Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Where are women over 45 supposed to shop? I don’t want to dress like my tween daughter.
Amen!
I am not afraid to dress for my age. As I get older, I don't mind spending more for quality, comfort and style.
My phases of; finding myself, finding a man, having babies are over. It's ridiculous to dress like one. I do not need to advertise like a flower to a bee.
Maybe your sex drive died at age 49, but mine didn't.
Anonymous wrote:Simply, really: because their clothes are frumpy and unfashionable.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:PP, yes, you are missing something. Look at the fit of those pants. There’s no style to that, and no decent fit if you are in decent shape.
It’s still frump wear IMO. Those getting all up in their feelings about how they can find amazing things anywhere: I doubt it. The reason brands like J Brand or similar ever got play was because the fit and therefore the look is superior. Unless you’re a pretty gifted tailor or have one, dumpy trousers don’t look like pants designed to fit, not hide.
The Chicos sizing must have been developed as an ego balm. You’re not a size 14, you’re a 2.5! Now drape yourself in long necklaces like a saloon lampshade. Much style!
Or just different style from you. I imagine you in your skinny jeans, piece-y, beachy highlighted hair that you pay dearly for (and it’s just starting to look a little too dried out lately), looking down your snout at people. Neither the Chico’s style nor the Talbots one really speak me, but I can acknowledge that there’s room for more than one style on the planet. I can also acknowledge the ageism and classism that makes these two brands come in for so much scorn here.
Anonymous wrote:They're fine. Currently, Talbots has a lot of styles that could easily have come from an Ann Taylor or J. Crew.
The frump store is Christopher & Banks.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Where are women over 45 supposed to shop? I don’t want to dress like my tween daughter.
I'm 49, here are my favorite black work pants:
https://neimanmarcus.scene7.com/is/image/NeimanMarcus/NMTB2QW_01_m?&wid=456&height=570
They are Milly. Fit beautifully. They look classic and expensive.
There you go. Talbots sells nothing that falls like these pants.
Different strokes for different folks, but I would never wear those. I also can't afford Milly unless on deep discount.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Where are women over 45 supposed to shop? I don’t want to dress like my tween daughter.
Amen!
I am not afraid to dress for my age. As I get older, I don't mind spending more for quality, comfort and style.
My phases of; finding myself, finding a man, having babies are over. It's ridiculous to dress like one. I do not need to advertise like a flower to a bee.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:It’s just that the overall style of those stores is for middle-aged to older women. But you can find some decent items there.
So it's basically self inflicted misogyny? All women age, too, whether you like it or not.
Anonymous wrote:I hate Talbots style, but love their quality. I have few pieces that lasts forever. They are similar to Brooks Brothers in the quality. Normally, I dress up more liberal and prefer a lot of brands from Denmark, however, I find accasional pieces in Talbots that i like.
Here is my recent find, very good quality and nice cut (the photo doesn't show, but it has buttons on the back all way down):
https://www.talbots.com/online/blouses-and-shirts/white/tie-sleeve-poplin-popover-prdi44983/N-10157+4294966752+3149254506+426484664?selectedConcept=&akamai-feo=off
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Where are women over 45 supposed to shop? I don’t want to dress like my tween daughter.
I'm 49, here are my favorite black work pants:
https://neimanmarcus.scene7.com/is/image/NeimanMarcus/NMTB2QW_01_m?&wid=456&height=570
They are Milly. Fit beautifully. They look classic and expensive.
There you go. Talbots sells nothing that falls like these pants.
Different strokes for different folks, but I would never wear those. I also can't afford Milly unless on deep discount.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Where are women over 45 supposed to shop? I don’t want to dress like my tween daughter.
I'm 49, here are my favorite black work pants:
https://neimanmarcus.scene7.com/is/image/NeimanMarcus/NMTB2QW_01_m?&wid=456&height=570
They are Milly. Fit beautifully. They look classic and expensive.
There you go. Talbots sells nothing that falls like these pants.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I think of Talbots and Chicos as frumpy clothes my MIL would wear. I wouldn't be caught dead in them either!
Okay, so maybe you are young-ish now... But what will you wear after 50?
Psst, please do not become one of those old women wearing teen clothes. It's so uncool.![]()