Anonymous wrote:We have been having discussions about sex and how to handle herself. She asked me to get her some condoms as part of our Amazon order - so I did. I took her to my GYN for a checkup and she made her own appointments to get an IUD but also consulted with me about it.
I don't know why people think this is helicoptering - they may be adults on paper but they can still use our counsel on certain things. I don't have any feeling about parents being proactive and packing condoms but for goodness sake find out if they even know where to go for condoms and how to protect themselves, not just physically but also emotionally.
Ordering for your kid because they asked while you happen to be on amazon, or picking up their prescription on your way home from work is WAY different than OP packing for her adult child heading off to college and debating whether or not to stick condoms in her suitcase.
It is helicoptering at its finest.