having sex with you? Not really, because I'd like to see him with someone his own age. But I wouldn't think for a minute that he'd pass up an opportunity to have sex with you if it presented. Boys are just that way. For them, it's just another form of masturbation.
Anonymous wrote:
12 year old kids still need to get hall passes from their teachers to go to the bathroom. A 12 year old kid is not ever mature enough, under any circumstances, to have sex with their middle aged teacher. The fact that you seem to be seeing this as a gray area....is really alarming.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:She's a predator and should have no contact with children, including her own.
Her children are in their 20’s and 30’s. Should she not be allowed contact with them?
She should be locked up behind bars and she should not be allowed to be around children including her own grandchildren when and if her kids ever have children.
Personally, I do not think that she should be around that young man or their daughters. The level of dysfunction there is very twisted.
That young man is 34 years old.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:She's a predator and should have no contact with children, including her own.
Her children are in their 20’s and 30’s. Should she not be allowed contact with them?
She should be locked up behind bars and she should not be allowed to be around children including her own grandchildren when and if her kids ever have children.
Personally, I do not think that she should be around that young man or their daughters. The level of dysfunction there is very twisted.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Wasn't he in the sixth grade? She is absolutely a pedophile. She is only a victim of her sorry self. He is still being abused. Poor children. I hope someone is keeping an eye on them.
He was in second grade when she began to groom him, giving him private piano lessons, I think.
She's a monster.
Ok, I think she’s a sicko, but how do you know that she was giving him piano lessons with the intention of “grooming” him?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Wasn't he in the sixth grade? She is absolutely a pedophile. She is only a victim of her sorry self. He is still being abused. Poor children. I hope someone is keeping an eye on them.
They’re in their twenties!
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Wasn't he in the sixth grade? She is absolutely a pedophile. She is only a victim of her sorry self. He is still being abused. Poor children. I hope someone is keeping an eye on them.
He was in second grade when she began to groom him, giving him private piano lessons, I think.
She's a monster.
Anonymous wrote:Wasn't he in the sixth grade? She is absolutely a pedophile. She is only a victim of her sorry self. He is still being abused. Poor children. I hope someone is keeping an eye on them.