Anonymous wrote:12:29, those are good schools. Perhaps not the top 3 but those are all going to give a great education. I am a public and private school veteran and will tell you that those of us who decide to go private generally consider publics--any publics--less desirable. My public was a W cluster and my private was one of the schools that probably has some openings. My education and experiences at that private were far better than at the public and to be frank, the overall success of my classmates from the private school is on a totally different level than what came from the W school.
As for political relationships, as a private school veteran, there have been relatives and children of politicians and famous people at all of the schools listed so for those of us who have attended, we are not so dazzled by the presence of a child of a president or vice president or congressman or pro athlete---regardless of the political party. Those kids are just kids and their parents are doing what they think is best for them and that is what parents do. And to their classmates, they are simply classmates.
And lastly, for those of you who keep touting MCPS, please stop. I, for one, felt like my early education in public school in MCPS was great and tried that for my kids. For two years. And then we went private. It is a huge and hard decision to make that move but once a family makes that decision, there is no benefit to keep arguing the equivalency or superiority of public. We already had those discussions internally---for most people the cost and inconvenience of going to private school instead of the neighborhood school is a matter about which much thought has been given and is usually done knowing that to a certain crowd it will only ever be viewed as elitist. For most people it is about education plain and simple and how to ensure that their kids get the best education. There are no guarantees but the constant attempts to convince private school parents that publics are an option is absurd. We know it is an option and have decided against it. Let us alone and go back to your forum.
I completely agree. We are likely going to try public and if we end up in private, it will be the result of bad experiences and a ton of thought and consideration. It comes with a lot of sacrifices (financial and social) but ultimately the quality of the kid’s education is what’s most important. For many people, the first choice would be a high quality public school, and if they choose to give that up, it’s not without a lot of careful consideration.