Anonymous wrote:We are in the upper grades at Powell. We have play dates with Black, White, Hispanic, and other races. Please don't let one comment scare you away from a great school and a great community. Check it out for yourself.

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Anonymous wrote:Does the discussion here even really apply generally to a school like Powell? I say that because they have like 8-10 total black students in each grade, which is pretty different from most of DCPS.

This is making me very nervous. I am applying to Powell because it is close to our home and I am very interested in dual language. I find DC really tough(er) for little black children due to the segregation and the stereotypes. Even though my kids are little, 2 and 4 and I go out of my way to make sure they are in diverse schools/activities, we generally end up segregated anyway even at the playground and I can only imagine it's because we are mostly the only black kids at our activities and that (some,most?) white parents seem uncomfortable engaging conversations with me? I honestly cannot tell for sure but it makes me very sad for my kids.
If Powell is not a comfortable place for UMC black children, I would rather sacrifice dual language for a school that is more welcoming to them.
As I was considering Bancroft because it is more diverse than many schools in the area, a good friend of mine (white European) told me, well the school is diverse but kids don't really mix much by race because her kid mostly gets playdates with other white parents and she doesn't understand why. That makes me really sad. I sure hope the so called liberals can do some self reflection on how some are inadvertently being very exclusive of black children and how it affects them in their lives. Anyway, sorry for drifting the conversation but this makes me really sad. I am a black mother, not American but have lived here in a long time. Now as a mom, I am noticing more that the white nationalists don't like (fine! at least they're honest) and that liberals only like us from afar, don't mix with my children, don't play with us. Be nice, be inclusive. Children don't understand yet the difference so it's the parents leading the way. Thanks for reading. End of rambling.

Not the point of your post, but unless you’re inbound for Powell or Bancroft, you aren’t going to get in. (You only said you live close to Powell, not that you’re IB.)

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Anonymous wrote:Does the discussion here even really apply generally to a school like Powell? I say that because they have like 8-10 total black students in each grade, which is pretty different from most of DCPS.

This is making me very nervous. I am applying to Powell because it is close to our home and I am very interested in dual language. I find DC really tough(er) for little black children due to the segregation and the stereotypes. Even though my kids are little, 2 and 4 and I go out of my way to make sure they are in diverse schools/activities, we generally end up segregated anyway even at the playground and I can only imagine it's because we are mostly the only black kids at our activities and that (some,most?) white parents seem uncomfortable engaging conversations with me? I honestly cannot tell for sure but it makes me very sad for my kids.
If Powell is not a comfortable place for UMC black children, I would rather sacrifice dual language for a school that is more welcoming to them.
As I was considering Bancroft because it is more diverse than many schools in the area, a good friend of mine (white European) told me, well the school is diverse but kids don't really mix much by race because her kid mostly gets playdates with other white parents and she doesn't understand why. That makes me really sad. I sure hope the so called liberals can do some self reflection on how some are inadvertently being very exclusive of black children and how it affects them in their lives. Anyway, sorry for drifting the conversation but this makes me really sad. I am a black mother, not American but have lived here in a long time. Now as a mom, I am noticing more that the white nationalists don't like (fine! at least they're honest) and that liberals only like us from afar, don't mix with my children, don't play with us. Be nice, be inclusive. Children don't understand yet the difference so it's the parents leading the way. Thanks for reading. End of rambling.

My child has no social issues at Powell, neither do I. We have play dates with other black kids, white kids, and a few Hispanic kids. I really think it depends on how you put yourself out there. I also know or have met most of the other middle class black families and none of them have had issues with their child’s interactions with the “other” black children.

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Anonymous wrote:Does the discussion here even really apply generally to a school like Powell? I say that because they have like 8-10 total black students in each grade, which is pretty different from most of DCPS.

This is making me very nervous. I am applying to Powell because it is close to our home and I am very interested in dual language. I find DC really tough(er) for little black children due to the segregation and the stereotypes. Even though my kids are little, 2 and 4 and I go out of my way to make sure they are in diverse schools/activities, we generally end up segregated anyway even at the playground and I can only imagine it's because we are mostly the only black kids at our activities and that (some,most?) white parents seem uncomfortable engaging conversations with me? I honestly cannot tell for sure but it makes me very sad for my kids.
If Powell is not a comfortable place for UMC black children, I would rather sacrifice dual language for a school that is more welcoming to them.
As I was considering Bancroft because it is more diverse than many schools in the area, a good friend of mine (white European) told me, well the school is diverse but kids don't really mix much by race because her kid mostly gets playdates with other white parents and she doesn't understand why. That makes me really sad. I sure hope the so called liberals can do some self reflection on how some are inadvertently being very exclusive of black children and how it affects them in their lives. Anyway, sorry for drifting the conversation but this makes me really sad. I am a black mother, not American but have lived here in a long time. Now as a mom, I am noticing more that the white nationalists don't like (fine! at least they're honest) and that liberals only like us from afar, don't mix with my children, don't play with us. Be nice, be inclusive. Children don't understand yet the difference so it's the parents leading the way. Thanks for reading. End of rambling.

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Anonymous wrote:Does the discussion here even really apply generally to a school like Powell? I say that because they have like 8-10 total black students in each grade, which is pretty different from most of DCPS.

This is making me very nervous. I am applying to Powell because it is close to our home and I am very interested in dual language. I find DC really tough(er) for little black children due to the segregation and the stereotypes. Even though my kids are little, 2 and 4 and I go out of my way to make sure they are in diverse schools/activities, we generally end up segregated anyway even at the playground and I can only imagine it's because we are mostly the only black kids at our activities and that (some,most?) white parents seem uncomfortable engaging conversations with me? I honestly cannot tell for sure but it makes me very sad for my kids.
If Powell is not a comfortable place for UMC black children, I would rather sacrifice dual language for a school that is more welcoming to them.
As I was considering Bancroft because it is more diverse than many schools in the area, a good friend of mine (white European) told me, well the school is diverse but kids don't really mix much by race because her kid mostly gets playdates with other white parents and she doesn't understand why. That makes me really sad. I sure hope the so called liberals can do some self reflection on how some are inadvertently being very exclusive of black children and how it affects them in their lives. Anyway, sorry for drifting the conversation but this makes me really sad. I am a black mother, not American but have lived here in a long time. Now as a mom, I am noticing more that the white nationalists don't like (fine! at least they're honest) and that liberals only like us from afar, don't mix with my children, don't play with us. Be nice, be inclusive. Children don't understand yet the difference so it's the parents leading the way. Thanks for reading. End of rambling.

Anonymous wrote:Does the discussion here even really apply generally to a school like Powell? I say that because they have like 8-10 total black students in each grade, which is pretty different from most of DCPS.

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Anonymous wrote:What makes it difficult for black families at Powell? The understand that the school is much more Hispanic than most of DC. Is that part of it?

No. The Hispanic majority isn’t the issue. The issue is that Black kids socialized in a more urban environment don’t interact well with the “gentrifying” Black kids and the administration is ill equipped to provide a safe learning environment.

What school do you belive to be best for gentrifying black families or families of black children?

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Anonymous wrote:What makes it difficult for black families at Powell? The understand that the school is much more Hispanic than most of DC. Is that part of it?

No. The Hispanic majority isn’t the issue. The issue is that Black kids socialized in a more urban environment don’t interact well with the “gentrifying” Black kids and the administration is ill equipped to provide a safe learning environment.

What school do you belive to be best for gentrifying black families or families of black children?

I work in an office of almost all upperclass black families in DC, everything single one of them moved to burbs when their kids started school or put them privates in DC. Upper class black families have fled DC schools way faster than white families in the last 15 years. UC black families don't want their kids lumped in with the more lower class black kids and their legit behavioral and learning issues. White families seem to just lump this all in as "diversity" and think its good for their kids, until about 4th grade.

We aren't a "black family" by its definition as one parent is another race, but both points are true. My mom sent us to an OOB school (West) and we both went to privates in Montgomery County.

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Anonymous wrote:What makes it difficult for black families at Powell? The understand that the school is much more Hispanic than most of DC. Is that part of it?

No. The Hispanic majority isn’t the issue. The issue is that Black kids socialized in a more urban environment don’t interact well with the “gentrifying” Black kids and the administration is ill equipped to provide a safe learning environment.

What school do you belive to be best for gentrifying black families or families of black children?

I work in an office of almost all upperclass black families in DC, everything single one of them moved to burbs when their kids started school or put them privates in DC. Upper class black families have fled DC schools way faster than white families in the last 15 years. UC black families don't want their kids lumped in with the more lower class black kids and their legit behavioral and learning issues. White families seem to just lump this all in as "diversity" and think its good for their kids, until about 4th grade.